Torn - help??

Discussion in 'Gender Disappointment' started by MadamRose, Mar 5, 2021.

  1. KatBar

    KatBar ~Lucky mumma of 2 boys + girl on the way~

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    Sorry to hear that!! Fingers crossed for good news after the next tests!
     
  2. MadamRose

    MadamRose Mummy to 2 and cautiously pregnant with #3

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    So I went for my 20 week scan I was feeling 100% about not knowing. Then my friend sent me this saying she thinks it’s the gender and now I’m torn all over again - she said if it is it’s clearly a boy and I just don’t want to get my hopes up ](*,)](*,)](*,)

     
  3. motherofboys

    motherofboys Home educating, TTC-ing, crazy mum of 5 boys!

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    It's so hard to say. My friend recently had our little group guess what her babies gender was from a side profile scan at 16 weeks and I was the only one who said girl. Most of the others were even pointing out that they could see a scrotum. She is having a girl. I CAN see what your friend might think is the baby boy parts, but purely because of that experience above I wouldn't want to get your hopes up just in case.
     
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  4. MadamRose

    MadamRose Mummy to 2 and cautiously pregnant with #3

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    Thanks I was feeling fine and I had grown okay with it but now she’s said that to me it’s made me question all over again
     
  5. motherofboys

    motherofboys Home educating, TTC-ing, crazy mum of 5 boys!

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    It's such a tough choice when you have such riding on it. I always wish I hadn't found out with my first. I would have been so happy to hear "it's a boy" after he was born, and then I would have had that experience without worrying about my reaction if I wait
     
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