My hospital won't do delayed cord clamping. I asked with dd
I would do it if I could! They do let us donate though!
It's your choice. They can't make you cut the cord early, even if they say it's policy. You can say "I will be choosing to do this" and they cannot stop you. Of course they let you donate -- they benefit from doing that, but your baby benefits from delayed cord clamping. (Yes, I'm a bitter person!)
If you don't hemorrhage, the very best thing is to wait until after you birth the placenta. That's what my midwives do as a standard.
With my first birth at home, I did hemorrhage so they cut the cord after about 5 minutes. You can wait to see whether there are any signs of hemorrhage before cutting it. With my second birth, I didn't so we waited until after I birthed the placenta.
Check out physiological vs active management of the third stage. I'm guessing your doctor wants to do active management, but there are benefits for doing it physiologically.
Interesting. It's my first baby so I don't know much about the details, and the birth will be at a hospital. How long did it take with your second baby? How long does it typically take for the placenta to come out? I am not sure if they would be willing to wait longer than 2-3 minutes at the hospital to clamp the cord..
It can take up to an hour or more to birth the placenta physiologically, and that's completely normal, there's no reason to rush it unless you're bleeding profusely. I did it that way both times. With my first birth, it took about 15 minutes. With my second birth, it took 30 minutes. There was no rush, I just cuddled my baby until I felt the urge to push it out, and I just stood up in the tub and pushed it out while nursing him. Nursing helps bring on the contractions to birth the placenta. Like I said above, it is YOUR choice how long you wait -- your autonomy overrides hospital policies, but they like to make you think that you don't have a choice. You do.