Surely the doctor can't make that decision for you? I stopped taking my pills when we started ntnp but my midwife keeps a close eye on my mental health now. She even said that if the benefits to taking the pulls whilst pregnant outweigh the negatives, I could start taking them again. I'm managing ok, mood swings are horrendous but I'd rather not take them if I can help it. The doctor should only make you aware of the potential risks, not take your choice away from you. Hope you get more help with a different doctor.