Those TTC for awhile.

[sarahuk]

so ds had to go potty last night after i put him to bed. i had to get creative since i can't pick him up. he is unable to get up and go himself because of the brace he wears at night. so i brought his potty chair on his bed and he went there,lol! he peed in his bed without actually wetting it!

Bless him!!! Yep sounds like life is going to be imaginative now for the next few weeks! x

 

[moter98]

tina, im so sorry that your going through all of this but please try not to worry too much, take it easy, relax with your feet up watching movies and getting your OH to run around after you


x

thank you pinky! i'm trying not to worry, but it's really hard not to. especially since i'm just sitting around all day, not able to do anything. it's only been 1 day and i'm going a little stir crazy! and here i thought making it to the 2nd trimester meant you were home free. ha!

 

[sarahuk]

I reckon the only time things really relax hun in pregnancy is when baby is in your arms!

Youll see though...this rest will do the trick and Alec is going to be perfect like his big brother!

Results in

15dpo: 93.
17dpo: 295.

Id say that means ive got a viable pregnancy most likely in the right place Trippled!!!

x

 

[moter98]

i'll be waiting right here for your results! bet they are great. can't wait for your scan too. so exciting. they should see like a sac or fetal pole at 5+4? maybe that's something fun i can google!

i will talk to DH about taking off till 20 weeks, which is when the nurse said my next scan will be. she said that's how long to wait to see if tear heals. but still kinda hoping dr will order one before then. i would like to take off i think till i have another scan that can tell me what is going on in there.

i may be posting on here a lot since i have nothing to do now for awhile! get ready to read

Of course chick! If we can help make your time pass faster then thats what we shall do!

Yep they should atleast see the sac. Ill be happy with that at this point. Just to know my tubes are clear will be a massive load off! Ill let you know the results once I get them..I am beyond nervous its not even funny lol.

I thiknk that sounds like a good idea hun with the timeframe youre thinking. Take the time off till the tear is healed then ease back in gently. I would have thought they would have done extra scans to see how its healing. I atleat hope they do!!

No more bleeding? x

any results yet? i'm anxious to know sarah. hoping for wonderful news!

the nurse told me i wouldn't have scan till 20 weeks to give the tear time to heal if it's going to. from reading about it, if they heal at all most take months to do it. i'm gonna beg dr next week for one sooner though. maybe they can at least tell if it's stopped actively bleeding now and/or gotten smaller. sure could use some good news like that! i haven't spotted anymore since after my cervical exam wednesday. my understanding is that these things are a stop and start kinda of thing and it may happen at any moment. if no more spotting, it either means blood is pooling in my uterus, clotting in my uterus, or my body is reabsorbing the blood. i want it to be my body is reabsorbing the blood and reattaching the placenta.

 

[moter98]

I reckon the only time things really relax hun in pregnancy is when baby is in your arms!

Youll see though...this rest will do the trick and Alec is going to be perfect like his big brother!

Results in

15dpo: 93.
17dpo: 295.

Id say that means ive got a viable pregnancy most likely in the right place Trippled!!!

x

WOOHOO!!!!!!!!! you've got a sticky bean in there!!!!!

 

[sarahuk]

Sure hope so! But i think im safe to enjoy it for now

I have every faith that baby is fine and that the placenta is starting its journey to healing.

I really hope they give you that extra scan. Im sure they will though. That little extra peace of mind from checking it out will only help your body be able to devote that bit extra attention to healing rather than feeling anxious and stressed xx

 

[moter98]

i'm having mild cramping right now and reading that cramping means blood clot. if it were to even form a blood clot away from the placenta that would be better than forming behind the placenta. i also read that sometimes the torn area clots and scars over, not really reattached, but it kindof seals it off. i would take that too, i'm desperate! the cramps are alarming, just hoping it means something good is going on in there.
don't see why dr wouldn't let me get a scan if i request one. i mean, i'm paying for it and it's for a legitimate medical reason.

 

[sarahuk]

I cant even begin to grasp the thought that anyone could say its not a ligitimate reason to have the scan!

Perhaps its the healing starting I suppose if you thnk about it, if a bit of the placenta has torn lose it will need to reseal/reattach. Perhaps its cramping because its trying to rebuild that connection to you x

 

[moter98]

i just read too that bleeding in uterus causes cramping. could be any of that really. no way to know without a scan. i think the only reason dr wouldn't give me the scan is because they don't consider a pregnancy viable until 24 weeks. meaning there is nothing they could do at this point even if it were to get worse. by 24 weeks they are able to give steroids to develop babies lungs and meds to stop preterm labor. i am gonna tell him though that i need one for peace of mind. he knows how worried i am. i have seriously lost my appetite and am making myself eat. never, ever happened to me in my life! i love to eat.

 

[sarahuk]

Can you not give the office a call today honey and tell him how youre feeling about all this and see what he says about the early scan? Atleast then if you know they will give it you, its one less thing you need to have swilling about in your mind x

 

[moter98]

No I can wait. It's just another week. I don't want to bother him again. It was hard enough getting him to see me while i was bleeding. Dont think he would be happy to hear from me for a question like that. I'm doing ok now. Just gonna try to be optimistic and take it easy and the rest is out of my hands. I at least know I am doing everything I can for baby.
Sure missing my Aden. His hugs are the best thing in the world.

 

[babykhu]

Hi ladies

Im new on here, but just wanted to kno if anyone has had a BFP after Laparoscopy?

 

[moter98]

Hi ladies

Im new on here, but just wanted to kno if anyone has had a BFP after Laparoscopy?

i haven't, but my SIL got pregnant 2 cycles after one with triplets! they were also doing fertility treatments, hence the triplets.

 

[moter98]

Pinky, haven't heard from you about the surgery? wasn't it this week? please update! want to know how you are doing.

 

[sarahuk]

No I can wait. It's just another week. I don't want to bother him again. It was hard enough getting him to see me while i was bleeding. Dont think he would be happy to hear from me for a question like that. I'm doing ok now. Just gonna try to be optimistic and take it easy and the rest is out of my hands. I at least know I am doing everything I can for baby.
Sure missing my Aden. His hugs are the best thing in the world.

It must be really strange with him not there hun. Best thing for mummy at the moment though!

Yes...happy forward thinking Bleeding has stopped. The tear will heal. And baby will be here in no time! x

 

[sarahuk]

Hi ladies

Im new on here, but just wanted to kno if anyone has had a BFP after Laparoscopy?

Hmm no but I had a bfp the same cycle of the HSG GL!

 

[sarahuk]

Pinky, haven't heard from you about the surgery? wasn't it this week? please update! want to know how you are doing.

I hope she doesnt mind me telling you, but ive seen you ask twice now so...but her surgery got cancelled at the last minute and had to be rearranged x

 

[Pinky32]

awww tina - i really hope your tear heals up quickly so that you can relax and enjoy the pregnancy xxxxx

my operation has been rearranged to the 28th sept - another 4 weeks

 

[moter98]

awww tina - i really hope your tear heals up quickly so that you can relax and enjoy the pregnancy xxxxx

my operation has been rearranged to the 28th sept - another 4 weeks

noooooooo! whyever would they make you wait so long in pain? not fair.

 

[moter98]

No I can wait. It's just another week. I don't want to bother him again. It was hard enough getting him to see me while i was bleeding. Dont think he would be happy to hear from me for a question like that. I'm doing ok now. Just gonna try to be optimistic and take it easy and the rest is out of my hands. I at least know I am doing everything I can for baby.
Sure missing my Aden. His hugs are the best thing in the world.

It must be really strange with him not there hun. Best thing for mummy at the moment though!

Yes...happy forward thinking Bleeding has stopped. The tear will heal. And baby will be here in no time! x

it is. my MIL is brining him tomorrow and staying overnight so that i can see him. she will take care of him and do some cleaning for me. what a sweet , sweet woman!