*** The LATE CYCLE LADIES! *** 2 BFPs ~ 3 AF ***

[sarah1726]

wow such brave woman on here to you all, well not much to share about me if im honest im 19 will be 20 in december, im with my boyfriend 4 years on the 12th of august, i have no children and my bf has 2, there is an age gap between us but to me age is only a number and he acts like a big child anyway were hoping to be pg with our first child even though my parents hate my bf, ( because of the age gap ) and its hard, she keeps saying she doesnt want me to have kids with him, but i love him and he loes me so thats all that matters, i have 2 dogs ( daisy and fifi ) and 2 cats (moo moo and sooty ) we live in a 3 bedroom house and my boyfriend is a chef..think thats about it really that is my life story lol

daisy your a brave woman and you should hold your head up high!! your beautiful, so put your pic back up hope all is ok and where on earth is hmh, im starting to worry over her now lol hope she is ok, and hello to everyone else xxxxx

Thank you so much!!! I am VERY blessed to have friends like you on here!! i am alittle better today and after reading what you have all said I feel like I will be ok thanks so much!!!!

well Im blessed to meet such an awesome person like you !! hope all turns out ok for you and just relax and take things easy for a bit,put your feet up and your your lovely pic back up you look like a women i used to baby sit for, pretty pointless but just thought id tell you lol xxx

 

[daisy74]

I want to thank each and every one of you,I was laying in bed as I said I would and all of the sudden I got VERY hot and felt sick to my stomach I didnt dare get up as I was dizzy too,I called for DH he came in and said my face was white like a ghost
I called my dr office to see who was covering and asked said doctor to call me back,He told me to go to the emergency room.I did,Once I got there I felt warm and burning (below) and the white sheets were FULL of red blood,They didnt do an u/s,They took blood and said my level was less then 2 so I am not pregnant.I was given a bag of iv fluids and 800 mg of ibroprofen to take for the cramps that are killing me and sent home,I tryed ladies I was off my feet all i can say is I am sorry to you all and I am crying my eyes out DH cryed and he NEVER crys,Needless to say my daughters were @ their aunts for the night so they werent here and dont need to know,The doctor said we can try again after I am cleared by my obgyn BUT I am honesly unsure @ this point,I kinda blame myself for testing early but then again I would of known by now funny thing is I didnt test today IF I had then I wouldnt of probably gotten a BFP...But I did yesterday although was VERYYYY faint.I will NEVER test again early,THE ONLY thing that is good about any of this mess is atleast now after 3+ years of trying and turning 36 next week I know we can still get pregnant GETTING a sticky bean well that may be another story.I also heard from my friend yesterday that pre seed is being linked with people having a misscarriage I dont consider this a misscarriage I would rather just say chemical.I dont know I am rambling.I was semi dehydrated and had a BAD panic attack so they gave me ativan via my iv and I felt alittle better.I dont know if this bleeding is AF or ???? I still plan to go to the doctors on Monday if they can get me in and have a referal from the er to see my obgym within the next 3 days. WHY!??!?!?! I was so happy and feeling allittle better and thought that IF I was laying around I would be ok, I will forever hold my lil bean in my heart and as crazy as it sounds loved him or her already
I will still be on here,Maybe not as much but I need you ladies.I am glad I didnt announce this pregnancy to family.DH never calls into work but he did tonight as he was on for tonight for overtime his boss understands completely.I am going to heal mentally and physically and one of the hardest things I am going to have to do is what my status seeing how I am no longer expecting omg just thinking it and typing it is kiling me


******* Be honest ladies should I try anymore or give it a break?? My time may be running out I will be 36 on 8/5 Let me know your honest opinions and I will hand this over to GOD as it is to much for me @ this time
(((((((((hugs)))))))) and Thanks to you all who have been there for me,I feel as if I let you all down as well as myself and my husband
NEVER WILL I TEST BEFORE AF AGAIN AS A MATTER A FACT I WILL WAIT TILL I AM 3-5 DAYS LATE!!!

Daisy i dont know what to say, i really feel for you, we all shared your ups and downs these past couple of weeks. Your a brave and inspiring women, that deserve all your dreams to come ture.
As a point of confidence, i like to tell you alittle about myself, i havnt mentioned much about myself on here but i think its time i shared some of my story.
Im also 36 years old, turning 37 in 2 weeks from now, i have 3 daughters all from a pervious marriage, there ages are 16, 14, and 5, the 5 year old is autisic, i have type 1 diabetes since the age of 10, its been 27 years now. I also have unactive thyroid gland, nerve damage (due to my diabetes), and kidney disease. I was told by my doctors that it wouldnt be safe for me to have anymore children, that was 7 years ago. But unexpectedly i conceived my youngest, and the whole 9 months was the easiest pregnancy i ever had. But god can be nasty after 2years we found out she was autisic, but that had nothing to do with my health so they told me. For months on end i blamed myself, thinking my health was the cause of her autism, i should have been more careful. All this stress ended my marriage to my daughters dad, he couldnt handle the fact that i went into such a depressed mode. This is the part of my life i want to forget, i even wished i miscarried my daughter, SUCH A HEARTLESS THING TO SAY AND THINK, thats how bad things got.

And then when i was at my worst, i met my present DH, he often chat to me about all my problems and my past, present and what i hoped for the future. And one thing that always stuck and made sense, you could wish for alot of things, but always be grateful for what you have, cos what you have is here now and it was here in the past, what the futrue brings is a dream, that is waiting to be unfolded. Live for the present, and the futrue will come forward in time.. Basicallly he was trying to make me see that i have three great girls, and a whole futrue with them, and i shouldnt waste any more time, on what i could have in the past, what ive lost, and what i wished for in the futrue. And you know what, those words stuck with me, and changed the way i live my life now, with positive vibes, and a heck of alot of smiles.

ALWAYS LIVE EACH DAY AS IF ITS YOUR LAST, ALWAYS BE PROUD OF WHAT YOU HAVE, AND LOOK FORWARD TO A BRIGHT FUTURE.

Lots of love and hugs

Hi my friend,
First of all I want to say YOUR a very strong women!! I am so glad I have someone as yourself to take the time to reach out to me,YES I am crying but I would rather let it come out then in and your so RIGHT!! All this time of trying for a NEW baby I have 2 kids that need me and I am sure that I can find more things to do with my $$ then ovulation tests or boat loads of preg tests and I AM sure i could lay in bed a few more minutes a day with dh and just cuddle with him instead of jumping up to the bathroom do my duties brush my teeth and plant my butt here,NOT saying I dont look forward to you all I am just saying I am becoming OBSESSED again with thuis whole pregnancy thing and I was doing so well with the ok if it happens it does and if dont that is ok too,DH has raised my youngest since she was born and he adopted her officially when she was 4 (her bio dad was my ex husband a dead beat)
And he HAS said numerous times to me that we have a family and why do I feel the need to give him a biological one when he loves the 2 I have like his own??!?!? I guess it is just like i said I will be 36 this week and would REALLY like another child myself,DH told me this am after he made my breakfast in bed he wants me to take it easy for awhile and if that mean no BD to ensure I am not trying then he will do it!! WOW I guess he means business! So we arent going to prevent a pregnancy but were going to hold off for 3 months is what we have decided.A juky baby would be great.I had my beautiful daughters in dec and jan so always so cold to bring them walking.Thanks again and your completly right I need to look for all I have and stop looking for what I DONT,I am being selfish and I will work on this starting today.
xoxooxxo xoxoxoxo thanks so much and I am so very sorry for the heartache you have endured,My goes out to you but it sounds like everything has turned out pretty good and I am so glad for that!
COME ON LADIES I WILL STILL CHEER FOR YOU ALL TO GET YOUR BFP!!! I AM JUST GOING TO HOLD OFF ON MINE FOR NOW!!
Who is waiting to test in Aug??

 

[daisy74]

BTW, now cd 9. begins every day or every other day today. This is going to be a fun month! I have really high hopes for August. I would love to give DH a BFP for his bday.

GOODLUCK I hope your egg is caught! Will be folowing this with you!!

 

[tigger867]

I want to thank each and every one of you,I was laying in bed as I said I would and all of the sudden I got VERY hot and felt sick to my stomach I didnt dare get up as I was dizzy too,I called for DH he came in and said my face was white like a ghost
I called my dr office to see who was covering and asked said doctor to call me back,He told me to go to the emergency room.I did,Once I got there I felt warm and burning (below) and the white sheets were FULL of red blood,They didnt do an u/s,They took blood and said my level was less then 2 so I am not pregnant.I was given a bag of iv fluids and 800 mg of ibroprofen to take for the cramps that are killing me and sent home,I tryed ladies I was off my feet all i can say is I am sorry to you all and I am crying my eyes out DH cryed and he NEVER crys,Needless to say my daughters were @ their aunts for the night so they werent here and dont need to know,The doctor said we can try again after I am cleared by my obgyn BUT I am honesly unsure @ this point,I kinda blame myself for testing early but then again I would of known by now funny thing is I didnt test today IF I had then I wouldnt of probably gotten a BFP...But I did yesterday although was VERYYYY faint.I will NEVER test again early,THE ONLY thing that is good about any of this mess is atleast now after 3+ years of trying and turning 36 next week I know we can still get pregnant GETTING a sticky bean well that may be another story.I also heard from my friend yesterday that pre seed is being linked with people having a misscarriage I dont consider this a misscarriage I would rather just say chemical.I dont know I am rambling.I was semi dehydrated and had a BAD panic attack so they gave me ativan via my iv and I felt alittle better.I dont know if this bleeding is AF or ???? I still plan to go to the doctors on Monday if they can get me in and have a referal from the er to see my obgym within the next 3 days. WHY!??!?!?! I was so happy and feeling allittle better and thought that IF I was laying around I would be ok, I will forever hold my lil bean in my heart and as crazy as it sounds loved him or her already
I will still be on here,Maybe not as much but I need you ladies.I am glad I didnt announce this pregnancy to family.DH never calls into work but he did tonight as he was on for tonight for overtime his boss understands completely.I am going to heal mentally and physically and one of the hardest things I am going to have to do is what my status seeing how I am no longer expecting omg just thinking it and typing it is kiling me


******* Be honest ladies should I try anymore or give it a break?? My time may be running out I will be 36 on 8/5 Let me know your honest opinions and I will hand this over to GOD as it is to much for me @ this time
(((((((((hugs)))))))) and Thanks to you all who have been there for me,I feel as if I let you all down as well as myself and my husband
NEVER WILL I TEST BEFORE AF AGAIN AS A MATTER A FACT I WILL WAIT TILL I AM 3-5 DAYS LATE!!!

Daisy i dont know what to say, i really feel for you, we all shared your ups and downs these past couple of weeks. Your a brave and inspiring women, that deserve all your dreams to come ture.
As a point of confidence, i like to tell you alittle about myself, i havnt mentioned much about myself on here but i think its time i shared some of my story.
Im also 36 years old, turning 37 in 2 weeks from now, i have 3 daughters all from a pervious marriage, there ages are 16, 14, and 5, the 5 year old is autisic, i have type 1 diabetes since the age of 10, its been 27 years now. I also have unactive thyroid gland, nerve damage (due to my diabetes), and kidney disease. I was told by my doctors that it wouldnt be safe for me to have anymore children, that was 7 years ago. But unexpectedly i conceived my youngest, and the whole 9 months was the easiest pregnancy i ever had. But god can be nasty after 2years we found out she was autisic, but that had nothing to do with my health so they told me. For months on end i blamed myself, thinking my health was the cause of her autism, i should have been more careful. All this stress ended my marriage to my daughters dad, he couldnt handle the fact that i went into such a depressed mode. This is the part of my life i want to forget, i even wished i miscarried my daughter, SUCH A HEARTLESS THING TO SAY AND THINK, thats how bad things got.

And then when i was at my worst, i met my present DH, he often chat to me about all my problems and my past, present and what i hoped for the future. And one thing that always stuck and made sense, you could wish for alot of things, but always be grateful for what you have, cos what you have is here now and it was here in the past, what the futrue brings is a dream, that is waiting to be unfolded. Live for the present, and the futrue will come forward in time.. Basicallly he was trying to make me see that i have three great girls, and a whole futrue with them, and i shouldnt waste any more time, on what i could have in the past, what ive lost, and what i wished for in the futrue. And you know what, those words stuck with me, and changed the way i live my life now, with positive vibes, and a heck of alot of smiles.

ALWAYS LIVE EACH DAY AS IF ITS YOUR LAST, ALWAYS BE PROUD OF WHAT YOU HAVE, AND LOOK FORWARD TO A BRIGHT FUTURE.

Lots of love and hugs

Hi my friend,
First of all I want to say YOUR a very strong women!! I am so glad I have someone as yourself to take the time to reach out to me,YES I am crying but I would rather let it come out then in and your so RIGHT!! All this time of trying for a NEW baby I have 2 kids that need me and I am sure that I can find more things to do with my $$ then ovulation tests or boat loads of preg tests and I AM sure i could lay in bed a few more minutes a day with dh and just cuddle with him instead of jumping up to the bathroom do my duties brush my teeth and plant my butt here,NOT saying I dont look forward to you all I am just saying I am becoming OBSESSED again with thuis whole pregnancy thing and I was doing so well with the ok if it happens it does and if dont that is ok too,DH has raised my youngest since she was born and he adopted her officially when she was 4 (her bio dad was my ex husband a dead beat)
And he HAS said numerous times to me that we have a family and why do I feel the need to give him a biological one when he loves the 2 I have like his own??!?!? I guess it is just like i said I will be 36 this week and would REALLY like another child myself,DH told me this am after he made my breakfast in bed he wants me to take it easy for awhile and if that mean no BD to ensure I am not trying then he will do it!! WOW I guess he means business! So we arent going to prevent a pregnancy but were going to hold off for 3 months is what we have decided.A juky baby would be great.I had my beautiful daughters in dec and jan so always so cold to bring them walking.Thanks again and your completly right I need to look for all I have and stop looking for what I DONT,I am being selfish and I will work on this starting today.
xoxooxxo xoxoxoxo thanks so much and I am so very sorry for the heartache you have endured,My goes out to you but it sounds like everything has turned out pretty good and I am so glad for that!
COME ON LADIES I WILL STILL CHEER FOR YOU ALL TO GET YOUR BFP!!! I AM JUST GOING TO HOLD OFF ON MINE FOR NOW!!
Who is waiting to test in Aug??

Please let me THANKYOU!!!! from all us ladies on here, your sweetest, kindest, and bravest woman i have come accross in a long while.
And let me clear one thing up with you, your NOT selfish!!!!
Im so glad you finding your way forward, and you have a great DH there, who loves you dearly, from what you tell us. Just take your time, to grive, and rebulid yourself. We are all here, for you,.

You never know what the future holds hey
Love and hugs

 

[mrsmmm]

BTW, now cd 9. begins every day or every other day today. This is going to be a fun month! I have really high hopes for August. I would love to give DH a BFP for his bday.

GOODLUCK I hope your egg is caught! Will be folowing this with you!!

Thanks so much. I hope we catch it for baby #1.

About me: 28. DH 32. We've been together 6 yrs, married 1.4 yr. We have 2 cats. We love each other. Dh is the one who brought up the idea of kids first.

 

[daisy74]

I want to thank each and every one of you,I was laying in bed as I said I would and all of the sudden I got VERY hot and felt sick to my stomach I didnt dare get up as I was dizzy too,I called for DH he came in and said my face was white like a ghost
I called my dr office to see who was covering and asked said doctor to call me back,He told me to go to the emergency room.I did,Once I got there I felt warm and burning (below) and the white sheets were FULL of red blood,They didnt do an u/s,They took blood and said my level was less then 2 so I am not pregnant.I was given a bag of iv fluids and 800 mg of ibroprofen to take for the cramps that are killing me and sent home,I tryed ladies I was off my feet all i can say is I am sorry to you all and I am crying my eyes out DH cryed and he NEVER crys,Needless to say my daughters were @ their aunts for the night so they werent here and dont need to know,The doctor said we can try again after I am cleared by my obgyn BUT I am honesly unsure @ this point,I kinda blame myself for testing early but then again I would of known by now funny thing is I didnt test today IF I had then I wouldnt of probably gotten a BFP...But I did yesterday although was VERYYYY faint.I will NEVER test again early,THE ONLY thing that is good about any of this mess is atleast now after 3+ years of trying and turning 36 next week I know we can still get pregnant GETTING a sticky bean well that may be another story.I also heard from my friend yesterday that pre seed is being linked with people having a misscarriage I dont consider this a misscarriage I would rather just say chemical.I dont know I am rambling.I was semi dehydrated and had a BAD panic attack so they gave me ativan via my iv and I felt alittle better.I dont know if this bleeding is AF or ???? I still plan to go to the doctors on Monday if they can get me in and have a referal from the er to see my obgym within the next 3 days. WHY!??!?!?! I was so happy and feeling allittle better and thought that IF I was laying around I would be ok, I will forever hold my lil bean in my heart and as crazy as it sounds loved him or her already
I will still be on here,Maybe not as much but I need you ladies.I am glad I didnt announce this pregnancy to family.DH never calls into work but he did tonight as he was on for tonight for overtime his boss understands completely.I am going to heal mentally and physically and one of the hardest things I am going to have to do is what my status seeing how I am no longer expecting omg just thinking it and typing it is kiling me


******* Be honest ladies should I try anymore or give it a break?? My time may be running out I will be 36 on 8/5 Let me know your honest opinions and I will hand this over to GOD as it is to much for me @ this time
(((((((((hugs)))))))) and Thanks to you all who have been there for me,I feel as if I let you all down as well as myself and my husband
NEVER WILL I TEST BEFORE AF AGAIN AS A MATTER A FACT I WILL WAIT TILL I AM 3-5 DAYS LATE!!!

Daisy i dont know what to say, i really feel for you, we all shared your ups and downs these past couple of weeks. Your a brave and inspiring women, that deserve all your dreams to come ture.
As a point of confidence, i like to tell you alittle about myself, i havnt mentioned much about myself on here but i think its time i shared some of my story.
Im also 36 years old, turning 37 in 2 weeks from now, i have 3 daughters all from a pervious marriage, there ages are 16, 14, and 5, the 5 year old is autisic, i have type 1 diabetes since the age of 10, its been 27 years now. I also have unactive thyroid gland, nerve damage (due to my diabetes), and kidney disease. I was told by my doctors that it wouldnt be safe for me to have anymore children, that was 7 years ago. But unexpectedly i conceived my youngest, and the whole 9 months was the easiest pregnancy i ever had. But god can be nasty after 2years we found out she was autisic, but that had nothing to do with my health so they told me. For months on end i blamed myself, thinking my health was the cause of her autism, i should have been more careful. All this stress ended my marriage to my daughters dad, he couldnt handle the fact that i went into such a depressed mode. This is the part of my life i want to forget, i even wished i miscarried my daughter, SUCH A HEARTLESS THING TO SAY AND THINK, thats how bad things got.

And then when i was at my worst, i met my present DH, he often chat to me about all my problems and my past, present and what i hoped for the future. And one thing that always stuck and made sense, you could wish for alot of things, but always be grateful for what you have, cos what you have is here now and it was here in the past, what the futrue brings is a dream, that is waiting to be unfolded. Live for the present, and the futrue will come forward in time.. Basicallly he was trying to make me see that i have three great girls, and a whole futrue with them, and i shouldnt waste any more time, on what i could have in the past, what ive lost, and what i wished for in the futrue. And you know what, those words stuck with me, and changed the way i live my life now, with positive vibes, and a heck of alot of smiles.

ALWAYS LIVE EACH DAY AS IF ITS YOUR LAST, ALWAYS BE PROUD OF WHAT YOU HAVE, AND LOOK FORWARD TO A BRIGHT FUTURE.

Lots of love and hugs

Hi my friend,
First of all I want to say YOUR a very strong women!! I am so glad I have someone as yourself to take the time to reach out to me,YES I am crying but I would rather let it come out then in and your so RIGHT!! All this time of trying for a NEW baby I have 2 kids that need me and I am sure that I can find more things to do with my $$ then ovulation tests or boat loads of preg tests and I AM sure i could lay in bed a few more minutes a day with dh and just cuddle with him instead of jumping up to the bathroom do my duties brush my teeth and plant my butt here,NOT saying I dont look forward to you all I am just saying I am becoming OBSESSED again with thuis whole pregnancy thing and I was doing so well with the ok if it happens it does and if dont that is ok too,DH has raised my youngest since she was born and he adopted her officially when she was 4 (her bio dad was my ex husband a dead beat)
And he HAS said numerous times to me that we have a family and why do I feel the need to give him a biological one when he loves the 2 I have like his own??!?!? I guess it is just like i said I will be 36 this week and would REALLY like another child myself,DH told me this am after he made my breakfast in bed he wants me to take it easy for awhile and if that mean no BD to ensure I am not trying then he will do it!! WOW I guess he means business! So we arent going to prevent a pregnancy but were going to hold off for 3 months is what we have decided.A juky baby would be great.I had my beautiful daughters in dec and jan so always so cold to bring them walking.Thanks again and your completly right I need to look for all I have and stop looking for what I DONT,I am being selfish and I will work on this starting today.
xoxooxxo xoxoxoxo thanks so much and I am so very sorry for the heartache you have endured,My goes out to you but it sounds like everything has turned out pretty good and I am so glad for that!
COME ON LADIES I WILL STILL CHEER FOR YOU ALL TO GET YOUR BFP!!! I AM JUST GOING TO HOLD OFF ON MINE FOR NOW!!
Who is waiting to test in Aug??

Please let me THANKYOU!!!! from all us ladies on here, your sweetest, kindest, and bravest woman i have come accross in a long while.
And let me clear one thing up with you, your NOT selfish!!!!
Im so glad you finding your way forward, and you have a great DH there, who loves you dearly, from what you tell us. Just take your time, to grive, and rebulid yourself. We are all here, for you,.

You never know what the future holds hey
Love and hugs

Thanks so much and you have really touched my ♥ here today,I have as you can see changed my signature and have asked the kids if they would like to have a picnic dinner and do some fishing,We all love to fush catch and release of course as we dont eat them and my fishing chair is comfy and even has a foot rest and our girls are so excited,I can see you have been SOOOOO right!!!! I have to learn to appreciate what I have and well I dont spend as much time with my girls as I should well atleast lately I havent last weekend we broughtthem to an amusment park and I sat on the sidelines as I wanted the bean to stick which after I felt I was selfish as my kids wanted me on rides so I have just talked DH into going next weekend to the amusment park again!!! We arent spilling it to the kids until mid week as i want to make sure I am up for it but I am feeling alot better physically it is just a heavy heavy flow but I have all I need here and AF wont get me down,I did take mt temp this am I guess old habits are hard to break and maybe I will temp I dont know I am as you can see up and down DAMN HORMONES!! LOL
Wow I actually laughed but seriously your amazing and I can now see why SO many ladies come here,People like yourself are such an inspiration!!

So fishing and a picnic it is for later but for now I am here lurking
Hugs

 

[daisy74]

HMH33 I have been worried about you,Please let one of us or all of us know your ok.
Hugs my friend
Daisy

 

[tigger867]

where are you hmh???????

 

[leideebugz]

Well hmm... now I'm really unsure...
Ok, so I am on cd 53 (I think. Too lazy to look at the calendar anymore.) I have PCOS. My cycles, while never 'regular' are at least reasonably consistant and have been for years. No breakthrough bleeds, normal period length, etc. So I quit charting and whatnot, cuz I am sick of it. When I was charting, FF did show ovulation. I tested cd45 (going by my absolute longest cycle) and it was blinding white. So I sit and wait. We didn't BD a whole bunch this month, maybe a handful of times, and I have serious doubts we hit the window anyways. I was going to test yesterday, but was distracted by a vigorous round of BD by my DH. We always lay back for 10-15 minutes and chat or relax to give the swimmers a chance. Then I get up, use the toilet and make sure to bear down, as I hate leaking. (Totally TMI, right?) So, 5-6 hours later, I go to the toilet, and what do I wipe away? A great big EWCM glob streaked brown. I mean like a tablespoon full. WTH?! I was so expecting AF, I put a pad on, since that is kinda how she presents herself. I never spot after BD. And I STILL have the sore boobs, mild, crampy aches, weird dreams, waking up in puddles of drool, sinus congestion (but not a cold), tired, blah-blah-blah.
Guess I'm just venting, but any thoughts would be welcome. I still have a FRER but don't want to use it. Little bugger cost $5. Should I waste it? I was kinda wondering if maybe what I saw was implant. (Not charting, so maybe I had a very late ov?) If it was (oh, fx'd), a pg test probably won't work yet anyways, I think. I can't imagine eggs this late in my cycle would be any good! Grr... I am frustrated. And clearly grasping at straws. Oh well.

On the flip side, has anyone had news of hmh33?

And to Daisy, how is your day today? I hope you are relaxing as best you can.

 

[sarah1726]

well if it was IB then it could take 5 days to get a positive test so id wait 3 or 4 days maybe there is a $ store near you to get some cheap tests in the mean time but if no af in 3 or 4 days TEST !! fx'ed for your xxx

 

[sarah1726]

i just sent hmh a message asking was she ok because we hadn't heard from her xx

 

[daisy74]

i just sent hmh a message asking was she ok because we hadn't heard from her xx

Thanks she is so nice and I miss her and am hoping she is ok and maybe just sitting back relaxing but not like her not to come say hello but hopefully she is ok,Hugs and ty for sending her a message I was going to but was side tracked i will now so she knows how missed she is,She kinda took me under her wing and I know she will be shocked about my news but the more I talk to people the more I just want to say THANKS YOUR ALL MY HELPFUL AS WELL AS UNDERSTANDING AS MY MOM,She said to me well it must of been a dud??? WHO SAYS THAT I was crying my eyes out?!?!?!??!

 

[daisy74]

Well hmm... now I'm really unsure...
Ok, so I am on cd 53 (I think. Too lazy to look at the calendar anymore.) I have PCOS. My cycles, while never 'regular' are at least reasonably consistant and have been for years. No breakthrough bleeds, normal period length, etc. So I quit charting and whatnot, cuz I am sick of it. When I was charting, FF did show ovulation. I tested cd45 (going by my absolute longest cycle) and it was blinding white. So I sit and wait. We didn't BD a whole bunch this month, maybe a handful of times, and I have serious doubts we hit the window anyways. I was going to test yesterday, but was distracted by a vigorous round of BD by my DH. We always lay back for 10-15 minutes and chat or relax to give the swimmers a chance. Then I get up, use the toilet and make sure to bear down, as I hate leaking. (Totally TMI, right?) So, 5-6 hours later, I go to the toilet, and what do I wipe away? A great big EWCM glob streaked brown. I mean like a tablespoon full. WTH?! I was so expecting AF, I put a pad on, since that is kinda how she presents herself. I never spot after BD. And I STILL have the sore boobs, mild, crampy aches, weird dreams, waking up in puddles of drool, sinus congestion (but not a cold), tired, blah-blah-blah.
Guess I'm just venting, but any thoughts would be welcome. I still have a FRER but don't want to use it. Little bugger cost $5. Should I waste it? I was kinda wondering if maybe what I saw was implant. (Not charting, so maybe I had a very late ov?) If it was (oh, fx'd), a pg test probably won't work yet anyways, I think. I can't imagine eggs this late in my cycle would be any good! Grr... I am frustrated. And clearly grasping at straws. Oh well.

On the flip side, has anyone had news of hmh33?

And to Daisy, how is your day today? I hope you are relaxing as best you can.

Thanks for asking I am ok,I feel empty but going later on a picnic with my DH and our girls and going to do some fishing,Relaxing and trying to get these cramps to just go away,,,,Ughh ty for asking!!!!!

 

[Sweet_Alida]

i just sent hmh a message asking was she ok because we hadn't heard from her xx

Thanks she is so nice and I miss her and am hoping she is ok and maybe just sitting back relaxing but not like her not to come say hello but hopefully she is ok,Hugs and ty for sending her a message I was going to but was side tracked i will now so she knows how missed she is,She kinda took me under her wing and I know she will be shocked about my news but the more I talk to people the more I just want to say THANKS YOUR ALL MY HELPFUL AS WELL AS UNDERSTANDING AS MY MOM,She said to me well it must of been a dud??? WHO SAYS THAT I was crying my eyes out?!?!?!??!

Daisy I just read that you lost your baby...I am so sorry I am so sad for you I was really thinking this one was going to stick! I have no words right now Please keep us posted are you feeling okay?

 

[Sweet_Alida]

i just sent hmh a message asking was she ok because we hadn't heard from her xx

I'm really starting to worry about hmh too! Thanks for sending us a message please if you talk to her tell her we are thinking about her and hope she's alright!
Your doing the right thing Sarah follow you heart don't let others tell you who and who not to love!

 

[daisy74]

i just sent hmh a message asking was she ok because we hadn't heard from her xx

Thanks she is so nice and I miss her and am hoping she is ok and maybe just sitting back relaxing but not like her not to come say hello but hopefully she is ok,Hugs and ty for sending her a message I was going to but was side tracked i will now so she knows how missed she is,She kinda took me under her wing and I know she will be shocked about my news but the more I talk to people the more I just want to say THANKS YOUR ALL MY HELPFUL AS WELL AS UNDERSTANDING AS MY MOM,She said to me well it must of been a dud??? WHO SAYS THAT I was crying my eyes out?!?!?!??!

Daisy I just read that you lost your baby...I am so sorry I am so sad for you I was really thinking this one was going to stick! I have no words right now Please keep us posted are you feeling okay?

Thanks so much,I will still be on daily sometimes more but I am going to get back on the weight loss routine i was on and TRY not to read into mu body so much,I just asked DH if he still wanted to use pre seed and he said not for a few months and that was the only reason I FEEL I got pregnant so while were ntnp I am sure we wont be concieving as I DONT get ewcm ever anymore,Thanks for caring and I will keep you posted.

 

[daisy74]

i feel like an a&&,Life isnt ALL about ME...How are all of you ladies doing today?????

 

[Sweet_Alida]

Daisy you are NOT too old to TTC. Hell if you too old then what am I doing on here? I'll be 38 in Dec!!!! I got preg with my first when I was 36 and they told us we probally couldn't have kids! So don't give up your not too old. I understand if you need a break but if your dream is to have another baby keep trying!

 

[josy0710]

daisy...I am so sorry and so sad to read about your lost ...but don't loose hope take some time for yourself and when you feel ready try again! Have you tried taking baby aspirins? I heard that helps women that have had m/c in the past..

 

[sarah1726]

ladies i have a problem, well atually my bf does,and even though i dont know you all personally, this is still embarrassing ok so here it is

me and my bf have done nothing in the bedroom department since the 2nd of july and i know all men masterbate, but today we went for a little sleep i got up before him, when he got up, i went up to make the bed and do some tidying...his draw was open and my sock was in there so i went over to take it out and it was wet and sticky so i marched straight down stairs and i asked him why ( i knew he materbated and came in it, it isnt the first time ) he denied it

im hurt not because he masterbated but

1) he hasnt touched me AT ALL , all month yet he will wank

2) he is lying to me saying the sock wasnt wet and he didnt when i know he did

3) he thinks im stupid.

i know its something so stupid but he lied and yet he wont touch me all month
and i know this is a long post but i just need a good rant, im annoyed and upset and not talking to him at the moment and not sure what to do, bearing in mind its NOT the first time he's used my clothes and ive told him about it before this is sooo embarressing .... do i just get my own back or what ?