Alright so my edd is technically April 20th. But if my LO tries to come one more time after this week, my doctor isn't making her stay in. And even if we make it past this week, no one seems to think I'm going to make it full term. My family isn't throwing me a shower til April 9th, and my friends won't throw one before my family does, so I'm worried I won't have one til after my baby is born, and I won't have everything I need, but I don't wanna go out and buy everything just to make it full term and get that stuff again at a shower. So...is it rude to suggest to my family that we change the date to Feb or March?