Yeah the first month I was TTC my OH would joke "we won't get a pup on you by me just looking at you" which was funny the first few times, not so funny coming into the second month. After that first month we just DTD when we felt like it. We'd go a whole week without BDing because my OH sex drive just isn't high enough for him to enjoy DTD every second or third night for weeks on end. I suppose the second month we just enjoyed DTD as some nights we would use a textured condom if we didn't want want to go for a shower afterwards.
Making a baby is suppose to be fun, not a choir, which I found out first hand how easily it can become a choir if your not careful