Those TTC for awhile.

[Pinky32]

part of me doesnt mind waiting - the surgeon is an upper limb specialist and also my consultant so i know him and feel comfortable with him - the first surgeon was a lower limb specialist and when i met him after the operation i hated him immediately - arrogant! its only another 4 weeks which is nothing after 14 months lol

im praying for you tina - i want you to enjoy this time - not spend it worrying

awwww thats lovely of MIL helping out with aden

 

[moter98]

that makes sense. i would want to wait for the best specialist too.

thank you. it's a scary time. unfortunately, the rest of the pregnancy will be worry. hoping it will be many, many, many weeks of worry. don't like the alternative. at this point, just trying to make it to next scan and hope and pray and plead and beg God for it to be healed.

yeah, my MIL is great. she's gonna bring him home tomorrow and stay to take care of him and clean for me. wonderful woman. my SIL too is gonna help out. she will bring her kids about once a week to spend the night and help out with aden. they are older, 10 and 14

 

[sarahuk]

No I can wait. It's just another week. I don't want to bother him again. It was hard enough getting him to see me while i was bleeding. Dont think he would be happy to hear from me for a question like that. I'm doing ok now. Just gonna try to be optimistic and take it easy and the rest is out of my hands. I at least know I am doing everything I can for baby.
Sure missing my Aden. His hugs are the best thing in the world.

It must be really strange with him not there hun. Best thing for mummy at the moment though!

Yes...happy forward thinking Bleeding has stopped. The tear will heal. And baby will be here in no time! x

it is. my MIL is brining him tomorrow and staying overnight so that i can see him. she will take care of him and do some cleaning for me. what a sweet , sweet woman!

Awwww thats so sweet!! Aden cuddles are gunna make you feel better!

 

[Pinky32]

yes, that why i dont mind waiting

i cant imagine how your feeling and nothing i can say will take that worry away from you but i KNOW that everything will be fine - you'll make it to the scan, you'll make it through the rest of your pregnancy and the tear WILL heal

its great to have the family to help you out - aww even though their older, its nice for aden to have his cousins near him to play with - its better that their older as they wont be running around as 3 little ones would lol

 

[moter98]

No I can wait. It's just another week. I don't want to bother him again. It was hard enough getting him to see me while i was bleeding. Dont think he would be happy to hear from me for a question like that. I'm doing ok now. Just gonna try to be optimistic and take it easy and the rest is out of my hands. I at least know I am doing everything I can for baby.
Sure missing my Aden. His hugs are the best thing in the world.

It must be really strange with him not there hun. Best thing for mummy at the moment though!

Yes...happy forward thinking Bleeding has stopped. The tear will heal. And baby will be here in no time! x

it is. my MIL is brining him tomorrow and staying overnight so that i can see him. she will take care of him and do some cleaning for me. what a sweet , sweet woman!

Awwww thats so sweet!! Aden cuddles are gunna make you feel better!

Cannot wait to see him!

 

[moter98]

yes, that why i dont mind waiting

i cant imagine how your feeling and nothing i can say will take that worry away from you but i KNOW that everything will be fine - you'll make it to the scan, you'll make it through the rest of your pregnancy and the tear WILL heal

its great to have the family to help you out - aww even though their older, its nice for aden to have his cousins near him to play with - its better that their older as they wont be running around as 3 little ones would lol

Thank you so much. Hope you are right. I'm in tears now. So emotional lately it's crazy. I'm not usually like this. I cry at the drop of a hat!

My dh's family has been so wonderful. They are really going above and beyond for me. Love them so much. My SIL brought me movies and some little candy bags to put together for her business. So grateful to have something to do. I'm regretting getting rid of all my crochet stuff now. Not much to do when you just sit or lay around all day.

 

[sarahuk]

Im not surprised your emotional though. Youve been through a major stress and now with having to rest your mind is going to be going round and round.

Sounds like they are all rallying together chick. Its lovely I bet tomorrow cant come fast enough for Aden though!

Can you not order some supplies for some crochet on the net? Ive found it a wonderful distraction and could be just what you need at the moment


x

 

[moter98]

i could, but with ds coming home it wouldn't be worth it. he would never let me sit there doing that. he would want to help, and just unravel it all, run around with the yarn, etc. i'm counting on him entertaining me when he's home.
honestly, its driving me crazy not knowing what's going on inside. such a long wait to see which way this is gonna go.

 

[Pinky32]

it will all be fine

enjoy the films and doing the candy bags

bring on the aden cuddles for mummy!!!!!

 

[sarahuk]

True crochet and kiddies dont really mix!

Hope you have a lovely day today with your cuddle Monkey Tina xx

 

[moter98]

Get to see my baby today!!!!!!!!!

 

[sarahuk]

YAY!!!! How long till he gets there? x

 

[moter98]

Don't know. MIL hasn't called yet. Had a tiny bit if spotting this morning. at least it was so little that it was questionable.

 

[Faythe]

Let us know how you get on

 

[moter98]

It may be a long wait. I dont have a scan for 5 weeks to see what's going on in there. Trying to remain calm about it. I know there is blood in the uterus and it will need to go somewhere. So it doesn't necessarily indicate anything unless it gets severe. Just wish I could know whats happening in there.

 

[moter98]

My baby is home!!!!!!!!

 

[sarahuk]

YAY!!!! Are you having a good time?

Happy 16wks also hun! xx x

 

[moter98]

just feel so much better with him home. we watched finding nemo and cuddled.

happy 5 weeks sarah!

 

[moter98]

rooster, how are you feeling? any better yet?

 

[moter98]

faythe, when is that baby coming?