That is terrible, no matter what your age, a loss is a loss, 14 or 40, makes no difference, it's going to be terribly painful.
And thankyou!! ((takes a bow)) The doctors were surprised as well, but it was a slow leak, I went to my normal check up and told them I had been feeling very wet, they tested and sure enough it was amniotic fluid, it was so scary, the nurse that took me to the ambulance (they transported me to a different hospital more equipped for very pre term babies) told me that I would NOT leave the hospital without a baby, but at the time, I never imagined I would spend 9 weeks there. They controlled my contractions for a long time, but eventually at night on sep 24th my water completely broke while I was sleeping, so he had to come, it only took 6 hours after my water broke to give birth, the reason they kept me in the hospital with the leak was because I had dilated 3cm, and they said with a baby that small 2-3 more cm would be all I needed to have him. And I was only 9 when I did. But I had been on steroids to make his lungs strong, so he was only in the hospital for 3 days and he got to come home, a nurse came to see us every day though.