TIE WELCOME JACK, HENRY, DEVON, ROXAS, PENELOPE, MATILDA, THEO and Charlotte!!

[Jess19]

I thought I might go into labor yesterday when I had to go get my dog from the field in the back yard. She wasn't listening when I was calling her so I put on my snow boots and coat and walked/hiked tdown to the field (in amost knee high snow) it was such a work out lol
I was having contractions while I was doing it but then I go back in the house and sat down and they stopped
I was very tempted to go bck out there but its too damn cold lol

I have been bugging DH to help kick start labor but he refuses to have sex with me its very annoying
He only has DTD with me twice in the last 2 months and both times he was a little drunk. So I'm all like "what, you can't DTD with me unless your drunk?!" It makes me feel bad and unattractive.
I told him last night how much it bothered me that he wont DTD and that idont want to be prego aymore but he just couldn't understand and get past a baby being "right there" and it freaks him out

I have a labor ball and I was on it last night but it didn't seem to do anything.
I don't think she's dropped and prob never will. My DS didn't fit in my pelvis (I'm too small) so I'm guessng that se won't either

Right now my only hope I that my water will break. But I guess it only happens to 1 out of every 10 women (not good odds)
And my water broke with DS so I figure it makes my odds even lower because I've aleady had it happen once in my life. It prb won't happen agan

 

[mammag]

Hey, my water broke with both my boys before I ever had a contraction!! So it can for sure happen twice!!!!

 

[honeysuede]

Yeah my waters started leaking at home. And keep on with the birthing ball. It will happen soon, I know it doesn't feel like it but it will

And as for DH - men are useless at this point i'm afraid, my OH didn't DTD at all when I was pg as I have said before. I just gave up in the end.

Sending you lots of labour dust!!!
xxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Jess19]

Wow I can't believe they broke with both you two! That's awsome!!
Maybe it will happen for me again, that does give me some hope

thanks for the support girls, idk what id do if I didn't have you girls here

 

[honeysuede]

Wow I can't believe they broke with both you two! That's awsome!!
Maybe it will happen for me again, that does give me some hope

thanks for the support girls, idk what id do if I didn't have you girls here

xx

 

[honeysuede]

Here is a pic from T of lovely little Devon
xxx

 

[mammag]

Beautiful T!!!!!! He's SO precious!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Jess19]

Aww he's so adorable! What a handsome little man

 

[MrsStutler]

Oh my goodness, Devon is SO cute! I just want to love on him!

Rant away Jess! Those last few weeks and days are HELL. At one point I was actually hysterically crying because a friend of mine went into labor before me. Like full on two year old temper tantrum crying and screaming. Not one of my more proud moments. We tried everything to start labor, walking was the most productive though. I still think it's all a load of crap...not that I won't be trying all of it again next time. You have every right to be anxious and grumpy. I'm sorry your hubby is being so useless. Men are just so dim, they don't ever think about how their actions will be taken. That's why we are the smart species entrusted to carry around the baby for 9 months and provide the food. If it were left up to men humanity would have died out a lot time ago. Gotta love em though. I wish I could make time move faster for ya, I know it's just torture! I'll be saying my prayers for you.

I'm finally better and mostly recovered from my sinus thing. Saw the doctor on the 4th and all is going splendid. She was able to find the heartbeat with their doppler. I left out the part about me having one at home and finding it since this doc isn't a fan of either home dopplers or the 3d scans. Blood work looked great, she was a little bit concerned about why I had lost 3lbs but I'm not all that worried about it.

School started up again and I just feel so unprepared for it. I was a wreck at our skills review. I messed up all three of the skills demonstrations I was supposed to do. I actually started crying during the last one because I was so frustrated and mad at myself. Thankfully the instructor was forgiving since I was still coughing like crazy and she knows I'm pregnant and therefore an idiot most of the time.

 

[Jess19]

thanks girls

Kayla i So want a doppler for home it would calm my nerves a TON!
Esp since last nights episode
I went to labor and delivery for too much movement. I know it sounds crazy (both DH and my mom made me feel like a crazy woman)
But it was totally freaky and I had to know she was ok. She was voilently kicking and rolling and shaking (for 2 hours!) Nonstop! Usually she will have her little bursts of energy that last a good 15 minutes but this was WAY more intense and lasted what seemed like forever. And all her movents were causing contractions too. It was kinda uncomfortable with the erratic movements and contractions. But the contractions weren't regular at all
All I could picture was her in there all wrapped up in her cord trying to "break free" and it terrified the hell out of me.
I told DH and my mom id rather spend a few hours to know that everything is ok than a life time of regret.
I have a drs appointment at 1145 this morning so ill talk to the dr then. Maybe even discuss an induction date (for the 21st)
Maybe even convince DH to walk around the mall fo a while I'm not taking a stroll outside right now its too damn cold lol

 

[MrsStutler]

Aw, I would have gone in too. We went in twice for reduced movement and it was because he had the cord around his neck and would compress it if he laid on it a certain way so it's not a crazy concern to have! That doppler was SO worth the money. DH still has no idea how much I really spent on it but it's been so helpful. For some reason I'm just overly paranoid this time and it's been unbelievably reassuring.

I hope you don't end up having to be induced! I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy. I'm really, really, really hoping for no induction this time. We'll see if I change my tune at 40 weeks though

 

[Grumblebea]

Aww T he's so cute and looks a lot like you. Jess she'll be here soon! I'm officially on vacation, off on a cruise tomorrow to the Bahamas. I need some nice R&R.

 

[Jess19]

That sounds so lovely!!! Have tons of fun!
Can't wait to see pics

 

[MrsStutler]

Ooooh Bahamas! Sounds like fun!

Fun story. We had hospital orientation today. We had to wait in the IT room for our security passes, and it was crazy warm in there. As we were standing there I started feeling faint...then nauseous. As we were leaving the room I couldn't control it anymore and threw up into a trash can outside the door. In front of a waiting room full of people, and all my classmates. Oh the joys of pregnancy! My instructor guessed right away. First thing she said was, "Pregnant?" Lol

 

[honeysuede]

Hi everyone, how are things??
Kayla - that made me giggle wow you're almost 12 weeks!

Jess - how are you feeling?

It was a year ago yesterday that I found out I was pregnant with Jack, where did that time go?
xx

 

[Jess19]

I'm doing good getting a little impatient lol
I have a drs appointment in about an hour, ill update when I get back.....wish me luck!

 

[mammag]

Good Morning Ladies!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Jess!!!! Will you have that baby already!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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[Grumblebea]

Wow! Sorry to hear that Grace but good for YOU. You don't need any more shit. I can tell that you are a strong woman and you just need to figure out how you can be independent from him for you and your boys. No worries on rants...we all do it from time to time. Big hugs.

 

[Jess19]

Were having a baby tomorrow!!!! C section scheduled for 5 am!!!!
She's not dropping and I'm not dilating so even if I do wait it out then ill prob end up having one anyways so......id rather have her here now than in a week lol

Awwww Grace I can only imagine how hard its has to be
You def deserve to be treated like a queen!

 

[waiting2c]

Awwwww grace I am so sorry to hear that things are not great. Well done to you for knowing what you need o do and having a plan towards achieving it. You are a very strong woman! I hope.it doesn't take you as long as you are thinking. We are always here for ranting!! Always!

Jess!!!! Excite!! Not long at all. I can't wait to see pics!!