The losers club

[Lettuce]

Thanks, I just think I made a bit of a mess of the whole mummy thing!
Spoke to my mum on the phone, she said babies get sick lots, not to worry, but take her to the weight clinic on Thursday and ask the HVs. I didn't truly AP, I'm not patient enough for that, and I love my pram!
I just ate a third penguin, I'm goin to bed before I eat any more! Maybe tomorrow will be better... Maybe she'll sleep all night and wake up happy... Maybe I'll win the lottery and not have to work.... (neither will any of you as I'll pay off your mortgages) maybe pigs will fly...

 

[Natsku]

Hope she sleeps ok

 

[Emmy1987]

Aww Lettuce!

It's so hard working and coming home to a baby, today I've run myself ragged and am so glad OH took over this evening, I've done nothing but feel so guilty

I was thinking at work today that I'm not sure if/how long I'll bf the next baby (hope we're going to ttc properly soon....), I think if I struggle again I'll just swap, they tend to sleep better on formula and it means I could get a break. Bad mummy.

It's meant to be nice here tomorrow (been overcast all day here!) so want to do something with Doo but have no idea! Don't have anyone to hang out with (such a loser...) and there are no groups or anything.

How are the crazy loser babies? I've giggled catching up on what everyone's been up to

 

[x Michelle x]

I must say I love a bit of formula, suits us all perfectly I'd only call you a bad mummy if you decided against feeding all together....
Tomorrow will be really fun, T is getting her 12 months jabs, MMR and H is getting his 12 week jabs....
Oh, T may not walk backwards but she crawls backwards, sooooo cute!

 

[Lettuce]

Exactly what Michelle says! Who cares as long as you feed them!
Tho I heard Michelle has been putting custard in their bottles since birth....
That's her just woke up now, so I've given more drugs and giving a feed, hopefully she'll sleep for another 4.5 hours...

 

[Newt4]

Hi everyone!

Can I join the conversation. I feel a bit lost on this site.

 

[Lettuce]

Hello! come be a loser...

 

[Newt4]

It is seriously hard to get in to a group here on this site.

 

[Lettuce]

Really? Well, the losers welcome all.

 

[x Michelle x]

We do indeed!
Hi Newt

 

[Emmy1987]

Hi Newt! Welcome to loserville!

Fuck I am so tempted to piss off to Lincoln for the day! I'm sick to death of spending every bloody day being lonely! Its just gonna cost like £50 for the day

Good luck Michelle!

 

[Natsku]

Yeah we let everyone in. We have low standards.

 

[x Michelle x]

I know, we're such a bunch of loosers!
Well T screamed the place down getting her jabs, but was fine was a drink and some chocolate and Hayden didn't cry at all! They are both upstairs sound asleep now! Time for a cuppa me thinks

 

[Natsku]

Ah jabs suck

Urgh feel so sick, can't finish drinking the colonoscopy prep liquid, I hope I've drank enough of it

 

[x Michelle x]

When are you having it done Nats?

 

[Natsku]

This afternoon

 

[x Michelle x]

Hope it goes ok

 

[Natsku]

Thanks, just waiting for FIL to pick me up now

 

[Eliza_V]

Welcome new losers! :wave:

Gah i'm so fed up - I think i'm in the "I have no money" boat with you guys!! The dishwasher conked out last week (ridiculously expensive to fix as it's the heating element, and I can't live without it as DH just doesn't help round the house so I'm lucky if I can find time to load the damned thing!) my CD player in my car is on the way out, petrol is stupidly expensive, I just paid for another 5 weeks of pole (I'm NOT giving that up, it's one of the only things keeping me sane as there was about a 4-month waiting list on counselling so I didn't bother), DH is over on his credit cards again, I'm overdrawn but about £600 (and don't have an income!), the weekly shops are SO expensive even when we do cut back (and yet food still gets wasted when DH comes home late or when he's in a bad mood and won't cook, and can't he moans and bothered to stick to planning meals or anything), I owe my sister £50 for my share of my Mum's 50th birthday present (helicopter lesson), and my Nan (the mean one) is demanding I spend a certain amount on her for her birthday (seriously) and it's DH's 30th tomorrow (I've mostly resorted to making presents - I tried to bake cakes AND cookies today and fucked BOTH up!) Ontop of that we've got to fork out around £80 (maybe more) in fuel to go and visit family next week, and I've had to tell BIL I can't do the pole photoshoot now (we were going to go halves on studio hire and he was going to take pictures of LO too) and DH keeps "borrowing" money off me to pay for diesel and I'm eating further and further into my overdraft, I'm so screwed! We also need to replace the kitchen floor (DH threw a bowl on it and sliced the vinyl yet again, and now there's too many cuts in it to ignore and I keep catching my feet on it), we need to see if we can buy a new plug for the (£150) baby monitor as DH threw that on the floor as well and broke one of the prongs off, three sets of drawers in this house are damned broken and there's a hole in the nursery door. DH's temper is costing us A LOT.

I'm applying for a PGCE (I know, it's a bit late so less likely I'll get in) as I'm so frightened that if I don't get back into work/education for at least another year it will be even harder to do it

RAAAAGH!!

/rantover x

 

[sapphire1]

Aww losers massive to those of you that need it. I'm with ya on the money worries, it stops me doing so much stuff that I want to do. I just do free stuff with Holly, we went for an organised walk from the local surestart centre this morning. It was so lovely out and H didn't complain once at being stuck in the buggy

Welcome Newt :wave:

GL for your apt Nats, hope it goes well

BTW formula = sleeping better is BOLLOCKS! Holly didn't STTN til she was a year old and walking. She was awake for 2 hours solid a night, every night before that Lettuce, I've done loads of things I didn't want to do (formula, CIO etc) but you gotta do what you gotta do. Holly is awesome so I doubt any of my 'bad' choices affected her. She has just moonwalked into the mantelpiece, best go