the story so far :-(

[JulieandNick]

Hi ladies. I am back. Not sure if anyone remembers me. I was mainly a lurker but did comment on a few occasions. We had a miscarriage in June and now we are supposed to be trying again but this is not our month it seems. Tomorrow is possibly O day judging by cm and dh is out of the battle with acute lumbago. It is a shame. We were at it like rabbits the week before and I had a really good feeling. We begun to try last October for two cycles. Then we didn't really have much chance because we both travel a lot for work so we resumed in March and got pregnant immediately but lost it at 12 weeks. Now we are trying again. Last time we had sex was last Saturday. It seems like the baby thing has been the focus in our lives for so long. I feel completely frustrated today. I cried all morning. Not sure how normal this is. I am too emotional.I don't understand why. This was supposed to be fun. Anything I can do to get my mind off the fact that I won't be testing this month?

 

[Jay900]

Hey hun I know how frustrating it can be when you know your out for a month even before af rears her ugly head. But your next cycle will be here before you know it.

I have irregular periods and they disappear some times so I'm just waiting for af to arrive after a two month absence, it's horrible just going about your life killing time till we can get back in the game. Me and my OH have just decided a couple months ago to start trying again after losing our first baby at 9wks last August.

I'm sorry I can't be much help, I just didn't wanna r&r.

Jay

 

[imstacey21]

Oreos fix everything..

 

[Lirpa11]

Hey Hun, you're definitely not alone. I went off birth control last august, and here we are a year later. DH works away 2 weeks at a time and home a week so some this we are out before we even begin. Then other months he can be home for 6 weeks, but AF decided to stay gone for 3 months until the doctor prescribed provera.....

Such a long process. Whoever said baby making was easy?

To take your mind off it, only thing I could think is to go out with friends, watch some movies, get a good book, or renovate the house it helps somewhat, but I haven't stopped thinking about it for so long now.... I don't think you ever will .