Slight rant here ladies, but I need to vent before heading to work and dealing with these insensitive jerks!
Got to work a couple of days ago and found out one of the girls I work with is expecting in Feb. it was an unplanned, not very anticipated pregnancy. One of the other girls is due about 5 weeks before her, my day starts off with my boss making a comment all-be-it jokingly I hope, that no one else is allowed to get pregnant before the first of the year. My boss is my DH's BFF so he knows we're actively trying and not having much success, this annoys me, but I try to keep our outside relationship out of work and a our working relationship out of our off time visits, so I say nothing, just fume a bit for a next few days. Then to top it off the girl is due in Feb asks me if I will make her baby shower cake, if I'm still working there in January, which she knows I will be because I'm likely taking over the other girls duties while she is on maternity. Then yesterday the other girls tells me she wants me to make hers and the 2 of them bicker over whose I will make like I'm freaking toy and they are 5. A) I have not agreed to make either cake, as these are simply work associates not people I socialize with outside of work, and I usually only make cakes for people I love and care about.
B) They both know for a fact I'm trying to have a baby and it has not been easy for me.
Why does this annoy me so much?
I know I should be annoyed with the boss, but hopefully he was just joking, as he knows the story and has stated he does numerous times when dealing with paperwork for time off requests for dr appointments and such.
Perhaps I'm just over sensitive because I got another BFN this month and just finished another round of clomid and this week is the week I should ovulate and since we have 2 girls out on vacation I'm covering shifts and have been too tired to BD!
Sorry for the vent y'all, been a long week and it's only Wednesday!