M, that sounds very annoying about your lodger, I understand him looking out for himself by finding somewhere else I guess, but there is NO excuse for that utter lazy ness & disrespect! Have you told him he needs to get his arse in gear & tidy up after himself> I know it is hard & you dont want an atmosphere but it really isnt fair for him to let you clean his mess & take his parcels! What a knob! Tell him you need the living room for your yoga & while you do that he can occupy himself with cleaning the kitchen


I say all these things but I am such a wimp myself when it comes to confrontation, I usually keep quite & end up being taken for a mug! Its something I am working on

Brooke, I know, I might have to learn to drive, I just HATE the thought of it, the lessons I had before I HATED. OH is thinking about learning.

xxxxxx