The official cerazette missing period support thread!! *NAME CHANGE*

[sara15h1986]

Go everyone. Hope you are all well.
Congrats to diddums. Here is a pic of my boy. Now 11 weeks

 

[betty14]

Fab news kix, you should miss all the boiling weather being heavily preggers too

Diddums you did fab! Really pleased she is here safe and sound! Amazing she arrived on her due date too!

Sara love his smiley little face!

Xxx

 

[annanouska]

Congrats diddums lots of hair too!! Glad the scan went well kixx.

I can't think about labour now, think I have ptsd!! If I hadn't been left with all the problems I have it wouldn't bother me.

My foot has healed a lot so I'm walking normal again. My pelvis is still wonky as ever but I'm hoping I can get it manageable again.

Xxx

 

[Samie18]

My coccyx/sacrum is still dodgy but ive given up and just accept its now how i have to live =o/

Glad your foot is improving.

We now getting ready to go to Southampton and be Peppa pig'ed out tomorrow!!

 

[betty14]

Samie my coccyx is still dodgy too!!

Have an amazing time at pepper pig world it's supposed to be amazing!!

Xxx

 

[annanouska]

I could live with the jointy issues it's the problem it's caused to the nerve I'm struggling with.. My gp said some anti epilepsy drigs help with nerve pain il see in new year incase it's this little hiccup that triggered it off again.

Il give u giggle tho since we have been through the most intimate parts of each other lives already....we were in bed the other night and I randomly scream out with added oh god ahhh kind of thing, poor dh thinks he's a sex god at this point when I eventually manage to say no my nerve is spasmjng my whole leg and I'm in agony lol!!!! Xxx

 

[betty14]

Lol Anna that made me smile!

Try to avoid the epilepsy meds if you can, I was put on gabapentin for a few months before I had the second op on my arm, it was horrible, I was a zombie, constantly dizzy and it affected my memory really badly! Oh and did nothing for the pain

Xxx

 

[annanouska]

thanks Betty. I was very unsure when he offered them to me and now I'm even more less inclined.im very eek well and active etc but my nerve can be in constant pain leaving me unable to sit or drive etc. the acupuncture had completely cured it oly now it flaired back up. I will monitor it as had acupuncture yesterday so ingesting to see if if settles again.

Marcus is practicing standing unsupported. He's so independent with everything we can't help him. He won't walk with your hands etc. he's funny as he walks all around the walls to get somewhere

He stood alone at physio then took two small 1/2 steps on his own so that's a huge improvement. He doesn't have to keep going to physio now and will review him in a few months and deff at schoo, age. He has quite severe hyper mobility in his ankles. His knees and hips are affected but not as bad. It's not causing him pain at all ATM but I have to watch as it may do I the future. We are Hoping with walking, swimming etc he will strengthen a bit. Dh has it too tho never knew until we took Marcus he just thought he was supple

Wonder if sin has gone in now x

 

[Sinn]

Nope! I'm still here! Had a march round the shops, scrubbed the bathroom, ironed a pile of clothes and hung some nets and still nothing! X

 

[annanouska]

Go to the cinema and meal out bound to bring it on for Sod's law! X

 

[hay246]

ahhh kix i would say girl too great clear pic

diddums congratulations x

 

[kix11]

Ahh loving peoples thoughts on the scan pic ha ha! I really want to know this time but going to try my best to not find out and wait and see!! I keep thinking girl when I look at the picture but I always thought I would have 2 boys ooh exciting would be made up with either.

Samie do you honestly think that's the nub it looks huge! Pepper pig world looked fun by the way!

And well done on potty training you have done amazing. We are going to give it a go at Christmas because I am off for 2 weeks but I am not sure if Aaron is quite ready he does tell me when he needs a poo but not a wee but it's probably because the wee doesn't bother him I suppose. Any tips Samie or anyone else??

xx

 

[hay246]

I'm not going to rush it with Allister really, he definitely isn't ready, and thinking next spring may attempt to when its getting warmer and he is in garden a lot etc. will play it by ear definitely won't be until at least April i try because of moving into house in feb etc going to be alot of changing n settling him in then in new room and bed etc xx

 

[Samie18]

i wasnt too sure if that was the nub as it does look big but the leg looks just to the side of it so i'm guessing.....

No tips on the toilet training really. I've been putting her on the loo since she was about 1 so its taken a long time for her to get it but i think the fact she has come with us all the time and been going on it made her just 'get it' and now she understands and just gets on with it.

We just let her run around bottom half naked all year really so it wasn't a rush. If she had an accident so be it. I have never pressurised her, never told her off so it hasn't been a negative thing and just bucket loads of praise, singing and dancing when she went and made her feel fab.
When she regularly went i then started offering her knickers or nappy and she always chose nik niks =o) the first few weeks of knickers i must have said 1000 times sophia remember you have your knickers on so you have to use the toilet and tell mummy if you need a wee wee or poo poo and she did. If after so long she hadn't been then we would say mummy or daddy needs a wee wee and she would always say meeeeeeee so we put her on first and she would go!

hmmmm i didn't have advise ha ha

 

[annanouska]

can I skip potty training?!

Mr non communication seems to be I proving. I don't think I'm imagining it but he seems to undertone things a bit better. I ask if he is finished his meal and he nods. I ask again and if I who,d take the plate away and he nods (may get a yeah depending) and he is ok with it. Normally he wold go mad if I took the plate finished or not.
He got his nursery proofs today they are cute

My friend at work has her new granddaughter arrive on Saturday. It sounded sad she was left at pushing stage for 3 hours before they did a emergency section? Is that normal? At my hospital you gt an hour before they intervene. Poor thing was not breathing and rushed to IC. They have had her on a brain monitor and now waiting a brain scan so sad. Hopefully she will be ok. Mum and dad are only 21

Doi g a baby sale on Sunday at nursery hope I can raise some cash. Thanks to all who helped on the eBay saga...just got to post it tomorrow xxx

 

[Samie18]

aww hope the bub is ok.

first babies we allow 2 hrs to push depending on how busy things are sometimes drs arent available and women do push longer =o/

 

[annanouska]

Il let you know. Apparently the doc was there in and out, funny how diff hospitals are different. She has more hair than Marcus

 

[betty14]

Hope the baby is ok Anna , hospitals really do differ huh!

Fab that Marcus nods now he is such a cutie pie! Don't stress about his hair, if he had loads you would have to get it cut and take it from someone who knows little boys do not sit still for haircuts

Samie that's fab! Sophia was clearly ready

Think that's the secret, you can't make them ready so no point rushing or pushing them, my mum says usually the summer they are 3 is the time to start as they can be naked on bottoms I'll wait and see how we go

Bed time for me now night night
Xxx

 

[Samie18]

im not so sure on the when they are ready train of thought

I feel everything a baby learns we teach so the earlier taught the quicker they learn.

In the 50's most kids were potty trained by 18 months. There is thoughts the disposable nappy trade pushed the when they are ready and invented pull ups etc to continue making us buy their product for longer..

Just my thoughts though

 

[hay246]

yea i agree with that samie. sophia done amazingly!
i maybe would have done what you have if our circumstances with house etc were different just wouldn't be fair at moment really. x