The we are too shy to talk to people and have ended LONERS group :)

[sophxx]

suz are you going to the manchester meet thus month? x

 

[Hayley90]

gemma, there is nothing wrong with being "like you" because YOU are fine! Ive answered your thread btw

And i am sortof relying on this mummy-instinct people talk about. i hope i posess it

my luck im defective and my common-sense guide to babies wont materialise...

 

[Emma1980]

When do you think I should add lunch in then? Im so clueless about all of this My HV came round to have a "weaning chat" a few weeks a go and literally all she told me was.... er yeah he's hungry, just feed him rice and purees till 6 months how helpful of her!!

I would do 2-3 weeks of what you're currently doing and then add lunch in hun x

 

[daniellelk]

if you dont want the book, i'll have it... i'll just scribble out the "idiots" bit

i guess i will pick it up as i go... soo much conflicting information, too much to cope with now i suppose.

i made a mistake this afternoon. i watched a birth video, and the lady had to have an episiotomy. that is labour fear number 1. i was almost in tears, and all my lady parts suddenly felt very precious... never again

She still hasn't given it me :/
Yeah sure we will get the hang off it!!

I never knew anything... i planned to breast feed. Still dont know much!! I make most of it up as i go along.

You will find one thing out when you give birth tho. Even if you are the last person on earth that people think would have had a baby (like me ) your mummys instinct will guide you the right way I PROMISE YOU. and dont go running to the doctors after ever sneeze the baby does.

Oh and dont make bottles with warm tap water. always boil the water put in the bottles to cool down. If you are putting the water in them in advance pop them in the fridge (i dont do this anymore but hey ho ) . urmmm make sure you dont lose count of scoops... and
get as much help as you can!! dont feel to scared to ask... Just take my advise and you wont end up like me

I have no maternal instinct's what so ever, it still hasn't really hit me that im going to be a mum and a little life is going to depend on me :/
No one seem's to understand me when i'm like....It still hasn't clicked
Don't get me wrong I can't wait, I just don't know lol bit hard to explain how I feel

 

[xpinkness87x]

I didnt realise i was going to have a baby untill i had him in my arms... and hayley i was defective for weeks. And you dont want to be like like me... remember the cactus insisdent

 

[Emma1980]

Suzanne - it gets way easier when theyre on 3 sold meals a day believe me!

Hayley - you wont even notice the episiotomy lol

Danielle/Hayley - i was the last person anyone expected to have a baby, my mum nearly passed out!

Just ask as many questions as you need to! and always point the peepee down in a nappy

 

[suzanne108]

You can ask us questions instead of posting in the other sections - we are all perfect mums so you don't really need anyone elses opinions hehe

Oh and I loose count of scoops all the time!

Soph - when is it? I'll have to check the thread xxx

 

[Hayley90]

I didnt realise i was going to have a baby untill i had him in my arms... and hayley i was defective for weeks. And you dont want to be like like me... remember the cactus insisdent

i couldnt help but laugh at it... i've had bump accidents, im sure i'll have similar scale accidents when he is here!

Emma - thats the one thing im sure of! dont want to ruin my fluffy nappies with escaping wee and poo...peepee stays down at the very least. I just have to teach liam this... otherwise he will just get weed on

x

 

[sophxx]

You can ask us questions instead of posting in the other sections - we are all perfect mums so you don't really need anyone elses opinions hehe

Oh and I loose count of scoops all the time!

Soph - when is it? I'll have to check the thread xxx

its the 13th of july i was thinking about going im abit nervous as ive never spoke to any of them apart from one but i need to get out more spen to much time on my own! x

 

[Emma1980]

i went to the last one & i aint goin to anymore

 

[daniellelk]

Im sure i'll be ok when he's here! My mum's only 2min walk away if I need her...

I'v been waiting for hour's for my OH to decide what he want's to eat, and he's just buggered off to bed with out telling me! So now i'm annoyed aswell as hungry and still don't know what to have and don't fancy cooking at this time

 

[Emma1980]

i have some left over dominos danielle

 

[Hayley90]

emma, what meet did you go to? was it the one that went "wrong" ?xx

 

[daniellelk]

i have some left over dominos danielle

i dont' like dominoe's lol I had one once and it was horrible.
I wouldn't mind him pissing off to bed with out saying if he'd not said "wait until I'm hungry aswel so we don't have to cook twice!"
doesn't help there is obviously something up with him, and I kinda know, but he still wont talk to me about it.

 

[Emma1980]

pmsl, which one went wrong?

i went to the manchester one last time and everyone knew each other already so no one spoke to me! i'm a cool loner haha

 

[xpinkness87x]

you wouldnt even notice a cut down there lol!! I didnt

but it is sore to sit for a few days but it gets better quick... i forget i had it most days... you wouldnt know unless you felt down there

 

[kayleigh&bump]

eeek makes me thankful for the c section when people talk about cuts and tears!!

 

[xpinkness87x]

DO NOT LAUGH AT ME!!

my status on facebook is true... i have been sitting here itching for hours

 

[Hayley90]

pmsl, which one went wrong?

i went to the manchester one last time and everyone knew each other already so no one spoke to me! i'm a cool loner haha

there was one which caused LOADS of arguments & threads on here, then loads of girls were deactivated and stuff... wondered if it was that one, or just a case of no one talking

im too scared to go to a bigger meet, id be so worried no one would realise im there & not miss me if i vanished...

sort of glad i cant go to BP meet ... in case no one really wanted to talk to me iykwim?

i dont have any good friends on here so cant safely say anyone would look out for me you know?

 

[xpinkness87x]

i have a few good friends on here but they all live to far away