Think it's over for this month

[ellieb31]

I'm a POAS addict and started really early this month. I'm now on 10 DPO (I think) and I'm still getting BFN's. I know even 10 DPO is still early to get a BFP but I'd been feeling really unhopeful about this month anyway. I've had hardly any symptoms (a bit of nausea one evening and heart burn another) so I think it's about time that I accepted that those tests are not suddenly going to become BFP's.

I know people say you aren't out until AF arrives but I think that we all know in our heart of hearts when it hasn't worked and AF is imminent. Anyone else not due on AF yet but sure that they are out?

Thanks, Ellie

 

[schnoodle]

me me me me me!! im only 6/7dpo but i just know im not this month. yet again.

*sigh*

 

[ellieb31]

I really hope I get proven wrong but I know that I won't - I've no idea how I can 'know' something like that but I do.

Have you done any early tests? (can't remember if you're a POAS addict or not!)

I agree, 'sigh'

 

[Casey-Jones]

I'm a POAS addict and started really early this month. I'm now on 10 DPO (I think) and I'm still getting BFN's. I know even 10 DPO is still early to get a BFP but I'd been feeling really unhopeful about this month anyway. I've had hardly any symptoms (a bit of nausea one evening and heart burn another) so I think it's about time that I accepted that those tests are not suddenly going to become BFP's.

I know people say you aren't out until AF arrives but I think that we all know in our heart of hearts when it hasn't worked and AF is imminent. Anyone else not due on AF yet but sure that they are out?

Thanks, Ellie

Awww Ellie

I know how you feel, i'm not poas just yet but am sure i will be if i'm not successful in the next couple of months. I totally know how you feel, i feel like i'm out of the game and i'm not even due til the 23rd I'm a few days past ov, but don't seem to have any symptoms just yet, i've been ill though so it's even harder haha. xx

 

[schnoodle]

no hun im the opposite i refuse to test till af is at least 3 days late!!!

i dont know how you can just know but i fully believe you can hun! i know 7dpo is too early but i just know its not my month! x

 

[Lucina]

Im the same, I just know its not our month this month. So much so, Im currently bidding for CBFM on ebay right now.

 

[schnoodle]

aw hun, hope you get it! xx

 

[kafs78]

Hey, im on 7dpo, and POAS just there... BF FECKIN N !!

Should have known it was way to early, bu t i just couldnt resist.

I, also think im out this month - BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!

 

[ellieb31]

I think that the only solution is to start gearing up for next month. I'm thinking of trying preseed or one of the equivalents. I'm not sure about any of the others because, for example, could do baking soda finger or grapefruit juice but I'm not convinced that there's anything wrong with my EWCM and I don't want to do things unnecessarily.

 

[schnoodle]

i can reccoment pre seed hun i always have very little or no cm so i doi think it has helped me x

 

[poppymist]

Oh huni I was due af yesterday but still no sign of her yet my body keeps teasing me with cramps and stuff and cp and cm are confusing I am sure I am out have been sure since about 6dpo but af is just taking her time to come this month. I tested yesterday 14 dpo and bfn again heartbroken..... I am gonna test Thursday or Friday with fmu not sure which one yet though x

 

[ellieb31]

Thanks babe, someone else has recommended pregnacare conception as well so I might do some research on the two.

 

[ellieb31]

Oh huni I was due af yesterday but still no sign of her yet my body keeps teasing me with cramps and stuff and cp and cm are confusing I am sure I am out have been sure since about 6dpo but af is just taking her time to come this month. I tested yesterday 14 dpo and bfn again heartbroken..... I am gonna test Thursday or Friday with fmu not sure which one yet though x

Gosh, it's much worse if AF is late when you're convinced you're out. All of a sudden there's that chance when you've already started coming to terms with things.

GL hun, hope she arrives soon or you get your BFP so that can get out of limbo! xx

 

[schnoodle]

hope you know one way or the other soon hunn x

 

[jomax]

I'm a POAS addict and started really early this month. I'm now on 10 DPO (I think) and I'm still getting BFN's. I know even 10 DPO is still early to get a BFP but I'd been feeling really unhopeful about this month anyway. I've had hardly any symptoms (a bit of nausea one evening and heart burn another) so I think it's about time that I accepted that those tests are not suddenly going to become BFP's.

I know people say you aren't out until AF arrives but I think that we all know in our heart of hearts when it hasn't worked and AF is imminent. Anyone else not due on AF yet but sure that they are out?

Thanks, Ellie

Hi Ellie. I'm 10DPO today and decided to POAS. wasn't desperate to or anything - in fact i've been quite blah about the whole thing this month. BFN but i'm not really that upset about it as was pretty sure it would be. i think AF is coming too.......

 

[schnoodle]

so sorry hunny x

 

[ellieb31]

Just wanted to share this

https://www.mothering.com/discussions/showthread.php?t=555994

 

[Ruskiegirl]

Im 10 dpo to hun and im starting to loose hope myself for this month im about ready to just plain give up for good 9 and half years is way to long to be trying with no results!

 

[poppymist]

Bfn this morning fmu so gutted !!!! I just want af to come now so that I'm not stuck in limbo! X

 

[ellieb31]

Ruskie - That is such a long time to try for, I really feel for you. Maybe you should NTNP to give yourself a break if nothing else. It's a lot of emotional turmoil to go through each month and for so long.

Poppy - I know how you feel! Another BFN for me today as well It's stupid really, I wake up, get a BFN and start accepting that it's not going to happen this month but by the the end of the day I've had some symptoms and got my hopes back up again. I'm really starting to get cheesed off with it but my IC's will run out soon so I won't be able to keep doing this each month. I just keep telling myself at least I can have a few drinks this weekend on DH's birthday but it's not the same!