Time out! C4 BFN

[SaraiMin]

I thought this passed month was it for us. Or, maybe I was hoping really hard. Either way, what I thought were conception signs turned out to be a major bladder/kidney infection. I had never had one, so this was a super bad surprise.

My DH and I are taking a month off from TTC. AF came 4 days early this month, and I am supposing that just put me out of my misery when you think about it. At least I didn't have to wait those 4 days to find out that, yet again, we aren't pregnant. I cried. A lot. I am lucky to have the things I have in life. My WONDERFUL and supportive husband carried me through that day. Even though he too was upset, he was able to pick me up and make me feel better.

He will be at a conferance during my next ovulation, so there really wasn't much chance anyways.

To all my gals out there keeping up the good fight, remember not to lose heart. It WILL happen when it's time, and not a minute before. Praying for you all.

 

[sadangel777]

Awww, I'm so sorry!!!

Have a good relaxing month, and next month you will be all set for your BFP! I know how much the BFNs hurt, and I know all about the curveballs your body can throw you (I thought last cycle was IT because no AF and turns out I didn't OV and missed my AF ... set me back a whole month).

When we get our BFPs this will all be behind us!

 

[SaraiMin]

you are always so kind. I don't know how to thank you. I am scared, but feel good about taking the next month off now. There's nothing worse than constantly waiting for something that doesn't happen. This will be a month of not having to worry about anything. It's kinda like hitting the reset button. We just start over, but on our own terms. I just don't want to weep about it for a month or so.

Can I just say that I DO feel bad that There are so many people that have been trying a lot longer than we have who have been disappointed on much larger scales. I realize that 4 months really isn't that long. I do hope that every one on here gets their BFP sooner rather than later. It does feel nice not to be alone.

 

[kerrbear7183]

I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope that your break allows you to relax and get ready for a BFP when you come back. I know it can be so frustrating and devastating to see BFN after BFN and especially after a long cycle. I've had cycles up to 90 days. It's so emotionally draining after awhile.

I know what you mean about feeling bad because osme people have been trying for much, much longer. We have been NTNP for 4 years and actively trying for 2 cycles so it hasn't been very long for me.

If it's not too hard for you, I hope to still see you around while you're taking a break.I understand if you wouldn't be able to. In case you don't feel like you can, we'll miss you and will be waiting here when you get back.

 

[SaraiMin]

I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope that your break allows you to relax and get ready for a BFP when you come back. I know it can be so frustrating and devastating to see BFN after BFN and especially after a long cycle. I've had cycles up to 90 days. It's so emotionally draining after awhile.

I know what you mean about feeling bad because osme people have been trying for much, much longer. We have been NTNP for 4 years and actively trying for 2 cycles so it hasn't been very long for me.

If it's not too hard for you, I hope to still see you around while you're taking a break.I understand if you wouldn't be able to. In case you don't feel like you can, we'll miss you and will be waiting here when you get back.

I will still be around I am still wanting tips/tricks that people are learning. I just love all the sharing and caring that goes on in this forum. It makes me feel like I am not alone in all this, even when I feel that I am. It's nothing against my friends/family... but they just don't want to hear about is as much as I want to talk about it. It's on my mind all the time.

It's this wonderous support that makes me stay. I just can't imagine feeling as loney as I did when I first logged on to this forum. Thanks so much for your support, and good luck to you as well.

 

[kerrbear7183]

I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope that your break allows you to relax and get ready for a BFP when you come back. I know it can be so frustrating and devastating to see BFN after BFN and especially after a long cycle. I've had cycles up to 90 days. It's so emotionally draining after awhile.

I know what you mean about feeling bad because osme people have been trying for much, much longer. We have been NTNP for 4 years and actively trying for 2 cycles so it hasn't been very long for me.

If it's not too hard for you, I hope to still see you around while you're taking a break.I understand if you wouldn't be able to. In case you don't feel like you can, we'll miss you and will be waiting here when you get back.

I will still be around I am still wanting tips/tricks that people are learning. I just love all the sharing and caring that goes on in this forum. It makes me feel like I am not alone in all this, even when I feel that I am. It's nothing against my friends/family... but they just don't want to hear about is as much as I want to talk about it. It's on my mind all the time.

It's this wonderous support that makes me stay. I just can't imagine feeling as loney as I did when I first logged on to this forum. Thanks so much for your support, and good luck to you as well.

I'm glad you'll still be around. I agree about not feeling lonely when on here. It is so great to have the support and so many people to just talk to. It is so helpful to have all the various experiences and stories to share. There is such a wealth of information here. It's so great!