They All Want It To Be Gone

[xprincessx]

dont listen to them. You will love and care for this baby and shouldn't get rid of it because others want you to. If they don't come round then they're not worth the bother, your baby is way more important so stay strong and be brave for the both of you!! Hugs

 

[lily123]

Refuse to listen to them babe Don't let it stress you out, just concentrate on your little life inside you and let them 'get over it' in their time, not yours!

Your OH should not be saying things like that, especially after your loss

Praying for you
x x x x

 

[Desi's_lost]

Boys are just that. boys. they dont always turn into men. and they can be downright heartless. thats kinda how my situation is. that boy said he wanted our baby then got cold feet when things went south with his family.
but dont let anyone tell you what to do. that is your baby, you are their only biological mother. fathers dont count as much cause they just dont get it. as long as you are going to love that baby and do everything in your power to take care of them, you keep that baby.

 

[lily123]

fathers dont count as much cause they just dont get it

Well i definitely wouldn't say that... however i did agree with the rest of your post

 

[Desi's_lost]

i say that because they dont understand what its like to have a baby growing inside you. they dont understand the need to protect that nor that the needs of the baby automatically are more important than they are.

 

[sleepinbeauty]

It's your body and your choice. If you want to continue the pregnancy then continue it. Maybe that was a knee-jerl reaction. It might take some time but they'll probably simmer down. If they don't I want you to know that you *CAN* do this.

Hang in there.

 

[mayb_baby]

thank u. . . He went out we the lads the nite it 4am here and im at my mates and he came banging ther door to apologse! Ughh he told me he has no plans and 100% wnt be living we me and our baby! But wants to be we me, he doesnt get it, thats not enough!

 

[sleepinbeauty]

Ugh, I'm sorry he's being an asshat. I hope he turns around the rest of the way ASAP.

 

[Shannen]

Well, your baby needs you, and will need you to be strong and firm and independent. They are bitter and will soon get over it, its just really early and theyre flipping out. Just think of your little gumdrop, your little angel....

 

[Croc-O-Dile]

thank u. . . He went out we the lads the nite it 4am here and im at my mates and he came banging ther door to apologse! Ughh he told me he has no plans and 100% wnt be living we me and our baby! But wants to be we me, he doesnt get it, thats not enough!

My FOB tried pulling a similar thing. He told me he wasn't going to be there for the baby and he wanted to pretend like she didn't even happen. Then when I broke up with him said, "But I want to be with you!"
"You want to be with me, but want nothing to do with the baby?"
"Exactly."
He was dead serious.

 

[mayb_baby]

I know and they thnk this is normal! What planet do they live on? Ugh role on 7months cant wait to meet my lil trouble maker who means more to me than any one and there only 7weeks cooked!!
My lo wil get al it needs from me thats a gaurantee! Thank u al x

 

[mayb_baby]

I know and they thnk this is normal! What planet do they live on? Ugh role on 7months cant wait to meet my lil trouble maker who means more to me than any one and there only 7weeks cooked!!
My lo wil get al it needs from me thats a gaurantee! Thank u al x

 

[sleepinbeauty]

I'm glad you're not letting their crap drag you down. You're going to be a GREAT mama to this baby!

 

[mayb_baby]

Thanks I hope I remain that way I love my lil bean and my angel nothing prioritises over them! Thanks You all really cheer me up