The BFP Before The 'Would Of Been' Due Date Thread - Any Joiners?

[ttcbabyisom]

Sorry I've been quiet. I've been in tremendous pain. My hypermobility has result in a rib being damaged badly so I can barely move or breathe or laugh without agony because of baby/uterus pushing on it. I'll probably have to be admitted into hospital for specialist care because all the pain relief which I can take and they are throwing at me won't touch it. Feeling glum about it all but have to keep reminding myself it's all for my rainbow

That sucks to hear girlinyork! I'm sorry! Hang in there!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

ttc nice to see you again, did you ever get any tests or results from the doc regarding your losses? I hope you get a bfp that stays nice and stuck this month.

Yeah, everything came back normal chromosomally on the babies so that was good. Finally done with the weekly blood draws for HCG levels and they are negative now so went in for my 12 vials of tests and got those results back last week. They wanted to do two more tests a few days ago for further answers and i should get those results tomorrow. She said nothing screamed out at her but one did show I have MTHFR. My friend and I just teased about that one the other day because it sounds funny…you know…reminds you of the bad word. It’s a folic acid absorption problem that can cause clotting issues. Yay! We might have our answer and I think this is treatable! She said most of the other panels came up negative but couple areas of slight concern so that’s why they wanted to do the two further tests. So I should know more tomorrow. Also, think I finally started my period today after a long 61-day cycle post-miscarriage. Time to start fresh and get back to "trying"!

Hope you are doing well too!!!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Ttc- yes so far so good, I think....
I did have a UTI, as it turned out. Caught it real early though.
I have not had anymore tan cm. I'm really starting to think it's just a sensitive cervix. I don't even think it was "old blood",, wasn't brown enough. Next Thursday I go in for another scan, can't wait, should be able to hear the hb this time, not just see it.

Good luck for hearing heartbeat!!!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Thats beautiful and made me cry.

I cried too, Army.

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Not baby related-I am hurt beyond words right now. I made a bad financial decision last week that I am doing all I can to reverse. My husband has decided to open another checking account without me and basically give me and our children just enough funds to pay bills and survive on. All my plans for going back to college and buying anything for this baby after this month have been put through the shredder. I feel we are one step away from legal separation.

Oh no! I'm so sorry Army. Ugh...

 

[lomelly]

I'm sorry to hear, army don't beat yourself up most of us have made a bad judgement call, I know I have

 

[girlinyork]

Armywife,you need a serious word with him. Cutting a spouse from having enough money and only issuing a small allowance is financial abuse! There's loads of info online about it if you want to look it up. Allowing him to do that sets a bad precedent and opens doors for all others sorts of inequality and control. You raise his children instead of working so you are just as entitled to the family money as he is!

 

[Kelly9]

TTC any news about those last results? They were due in today right? I sure hope it's all easily treatable!

Army that sounds horrible, we all make mistakes. I hope he smartens up.

 

[armymama2012]

We worked through it. He apologized. He is still going to setup the secondary account but I will have access to both accounts.

 

[girlinyork]

We worked through it. He apologized. He is still going to setup the secondary account but I will have access to both accounts.

I'm so glad he cooled off and you came to a compromise x

 

[Angel wings13]

Glad you guys worked it out army mama!
Idk if I missed it, but did your baby flip over yet? Sorry if I'm re asking what's been answered...

Ttc- hope you got some answers. Sounds like the issue is treatable!

 

[armymama2012]

We don't have proof yet but both me and my OB are 80% sure that the baby did flip. Will know for sure one way or the other on Wednesday.

 

[carebear1981]

Aww. I can imagine that's great he's doing so well!! Enjoy every minute!!
The weathers been gorgeous. My fiance and I have been having dinner on the deck every night. Wedding plans seem to be going smoothly. We argue over little details lol and spending but its fun. There's so many little details you don't think about and ugh, so much money being spent. Oh well. 5 and a half months left till it I'm so excited!

So much to buy isn't there!! My friend just spent 36,000 and my jaw just dropped.. I'm too much of a tight wad!
What are your wedding colours?

Wow, 36000!! We are so trying to stay under 25000 and even that is too much! Our colours are purple and black&white

 

[Angel wings13]

We don't have proof yet but both me and my OB are 80% sure that the baby did flip. Will know for sure one way or the other on Wednesday.

Fx for you!

Had my second scan today and feel much better! I'm measuring dead on and the heart beat was strong at 178 and we got to hear it today! My
Pictures are blurry cuz this bean was wriggling so much!
I think he/she knew they were "on camera" and wanted to show off lol. Both my boys were major dancers in there too! Although I didn't get early scans with them....looks like a gummi bear with arms going up and down and feet stomping...

 

[3xBlessed]

Glad you have some answers TTC and glad it sounds treatable...always feels good to have a plan!

Excellent news about your scan Angel Wings!!!

AFM, I have my uterine biopsy scheduled for May 31st...that's pretty much that last test to see if there is any reason for my losses...everything else was negative. Insurance denied IVF since I haven't done IUI...stupid b/c I don't have a problem getting pregnant...apparently they'd like me to do IUI a few times and have some more losses before they'll approve IVF...
I'm really in a pissy mood b/c my principal told me today that he is changing my grade level against my wishes even though he knows of all my losses in this past year. Uncaring jerk.

 

[armymama2012]

I'm sorry that your boss is a jerk Blessed. I'm sorry your insurance is being finicky too.

 

[MissMummyMoo]

Congrats on the scan Angel, so glad everything is going ok

Sorry about the principal hun is there anyway you can sit down and discuss it with him and ask him to reconsider? X

 

[Angel wings13]

Glad you have some answers TTC and glad it sounds treatable...always feels good to have a plan!

Excellent news about your scan Angel Wings!!!

AFM, I have my uterine biopsy scheduled for May 31st...that's pretty much that last test to see if there is any reason for my losses...everything else was negative. Insurance denied IVF since I haven't done IUI...stupid b/c I don't have a problem getting pregnant...apparently they'd like me to do IUI a few times and have some more losses before they'll approve IVF...
I'm really in a pissy mood b/c my principal told me today that he is changing my grade level against my wishes even though he knows of all my losses in this past year. Uncaring jerk.

I've had a boss similar....

Maybe it will be an easy fix like fibroids. I don't remember (lately my memory sucks lol) if I mentioned on this thread or not, but I have a manager that kept having losses, they did the uterine biopsy and it turned out she had fibroids. They scraped them out and she got pregnant within a month, and is now nearing the end of 2nd trimester!
they can't always see those on ultrasound - good luck, and according to my doctor, he said if you ovulate and get pregnant, that's great, that's the hardest things to fix - almost anything
Else has a treatment or cure

 

[Angel wings13]

Congrats on the scan Angel, so glad everything is going ok

Sorry about the principal hun is there anyway you can sit down and discuss it with him and ask him to reconsider? X

Thank you! I was so glad to see clearly this time, as opposed to the almost transparent pic last time - it was much better live, the still shots are blurry, but even looking at the blurry pics I can remember exactly what I saw....

 

[Angel wings13]

Btw, MMM- your son is just precious!

Can't wait to find out what sex I'm having