trying before af

[Kitty1979]

Af arrived today for me. No BFP for me. If my next cycle is back to normal I should be ovulating while me and hubby are away for a few days to france.... Could work out well! Hope all you ladies are doing ok.
Hit me today I'd be getting ready for my first scan soon if all had been ok, sad.

 

[dan-o]

Kitty sorry for af, but great you have a fresh cycle all ready for your rainbow!

Mcwhnn, I'm the same as you, teeny squinter on a hpt, almost bfn!

Good luck Kian's and ladders!

Miss jenn, hope you get a clear answer soon! Fx for you!

 

[pink_phoenix]

Hi everyone, thought id join all you fab ladies.
Just wanted to say im so sorry for all your losses but thank you for this thread and support for everyone. Make things so much easier knowing others are going thru the same as you and understand.

I went for my 12w scan on mu birthday (14/05) to be told there was no HB and growth had stopped about 8-9 weeks. I miss carried naturally that night, had already been spotting and getting cramp 3 days prior and been in a and e twice.

Ive now stopped bleeding and as of yesterday me and OH have started to be intimate again. Were not "trying" but decided we would just see how it goes.
I have't done any HPT since coming out of hospital but was advised about 2weeks after i should do one to ensure my hormones were back to normal, but im unsure how a positive test so soon would make me feel knowing its not actuall a real BFP.

Wishing everyone all the best with their rainbow babies xxx i hope its not a long process for anyone xxx

Thanks again

Pink xxx

 

[mcwhmm]

Kitty sorry for af, but great you have a fresh cycle all ready for your rainbow!

Mcwhnn, I'm the same as you, teeny squinter on a hpt, almost bfn!

Good luck Kian's and ladders!

Miss jenn, hope you get a clear answer soon! Fx for you!

It's sad to want a bfn! But it's so exiting!!! Lol I just want to be for sure that when I get a bfp next time it's not left over hormones

 

[ladders]

Got to 14dpo yesterday and did an Internet cheapie hpt and sure I could see a faint something, did another today and bit more and now just done a digital and bfp!
No af between this and mc and it's exactly what I wanted but I'm now so scared it won't stick, Dh doesn't want to talk about it until a week if still getting a positive,

 

[confuzion]

Big congrats ladders! FX for a sticky bean this time!

 

[dan-o]

Wow congrats ladders!!!! Fab news!

As for me AF arrived today at 7dpo lol!!! Strange but quite welcome as 2 miscarriages and 1 chemical 3 cycles on the trot was quite a lot to go through!

A nice relaxed month of fun and frolics ahead (and hopefully a longer LP!!)

 

[mcwhmm]

Got to 14dpo yesterday and did an Internet cheapie hpt and sure I could see a faint something, did another today and bit more and now just done a digital and bfp!
No af between this and mc and it's exactly what I wanted but I'm now so scared it won't stick, Dh doesn't want to talk about it until a week if still getting a positive,

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Congrats!!! How many days post mc were you when you got your bfp?? I had positive opks this weekend and ewcm and I'm hoping I actually O'd. This would make my ovulation happening about 2 weeks and a few days post mc and I'm trying to wait at least 10 days to take a test. I have always gotten bfps early with my daughter and my last angel I had positives at 8-9dpo and dark by 11. It's so frustrating not knowing when to expect af.. But I'm hoping she doesn't come!

 

[MissJenn_xx]

Congrats Ladders!!!

As for me, I got my AF yesterday 25 days after my D&C.

 

[ladders]

Got to 14dpo yesterday and did an Internet cheapie hpt and sure I could see a faint something, did another today and bit more and now just done a digital and bfp!
No af between this and mc and it's exactly what I wanted but I'm now so scared it won't stick, Dh doesn't want to talk about it until a week if still getting a positive,

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Congrats!!! How many days post mc were you when you got your bfp?? I had positive opks this weekend and ewcm and I'm hoping I actually O'd. This would make my ovulation happening about 2 weeks and a few days post mc and I'm trying to wait at least 10 days to take a test. I have always gotten bfps early with my daughter and my last angel I had positives at 8-9dpo and dark by 11. It's so frustrating not knowing when to expect af.. But I'm hoping she doesn't come!

I ovulated just over two weeks after my miscarriage and also had positive opk and ewcm so fx crossed you will catch the egg and it will be sticky! I'm still freaking out a little because I want this to stick for me more than anything

 

[MissJenn_xx]

So now that i am on cd1 when do i want to start opk ?

 

[mcwhmm]

How long are your cycles normally?? It's so hard after a mc I just got a positive opk 3 weeks after my cm and now I'm wondering if I really ovulated and when and if af will come! I would say the earlier the better if you have a lot of opks!

 

[confuzion]

mcw, looking at your chart it looks like you ovulated. But because the temps are teetering right above the coverline, I'm worried it might be low progesterone. Can you get your doc to give you some progesterone to start now? You stop it if no BFP but FX you won't have to stop it.

 

[MissJenn_xx]

How long are your cycles normally?? It's so hard after a mc I just got a positive opk 3 weeks after my cm and now I'm wondering if I really ovulated and when and if af will come! I would say the earlier the better if you have a lot of opks!

I never really kept track because I was on BC and I rarely got a period. Maybe just a day or two at the most of spotting but usually nothing. When I got off BC in December 2013 I had a period on Jan 27th and on Feb 24 so that was exactly 28 days apart.

 

[mcwhmm]

mcw, looking at your chart it looks like you ovulated. But because the temps are teetering right above the coverline, I'm worried it might be low progesterone. Can you get your doc to give you some progesterone to start now? You stop it if no BFP but FX you won't have to stop it.

I am trying not to go by my temps, even tho I know that is the way to ensure ovulation happened.. But in saying this because a lot of my temps should be discarded because they were not right away in the morning. I was more relaxed about it because of just having a mc, but was trying to get into the habit of checking it. I was hoping for ovilaion, but not expecting it

 

[mcwhmm]

=MissJenn_xx

According to the instructions in the first response box it says for a 28 day cycle you should start testing on CD 11. Like I mentioned in an earlier post, it depends on how many opks you have too! If you have quite a few I would maybe start a day or two earlier just to be sure

 

[Button#]

Congrats ladders!

 

[taquito0523]

Got to 14dpo yesterday and did an Internet cheapie hpt and sure I could see a faint something, did another today and bit more and now just done a digital and bfp!
No af between this and mc and it's exactly what I wanted but I'm now so scared it won't stick, Dh doesn't want to talk about it until a week if still getting a positive,

CONGRATS ladders!!!! That is some amazing news! I have been MIA for a bit as the heartache of this MC is really starting to hit me now. Finally got AF after 9WEEKS.... ugh. And boy did she decide to come back. I thought for a while that I would get BFP since there was so much time between the MC and AF, but then got wacky OPKs too. Says that I O'd twice within 2 weeks of each other, so not sure what that is all about.... now AF came on 5/23 and i SHOULD have O on 6/6, but no sign of anything at this point. I just keep using the OPKs hoping that I will get something more than just that empty circle..... I need a smiley face.

Hugs to all you ladies and hope you are all well too.... I am sorry to have been away for a bit. This all just gets so hard and so much to bear sometimes.....

 

[mcwhmm]

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Do my tests seem to be getting darker again to you? or is it just my eyes.

 

[Bug222]

hi ladies... can I join you? Im 13 days post MMC.. BD'd for the first time since last night. No idea if/when I will ovulate as I don't temp or anything but hoping I get lucky!