lilmonkey86
Mom of one, ttc #2
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I just stumbled across this and have a huge rant, so here goes
DH sent me a text yesterday morning that our friends think they might be pregnant, normally I would be over the moon for a friend being preggers, this being said our friends are 40, she has 3 kids, her oldest is 21, the middle is 14, and the youngest is 3, he has 3 kids oldest 19, middle 14 and youngest 12, they have 2-3 kids to a room already, they barely have enough money as is and are calling DH and I once every couple months to ask to borrow rent money or food money, her 14 year old is basically raising the 3 year year old, he got fixed before his youngest was even born (which makes the whole thing seem kind of fishy and I think he needs a DNA test done) so yesterday I was miserable, why do people that don't even take care of the kids they have now get to have more, but DH and I can't seem to have one. We have worked really hard to pay off our house, and build a financial nest egg so that we will be financially set with a kid no matter what happens. so last night DH tells me that they did a test and got a very faint positive so they don't know for sure, but I just know how the world works.
Rant Complete.
DH sent me a text yesterday morning that our friends think they might be pregnant, normally I would be over the moon for a friend being preggers, this being said our friends are 40, she has 3 kids, her oldest is 21, the middle is 14, and the youngest is 3, he has 3 kids oldest 19, middle 14 and youngest 12, they have 2-3 kids to a room already, they barely have enough money as is and are calling DH and I once every couple months to ask to borrow rent money or food money, her 14 year old is basically raising the 3 year year old, he got fixed before his youngest was even born (which makes the whole thing seem kind of fishy and I think he needs a DNA test done) so yesterday I was miserable, why do people that don't even take care of the kids they have now get to have more, but DH and I can't seem to have one. We have worked really hard to pay off our house, and build a financial nest egg so that we will be financially set with a kid no matter what happens. so last night DH tells me that they did a test and got a very faint positive so they don't know for sure, but I just know how the world works.
Rant Complete.