I'm devastated right now. Things have been getting worse between me and DH for a few weeks, and we now decided on a trial separation - he has just left to go to his mum's. After 8 yrs of marriage I never thought the stresses of the 1 most natural thing (supposedly) in the world would be the cause of something like that. I thought I would get the support I needed from BnB since no-one in our families knows we have been TTC ( I told 1 friend and she is now 5mths preg and lives 300 miles away anyway) but it seems not. Some of my posts have been taken the wrong way (if they get a reply at all) and I only ever meant you guys the best. I don't know why things have turned out this way.... Hope you all your BFPs real soon.