*** The LATE CYCLE LADIES! *** 2 BFPs ~ 3 AF ***

[sarah1726]

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[daisy74]

daisy...I am so sorry and so sad to read about your lost ...but don't loose hope take some time for yourself and when you feel ready try again! Have you tried taking baby aspirins? I heard that helps women that have had m/c in the past..

Thanks so much!! Your an awesome lady and I am so blessed to have you all in my life!!!!!

 

[mrsmmm]

Sarah, keep in mind all situations are NOT the same. I had an ex who would rather wank and watch movies rather than have sex all the time. I'd find him watching movies so many nights when I would get up to pee. I got grossed out by it because I felt he chose that over me. That was one of the main reasons we split. He said after we broke up that there wasn't any pressure in doing himself.

I have a personal quota that needs to be met. I like bd with my DH. I don't care what he does with himself in the shower so long as we have a healthy and active bedroom life.

So for you, I would say he needs to be honest with himself and with you about why it's happening. He can't lie. If there's jizz in a sock and it didn't come from you then no shit....it's his. Sorry for the lack of advice. He just has to come clean.

 

[sarah1726]

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[sarah1726]

ive heard from hmh, she is ok just stressful about ttc and her job etc xxx

 

[sarah1726]

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[leideebugz]

Sarah- I'd lay down the law. What is he going to do w/ a child you share, when he obviously is not very supportive or understanding towards the woman who wants to carry his child? Mastrabation is fine, but when it reaches the point he would rather have some unobtainable whore off the internet, he has a problem. It's no wonder your AF was late! All that stress is no help! If he cannot behave like an adult, and refused to admit there is something wrong (which there is), maybe a breather is in order? I don't know if that is even an option for you, but I always read how one minute you say he's being good and supportive, then the next it seems your ready to choke him (if you do, I recommend choking him w/a sock). This might sound nuts, but I know you said somewhere on one of these threads that your mom disapproves of him because he is older. Maybe ask her to elaborate. Sometimes others see things we choose to ignore.

I mean no offense in any of this. I just hate to hear about someone suffering.

 

[sarah1726]

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[mrsmmm]

We're here for you any time you need to vent. I know it's not as serious as your situation, but sometimes I will boil over on DH about his job. We'll have two or 3 months where it doesn't bother me then one day I will snap and say "You know I hate your job. Why can't you have a normal job where you come home before 1 am?" I never really mean it and there's no real definition of normal out there in the world I'm judging him against. It's just I get lonely sometimes.

 

[snl41296]

I want to say so sorry you had to deal with this. I would feel so hurt.. I for one knows for a fact my DH does not do it at all. he always had a low sex drive and he always said to me why do I have to when I have you for everything I want. I trust him and believe him because of our sex record. I dont get it alot, and If I get it he needs to regroup for at least 7/10 days after yea I have the odd man LOL but love him sooooooooooo much. for TTC he trys very hard. we do every other day for 2 weeks. ALso JMO ~ I am against alot of crap too and thats one of them. so I found a great guy that respects that.

 

[sarah1726]

good morning ladies, i deleted my last few comments because i didnt want the whole world reading them.i didnt fight with him over it, we didnt scream and shout etc im just making out that im not mad, im waiting for him to say something and im just going to use the guilt trip approach, like im not mad at all, im hust and upset that your doing that when our bedroom life isnt great at the moment, i think thats the best way to handle it right now hope everyone has a good day xxx

 

[mrsmmm]

Good for you on finding some peace in your head. It's OK to vent. Hope you have a great day! It's 8 am here. The cats just woke me up demanding food. I'm cd 10 today. Let the begin!

 

[sarah1726]

cool, where about in america do you live ? and is the weather nice? some summer we're having, looks like a cold wet december morning here bank holiday weekend here so today feels like a saturday instead of sunday ah well lol its almost 1:30pm here and its sooooo boring lol yes BD'ing will soon be starting for us too i hope,within the next week were doing the sperm meets egg plan so every second day and im going to keep at it until i get a pos opk then until it turns negative and im praying its not a long cycle and im still waiting for my thermometer should be here by tuesday or wednesday xxx

 

[mrsmmm]

I live in Florida. The weather is hot, but I've lived here for the past 11 years and like being close to the beach. Once you get used to it, it's fine. Almost every day is sunny. I've always wanted to visit Ireland and Italy. Those are my goals to do by 40 years old.

 

[sarah1726]

really ? Ireland is nice, i used to live in the capital Dublin but i moved to the country side but next may were moving back, i hate it down here i feel isolated ive been living down here for just over a year and have made no friends there for i have no social life down here and i hate it philip made friends and has a social life but i havent so I told him we are moving back, well i am anyway

 

[mrsmmm]

I would come just to see the rocky cliff coastline and a castle here and there. The oldest place I've been to was St. Augustine. Google it to learn more. I'm not a history teacher. lmao Italy makes the list because DH is Italian. Yum. Make that double yum. Sorry. BD success for today. Plus I don't know if I should count this as cd 10 or 11 since AF started in the night.

 

[daisy74]

Hello ladies,I wanted to check in and say I am having an ok day and today is also our anniversary so I woke up to breakfast in bed
All my pregnancy symptoms are gone and to be honest with you I am ok with it,Subject to change but no seriously I had a long talk with a friend of mine and she said maybe my body rejected it because something was wrong or maybe it just isnt my turn and her voice and words soothed me she and I have been friends along time she has even offered me to carry a baby for me but I declined with a HUGE ty anyways,I plan to relax today as DH has to go back to work tonight.I am making a pot roast for dinner with red potatoes and fresh green beans hubby's choice.I am also making homeade blueberry short cake for dinner (our daughters choice) were going to watch movies today and just sit and enjoy each others company.I know DH has a gift for me and I got him some cologne that I know will help when we decide to (LOL) I cant wait for to get the heck outta my uterus, so I can stop all this damn cramping sometime feels like my ovaries are like ping pong balls I am happy I am able to laugh alittle more today and have taken some advice from many of the great ladies on this site.DH changed his mind he does want to use pre seed again this cycle we will see how I am feeling when I ovulate.
Baby dust for all who want and need it LETS catch that dang and lock his a&7 down for 9 months LOL...Ok I promise I havent been drinking ,Well I guess by judging what the hamper looks like do atleast a load of wash and hang it out otherwise all it does is pile up and well with 1 teen and 1 pre teen it dont take long
Have a good day ladies,I will be back on later. ** Happy Thoughts**

 

[sarah1726]

well i happy for you daisy great to see you in a good mood and yay for preseed maybe you will get egg and sperm together for a romantic dinner and get your bfp at the end of this rainbow, with a bit of luck we all will xx

 

[birdiex]

Hi ladies! Sorry about the absence, still no AF for me and I'm 1 week and 3 days late. I really feel like I am PG, the last test I did came out with a very wierd result though!

It was meant to be a regular | | test, NO OPTION FOR A HORIZONTAL LINE!
I got - |, came up within 30 seconds on CD 33 (i think), then after the 3 minute test point, it slowly began to dissappear! The two lines were in separate windows so there's a chance of it being put in the cack way round, but I'm not sure about that! Waiting to test again

 

[sarah1726]

well, my thermometer came today : so my check list

thermometer
OPK's
notebook
philip
time!!!!

yup i think im all ready to go, just waiting on the egg now

how is everyone? all good i hope? xxx