disneydarling
Mama to a baby girl
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We had our gender scan last night and found out we are expecting a second daughter! I'm thrilled, but my husband has seemed quite down since we found out and I don't know how to try and help.
He is super close with his dad, they work together, so he spends more time with his dad than he does with me. He has talked for years about how he wants to have the same relationship with his own son one day. His brother has 2 daughters and his sister has 2 daughters, so when we had our first daughter it was quite funny because there are just so many girls in the family.
When we fell pregnant this time we were convinced it would finally be time for the first boy! Since we found out that she's a girl, he's been so quiet and I think he feels upset but never would admit it, especially since I'm so happy about it. I want to try and be there for him and he can tell me how he feels, but it's difficult to know what to say because I don't really understand how he's feeling because I've never felt like that. I think he really wanted to be the one to get to say to his parents they are finally having a grandson.
I think he is also concerned about if his relationship with our daughter will change. She is such a daddy's girl they are best friends, and he's said to me before that he would prefer not to have another girl because he wants to keep the daddy-daughter bond just the two of them.
Sorry that was so long, I'm going to talk to him tonight when he gets in from work. Just needed to share because I've been worrying about it.
He is super close with his dad, they work together, so he spends more time with his dad than he does with me. He has talked for years about how he wants to have the same relationship with his own son one day. His brother has 2 daughters and his sister has 2 daughters, so when we had our first daughter it was quite funny because there are just so many girls in the family.
When we fell pregnant this time we were convinced it would finally be time for the first boy! Since we found out that she's a girl, he's been so quiet and I think he feels upset but never would admit it, especially since I'm so happy about it. I want to try and be there for him and he can tell me how he feels, but it's difficult to know what to say because I don't really understand how he's feeling because I've never felt like that. I think he really wanted to be the one to get to say to his parents they are finally having a grandson.
I think he is also concerned about if his relationship with our daughter will change. She is such a daddy's girl they are best friends, and he's said to me before that he would prefer not to have another girl because he wants to keep the daddy-daughter bond just the two of them.
Sorry that was so long, I'm going to talk to him tonight when he gets in from work. Just needed to share because I've been worrying about it.