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[willowtree24]

Aww sorry swimmyj onto next cycle with me. I can't believe none of us have got any bfps yet. I'm getting abit stressed and upset ladies what's happening ! I must book a doctor's appointment !

 

[swimmyj1]

I know i'm getting so frustrated!!! we need some good news in this group. I'm trying to hold off and do 3 cycles of clomid and see if that gets me a bfp. But i really want to just call the fertility specialist in my area. They have all of their costs right on their website which is nice because looking at it I could totally afford an IUI but not an IVF lol.

Trying really hard to just wait the 3 months but its sooooo hard!

 

[willowtree24]

I know i'm getting so frustrated!!! we need some good news in this group. I'm trying to hold off and do 3 cycles of clomid and see if that gets me a bfp. But i really want to just call the fertility specialist in my area. They have all of their costs right on their website which is nice because looking at it I could totally afford an IUI but not an IVF lol.

I've been taking my ovulation strips everyday and there is like the faintest of lines atm haha. I'm having acupuncture still for various reasons I wonder if I should tell him about ttc as he doesn't know but might be able to help me as he is like a Dr too. I'm going to try my best this cycle and see what comes of it. Over here we get 1 gp at ivf on the NHS then we have to pay and go privately for £2.500 a time

 

[swimmyj1]

just got back from a crazy long kayaking trip felt sooo good to be out with nature and camping on the river. really did good to lift up my spirits ive only been doing my opks once a day usually i do them like 3 sense my surge is so short. but im just following my doctors advice and just bd every other day lol.

I can't believe how hot it is here!! we need rain lol,

Hows everyone else doing?

 

[willowtree24]

just got back from a crazy long kayaking trip felt sooo good to be out with nature and camping on the river. really did good to lift up my spirits ive only been doing my opks once a day usually i do them like 3 sense my surge is so short. but im just following my doctors advice and just bd every other day lol.

I can't believe how hot it is here!! we need rain lol,

Hows everyone else doing?

Glad you had a good time ! It's so good to be out in the fresh air. I find it really calming. Oh really I think that's what happened to be this cycle. I took an opk hot slight faint line do thought oh this should get darker over the next few days. Next day I didn't even have a line and again no line. I'm so confused. How do you find the time to BD every other night. My dh goes away on nights and it's usually when I'm fertile so that doesn't help things

Baby dust all

 

[swimmyj1]

lol it sounds so sad but i think the only reason we have been bding every other day is because no joke i've written it on our calendar ...... this way my dh can see what nights i'm working so he knows when he needs to come home a little earlier from work hahahaha. My doctor kind of gave him an evil glare when saying it (I think he's scared of her).

Still not feeling very hopeful about this cycle but maybe we will have some luck.

 

[willowtree24]

lol it sounds so sad but i think the only reason we have been bding every other day is because no joke i've written it on our calendar ...... this way my dh can see what nights i'm working so he knows when he needs to come home a little earlier from work hahahaha. My doctor kind of gave him an evil glare when saying it (I think he's scared of her).

Still not feeling very hopeful about this cycle but maybe we will have some luck.

Haha that sounds like a good idea !! Haha might have to start that keep track because I get confused and never know if he's on nights or not. So I've defiantly ovulated got a solid dark line yesterday which means I bd 3 days and 2 days before. Didn't get another chance

 

[swimmyj1]

2 days before is still a chance don't count yourself completely out. I got a peak on my monitor yesterday so on to the tww for us! Weird thing is though I got the peak but my wondfo's I don't think were ever a true + they were close but not quite. So we will see

 

[willowtree24]

2 days before is still a chance don't count yourself completely out. I got a peak on my monitor yesterday so on to the tww for us! Weird thing is though I got the peak but my wondfo's I don't think were ever a true + they were close but not quite. So we will see

I'm in the tww now and I'm feeling funny. But posative this cycle. I've been having mild nausea lol. I'm only on 3 dpo. Your right I never really understood thw right time to BD

 

[Brandy_R]

Hey all! Sorry been out for a while. Had a cp this month The silver lining is we did it on our own because we are on a break for fertility meds!!! I about died when I got a faint positive and then a good one the next day! The following day it was faint again and the next day it was gone Now just waiting for af so we can start again if my cysts are gone. Happy tww to you ladies!!

 

[swimmyj1]

Awe brandy im sorry those darn tests gave you that false hope. Are you still going to be testing or just waiting for AF to show up?

Im being a downer again. idk what to do to keep myself out of this funk. Im only 2dpo and already am counting myself out. Idk why but I just am, have a home sperm test for my DH probably going to do that this weekend and see if his count came up at all. Going on another kayaking trip this weekend for 5 days so at least being on the progesterone will keep AF away until I get back lol.

 

[Brandy_R]

Oh man I hate thank funk. I seem to be in those for like a week a month or so. It gets to disappointing and draining month after month. I'm glad you are getting to go on another kayaking trip to clear your head and keep your mind off it a bit. Gotta love progesterone for stopping af haha!

I'm just waiting for af now. I took another test yesterday just in case and it was bfn so I'm just waiting now. I'm on cd 31 today and i usually have a 32-35 day cycle so anytime I guess. I was just so excited we did it on our own and it was gone in a blink of an eye. I learned my lesson from testing early and just can't do it anymore. This next cycle we are doing injectables again and I'm. It testing until cd 11 and am thinking about just doing digitals. I am sick of getting faint lines all the time. Ugh lol

 

[swimmyj1]

My doctor has said to me many times that she hates home pregnancy tests because so many women have chemical pregnancies that if they didn't test at home they would never have that hope. I know i'm going to have to test while being on progesterone but I will just wait until i have like 1-2 pills left and if its negative then i'll stop and not worry about it.

I just keep thinking we should just go see the specialist and stop wasting time.

And i'm just gonna say it again vaginal progesterone is so icky!!! hahaha do you think its ok to bd while using this stuff?

 

[Brandy_R]

Omg yes!! I felt so nasty the two weeks I had to take it also! Ugh lol. My fs told me to just test at 14 dpo and if it's bfn to just stop it. Af started two days after stopping it. So at least you dont have to wait for that. I think it's safe to bd when using it. I didn't because I just couldn't get past the "discharge" but I was never told not to.

We are having money issues so we might be taking another cycle off Sucks but the injectables, u/s and e2 checks just add up so much. Ugh why can't it just happen naturally?

 

[Brandy_R]

I'm just getting discouraged. We had our ectopic pregnancy in Jan. couldn't try again (metho shot) until June. Bfn last cycle after spending thousands and then a chemical this cycle. Man.....

 

[willowtree24]

I'm sorry brandy ! No body has had any good news on here yet. I'm only about 9 or 10 dpo and having headaches and waves of nausea. Trying not to get hopes up and not testing. How's you swimmyj ? I've got a doctor's appointment tomorrow to see what's going on as I'm not well atm anyway.

 

[Brandy_R]

Thanks ladies. It's ok. Just my luck lol. Yes someone needs some good news soon! We are taking another month off of fertility treatments this cycle because of financial issues. So I am going to try temping and opks. We shall see. Today is cd2 for me. How's everyone doing? Have you tested Willow? Hope everyone is doing well

 

[willowtree24]

I took some opks tjat freaked me out because some were posative and some nearly posative.. having major headaches and sickness af is due today we shall see what happens but so far no pregnancy tests I'm too afraid lol. I wish you all the luck for this cycle brandy !! Lots of baby dust.

 

[swimmyj1]

hang in there gals. I still can't believe my eyes. Got home from vacation tonight and got a BFP! its light but def there. going to take a digital in the morning and i already had an appointment to talk to my doctor on wednesday gonna beg her for a blood test. really hoping its not just a chemical or something. I've been super weepy today

 

[Brandy_R]

Omg Swimmy!!!! That's AWESOME congrats! Did you do a digital yet? Or a blood test?!!! That's so exciting!!!!!!