Told it won't happen for us-too old

[GoldieLocs]

After I deliver a healthy baby, I'd like to write him a letter with baby picture included and tell him to stick it where the sun don't shine!

That is what I was going to suggest!

Congrats!

 

[bjenniferk8]

Oh, yes. Even if your doctor needs to tell you something that isn't ideal, s/he should deliver it in a sensitive way.

And... Here is some info for you to take or leave, but a friend of mine who is 42 recently did IVF in Mexico on the recommendation of her very excellent/trusted doctor. It sounds sketchy (to me anyway) but it wasn't. She loved her experience--the place had tons of referrals, cost $5K, she said it felt like staying at a fancy resort for 2 weeks and... it WORKED. So not saying this particular option is for you, but maybe it will give you hope that perhaps there is an option out there that you haven't thought of that could work for you. I wish you all the best. 39 seems still very in the realm of possibility.

 

[TrAndyy]

I don't know your full story either but it sounds to me like you need to see a different doctor. How insensitive?!