Disneyfan88
Mommy of 2
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Thanks for the tips and encouragement, ladies! Pumping is hard work, and it's often hard to pump with a little one to look after and no one else home during the day. There have been many times when I've resented having to pump, but then I look at my baby girl and know that it's worth it for her. The middle of the night pumping is the hardest one for me, especially now that my daughter seems to be sleeping for longer stretches at night. My husband is looking forward to being able to leave the house for longer stretches, too. I will pump away from the house when I need to, but I prefer using the larger Medela Symphony pump over my portable Pump in Style one, and I'm not really a fan of pumping in the car. I applaud you ladies who have been able to do this long-term.
there are LOTS of time's where I resented pumping! My advice is try and make it enjoyable when you can. For instance when I'm at work and have to pump I watch Netflix on my computer. Started a TV show series I always wanted to watch but never had time for. You're chained to the pump and can't do anything else so why not indulge a little...read a book, watch an episode of a TV show, paint your nails, ect..assuming you have a hands free bra. If not you def need one, I made my own. As for leaving the house for longer periods my husband actually bought me a car charger for my pump. So If we were going to be gone for a long time I'd just pump in the back seat while we were driving to the next place. In the early months I would pump right before we left the house. For instance, my mom would come over to watch the baby so me and DH could have a date day. I would pump right before we left, we would go to a movie or the mall or whatever then I would pump in the car as we drove to the restaurant.
May I ask why you were unable to feed directly from the breast?
I have a hands free pumping bra. I think I'd lose my mind without one. Unfortunately, my flow doesn't seem very productive most of the time unless I'm actively doing compressions throughout the entire session. I follow similar practices when we leave the house -- pumping right before it's time to go, and pumping from the backseat if necessary. I bought a poncho-style nursing coverup that gives me more coverage than the typical apron-style ones.
BF didn't work out very well for us. My daughter had a difficult time latching because I have inverted/flat nipples (nipple shields didn't help). I also had difficulty producing milk, and DD kept getting very frustrated whenever she tried to feed and wasn't getting anything for her efforts. She started losing too much weight while we were still in the hospital after her birth, and we were forced to start supplementing with formula. Once a bottle was introduced, DD developed a preference for the bottle, which was a lot easier and faster for her to extract milk from. She also learned bad sucking habits while on the bottle, and she'd tear my nipples to shreds and flatten them by biting down whenever I was able to manage to get her on. I'm not positive if she has any issues in her mouth that played a role in our troubles. I could never get her to open her mouth wide enough to take in more of the breast during feedings.
I've rented a hospital grade pump (Medela Symphony) as I was told that my Medela PIS wasn't sufficient enough for building up my milk supply. I've tried various supplements, mothers milk tea, fenugreek, blessed thistle, and lactation cookies, but I never noticed a direct response to any of them. I seem to continue getting a gradual increase with each passing week, which is promising. I hope that it will continue as I'd love to get more milk for DD -- especially as her appetite starts to increase.
The lactation consultants I worked with think my supply issues are related to fertility issues as we conceived my daughter through IVF. My doctor thinks that it is more likely the result of a difficult labor (40 hours before having a c-section) and the delayed postpartum hemorrhage (which required a D&C, 2 blood transfusions, and a brief hospital stay) that I experienced almost 2 weeks after the birth.
My husband suffers from several food allergies, one of which includes dairy. When we have to supplement, we've been using a soy-based one. I'm still unsure if she has any food allergies and am curious if she will be able to transition to cows milk when she is older. I still need to find a pediatric allergist that we can talk to about possibly testing her for food allergies.
Sorry for the long, rambling post.