trying before af

[Kitty1979]

Hop I'm exactly the same. No idea when af will show up. It's been 30 days since MC, I'm guessing although regular cycle of 30 days will be longer this time. No af signs at all. When r u going to test?

 

[taquito0523]

right there with you kitty..... Been 8 weeks since MC and no sign of AF, and of course POAS ever since 9 DPO and all BFN. Ugh this just sucks.

 

[kaaylaa123]

I'm very sorry for your loss. It sucks. I'm also TTC before AF arrives! I miscarried May 3rd & bled until May 9th. All natural as well. I was only 6 weeks & my OBGYN told me to just keep taking my prenatal vitamins & there would be no harm in continuing to try! IF AF decides to be on time this month I should start on the 31st. I doubt it'll be on time though. But I'll start testing around that time! BC I do believe I OV at the time I normally would(14 days after MC started), I had the gross discharge & idk if this is an OV symptom, but I got asked by a lot of people for a few days if I was PMSing. Lol!! Baby dust to all of us!!!

 

[hop]

Hop I'm exactly the same. No idea when af will show up. It's been 30 days since MC, I'm guessing although regular cycle of 30 days will be longer this time. No af signs at all. When r u going to test?

I broke down and tested yesterday and got a positive.

I have no idea what to think. I feel like my body recovered and maybe I ovulated shortly after the MC...my pregnancy symptoms vanished almost immediately...but now I've just confused myself more because I know it could just be residual hormones from the MC. This is so frustrating! I wish there was a more precise science to it...I feel like my body is in limbo right now.

Friday, a coworker (that I used to be good friends with, but am no longer close to) announced to some other people that she is pregnant. Due the same month I would have been. It hit me like a ton of bricks and it took everything I had not to cry. It seems so unfair and I'm so frustrated.

And what's worse is that I've become so consumed with this, I don't know if I'll be able to be happy until I've gotten another chance.

Sigh. Good luck to you girls. I really wish the best for all of you. I wish I could snap my fingers and get us all right out of this mess and right into the last trimester.

 

[hop]

I will say that my pregnancy symptoms have returned. I have a low grade headache constantly, I've lost my appetite, I'm queasy and I have had diarrhea (sorry, tmi) a lot. Like I said, they vanished right after the MC...so it's giving me a tiny bit of hope...I just don't know what to think.

I guess I'm going to wait a week and test again. And brace myself for a negative.....

 

[dan-o]

Hi ladies, another one ready to get on with things here! I think I've finished miscarrying now, just a faint shadows on my HPTs and spotting. Can't wait for the spotting to stop completely so I can get close to my hubby again, to been a rough and stressful few weeks!

We will be ntnp this cycle and ttc after that.

 

[dan-o]

Hop test again in a day or two, you should know either way then! Did you test negative at all? How long is it since your loss?

 

[confuzion]

Still around as a quiet stalker here. Hope all of you ladies are out of limbo and back in the first tri soon!

 

[MissJenn_xx]

I'm sorry for your loss! We found out around the same exact time about our losses. You had a d&c on May 8th and I chose misoprostol on that same day. I had very bad cramping, lots of clots, and heavy bleeding, which has now subsided to just spotting. I'm hoping to conscience before AF, but my pregnancy tests are still showing positive as I expected. I'm hoping by next week to get a bfn (the only time I'm ever hoping for that!) we should be buddies

I just received my hpt and opk in the mail. I couldn't resist checking. It was a faint line but it was still unfortunately pos :growl mad: I am so anxious!! I think I need to go back to see my doctor so I can see where my levels are at. How is everything going with you?

 

[mcwhmm]

I had a MMC and took misoprostol on May 8th and bled until May 15/16th and if has now completely stopped. I was only 6 weeks along. I have been taking both Hpt and opk twice a week just to moniter because I am curious and anxious! My test yesterday was a faint positive on the hpt and a dark positive on the opk which confused me.. I have heard it's possible to ovulate if your hcg is very low but I don't think mine is just quite yet. But now today I have been feeling super off. I have had cm today after being completely dry the last 3 days. Also I am super in the mood and just want to go home and jump my hubby after work and I have not felt that way really since last time I knew I ovulated. I know I am probably getting my hopes up, but dang! Lol

 

[MissJenn_xx]

I had a MMC and took misoprostol on May 8th and bled until May 15/16th and if has now completely stopped. I was only 6 weeks along. I have been taking both Hpt and opk twice a week just to moniter because I am curious and anxious! My test yesterday was a faint positive on the hpt and a dark positive on the opk which confused me.. I have heard it's possible to ovulate if your hcg is very low but I don't think mine is just quite yet. But now today I have been feeling super off. I have had cm today after being completely dry the last 3 days. Also I am super in the mood and just want to go home and jump my hubby after work and I have not felt that way really since last time I knew I ovulated. I know I am probably getting my hopes up, but dang! Lol

Thats exactly what I got! A faint positive on the hpt and dark positive on the opk. I wasn't sure what to think about that but I asked my DH to come home to BD just incase

I have been feeling really down this passed week. Im trying not to stress out about getting PG again but I am totally stressing.

Today has been a much better day though. Im feeling hopeful.

Im keeping my FXD for us

 

[mcwhmm]

I had a MMC and took misoprostol on May 8th and bled until May 15/16th and if has now completely stopped. I was only 6 weeks along. I have been taking both Hpt and opk twice a week just to moniter because I am curious and anxious! My test yesterday was a faint positive on the hpt and a dark positive on the opk which confused me.. I have heard it's possible to ovulate if your hcg is very low but I don't think mine is just quite yet. But now today I have been feeling super off. I have had cm today after being completely dry the last 3 days. Also I am super in the mood and just want to go home and jump my hubby after work and I have not felt that way really since last time I knew I ovulated. I know I am probably getting my hopes up, but dang! Lol

Thats exactly what I got! A faint positive on the hpt and dark positive on the opk. I wasn't sure what to think about that but I asked my DH to come home to BD just incase

I have been feeling really down this passed week. Im trying not to stress out about getting PG again but I am totally stressing.

Today has been a much better day though. Im feeling hopeful.

Im keeping my FXD for us

How far post mc are you?? I am not sure what to think of my tests! But I'm happy that my hpts are getting more and more faint! My body has always regulated itself very quickly both after having my daughter as coming off bc. I'm hoping this is the same!

 

[MissJenn_xx]

How far post mc are you?? I am not sure what to think of my tests! But I'm happy that my hpts are getting more and more faint! My body has always regulated itself very quickly both after having my daughter as coming off bc. I'm hoping this is the same!

I was told on May 1st that there was no HB, but that I was measuring the right amt of weeks. So it had just happened a day or two prior to that.

So its been around 20 days or so.

 

[mcwhmm]

How far post mc are you?? I am not sure what to think of my tests! But I'm happy that my hpts are getting more and more faint! My body has always regulated itself very quickly both after having my daughter as coming off bc. I'm hoping this is the same!

I was told on May 1st that there was no HB, but that I was measuring the right amt of weeks. So it had just happened a day or two prior to that.

So its been around 20 days or so.

Mine was just a few days after yours. I don't remember if you have said this yet or not so sorry of you have ( I'm on my phone so I can't look back while I'm posting) but have you had a negative test yet? Mine is still very very faint positive.

 

[Kians_Mummy]

I had medical management on the 2nd May (was 13 weeks). Done a pregnancy test 10 days after and its still positive but me and OH has been having unprotected sex for 4-5 days now twice a day. We feel ready to try and hospital said as long as bleeding has stopped we can

 

[mcwhmm]

I am getting so excited about my tests being almost completely negative! I'm guessing by Thursday or Friday they will be completely negative or even closer! Then I am going to start just using opks. Here was this mornings test with FMU https://i8.photobucket.com/albums/a38/xxhmarieoo/Mobile%20Uploads/image-3.jpg

 

[ladders]

I was the same I think it was the first time ever iv been pleased to see a negative hpt! I started testing opks and got a positive a week after negative hpt. Really want a bfp instead of my first af after

 

[mcwhmm]

I hope you get your bfp! I'm guessing that by the looks of my test, it will be negative by the end of the week and I will be taking two opks a day

 

[confuzion]

FX ladders!

 

[MissJenn_xx]

How far post mc are you?? I am not sure what to think of my tests! But I'm happy that my hpts are getting more and more faint! My body has always regulated itself very quickly both after having my daughter as coming off bc. I'm hoping this is the same!

I was told on May 1st that there was no HB, but that I was measuring the right amt of weeks. So it had just happened a day or two prior to that.

So its been around 20 days or so.

Mine was just a few days after yours. I don't remember if you have said this yet or not so sorry of you have ( I'm on my phone so I can't look back while I'm posting) but have you had a negative test yet? Mine is still very very faint positive.

Yesterday was the first time I tested. It was just a faint positive line.