The LLTC'ers Moaners thread

[Sambatiki]

Carebear - Its going to be your turn next!

Onewish - Go girl!! That was one big rant!! Hope it made you feel better, its good to get things off your chest

 

[onewish]

Carebear - Its going to be your turn next!

Onewish - Go girl!! That was one big rant!! Hope it made you feel better, its good to get things off your chest

aww thanks i actually feel alot better now ha ha its like therapy ha ha

 

[kayley2704]

lovin this thread,ok mine is all these ppl i dont like or ppl on my facebook all putting there new pictures up as they just found out there are its horrible just flicking through my facebook and its all the same hellllp!!! grrr

 

[Blue12]

I hate pretending to all my friends that I am not interested in ttc - and yet at times I am going through a personal hell trying to get a baby/family. They often play the who do you think will be next game - and of course they don't even fathom that it could be us - but deep inside I am dying for my turn to come - especially considering how much we are having to go through.

 

[AG75]

facebook = evil. Honestly FB can be a nightmare not just for us TTC girls but for other things too. Any time you see someone post anything on FB that upsets you, delete that person immediately. I did it and now can happily log on to FB once a day to check up on really close friends that I love and family and don't get upset. Worked wonders.

 

[1hopefull]

Love this thread!

onewish, I feel better just reading your post. And I totally agree!

One of the hardest things for me to to hear from people that are preggers and are worried about the most stupidest stuff, like where to have the baby shower. They make it such a big deal. I feel like saying, you are PREGNANT! What the f*@k are you complaining about??? They just do NOT have a clue even if they know that you have been TTC for a while! Come on people!

Awww, I feel better.

 

[Sambatiki]

Morning Peeps!

Glad you all feel a little better getting it off your chest.

I must admit that someone mention about the old 'whos next' game... I feel GUTTED when they dont mention me and move on to someone who already go t children. I know it sounds daft but its almost like they know that there is no chance of me being next... so there is no point backing me... I also feel as if theyve not got any faith me... I know it sounds irrational... just the way I feel.

 

[Sambatiki]

Eurrrghhh Im a glutton for punishment... browsing through the 'unread' threads and there is a thread in the pregnancy section... moaning about how awful it is to be preggers... *sigh* wish I had that 'problem'

 

[onewish]

glad you feel better 1hopefull!!!
do you ever have them days where your just upset with it all and just cry even tho there nothing paticular that you crying bout it just it all and like you all saying its usually fb thats the worse place and usually sets me off feeling down.
samba i know what you mean by that i had to cope with a friend who winged the whole way through bout how crap it is and how hard it is with already having a 2 yr old not being ready for another and how is she gonna lose the weight fast enough honest it was hard not to say anything so hard that my other half got that fed up of hearing it he cant stand her now it upset him that much.

 

[Chris77]

Loving the thread Kerry!

It totally sucks butt!!!! I keep wondering whether or not I can have any children at all! Month after month of 's do nothing to really reassure you that you WILL in fact of children.

One thing I learned through my MANY years in therapy is that I am exactly where I am meant to be for now. I repeat that to myself every day.

 

[keepsmiling]

my moan is my sil is bloody pregnant!!! she wasnt even tryin, is 20 on the pill and has a oh who thinks its ok to smoke weed alot!!!! grr does my hed in

 

[Sambatiki]

keep smiling - Do we have the same SIL??? BALLS isnt it xxx

 

[keepsmiling]

Ha yuh it seems so lol she does my head in and she keeps popping round all the time uninvited when I never normally c her much mybe once every couple of weeks well now it's almost every day x

 

[daviess3]

I am so pleased i came across this thread, i need to vent my anger!

Same as all of the normal ones really

mother in law has 6 kids so thinks i shouldnt be taking clomid "let nature take its course" That would be if nature worked!!!

My sis really tries to understand but has 3boys an falls preg really easily an constantly moans shes tired etc!
MY best friend announces 2weeks after my mc that she is pg then has her 1st scan on my birthday of which she shows up to my birthday lunch waving her scan picture which brings back lots of lovely memories for me like when the sornographer told me my baby didnt have a heartbeat any longer!!!!!!!!
everyone telling me relax it will happen.
your young it will happen you have loads of time! What before i die! im 29 have been trying for eternity.

everyone putting pic of scans on facebook does noone realise this isnt always happy memory for everyone some of us think that picture is the scariest thing in the world!

An finally nearly finished!!! people i barely no thinking they have a right to no my medical history an try to analise it when they nothing about it. an my friends telling me im over sensitive and in one of those moods!! Well u try taking bloody hormone drugs!!! Rant over pleased to no im not alone an do feel better now i have that off my chest!! Thank you xx

 

[keyahopes]

For all the LTTTC girls who hate FB and other social media (where all that people do is rub their fertility in your face):

https://stfuferts.blogspot.com/

 

[MrsF]

loving the link keyahopes, thankyou!

I have just seen another person on facebook announce yet another pregnancy i had a break from fb, but my curiosity got the better of me today so i nipped on. baaaaaad move.

i left cos of the (what i would term) insensitive posts. I know some of them don't know about my troubles, but ffs, have a bit of forethought to consider if the post might offend someone! Insensitive posts: pregnant women complaining about getting fat, new mums complaining about having no time to themselves, comments about how bloody fertile so-and-so is ...and people telling me to have a baby as it'll give me something to do......

i can;t remember if it was on this thread, or a different one, but i do remember someone (sorry, my memory is shite with hormones.....) wanting to put a comment about how much money her DH has in retaliation to all the pregnancy posts - ooooohhhh how very tempted i am to do the same. Or about how big my pay rise was this year. Or how beautiful my 3 bed detached house is (it's not that big really, but i could make it sounds like a frikkin mansion...). DO you know, i might even announce a lottery win



x x x

 

[AG75]

Guys! Get off facebook!! It's not just TTC that it does your head in over, it's everything. I firmly stand by my approach which is to immediately delete anyone who puts up anything that bothers you. Works wonders.

 

[ttcsadgegirl]

Thank god I found this thread!

My whining is mostly the same as all of yours, my family and friends keep telling me to relax and it will happen. Um, it has been 3 years, I can't freakin relax, and even if I could it wouldn't change the PCOS!

My little sister (18) just found out she is pregnant and as much as I love her, and am happy for her, I wanted to have the first grandchild. I know that sounds selfish, My dh and I have been ttc for 3 years and she came off the pill and got pregnant the same month. GRRR. Now my family is looking at me like I'm purposely not getting preggo or something.

Sometimes I wish everyone had to suffer this just for a little bit, then maybe they would understand.

Thanks for letting me vent!

 

[Sambatiki]

Thanks for sharing the STUFU blog its sooo true!!

My moan for the day.... (yup there is normally one a day!) I got another You would think that I'd be used to it by now wouldnt you..

Hope everyone has a good weekend xxx

 

[dizzikel]

Thanks for sharing the STUFU blog its sooo true!!

My moan for the day.... (yup there is normally one a day!) I got another You would think that I'd be used to it by now wouldnt you..

Hope everyone has a good weekend xxx

Sorry Samba