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[ABmommy]

It'll come fast! I should know either way by then if AF arrives or I get a BFP. Yes it's good it's getting darker! Just try to keep yourself occupied. Organize things or clean or get out n about.

 

[swimmyj1]

Willow I know it seems like ages away. I swear it was worse than the tww waiting for ultrasounds and appointments lol.

I was 11dpo today and still bfn so i'm pretty sure i'm out. I'll test again tomorrow but if still negative I'll stop the progesterone and it will be on to next month. 100mg of clomid this time. Still haven't heard from the genetic specialist yet, I'm getting very annoyed that its going to take so long to get in.

 

[willowtree24]

Willow I know it seems like ages away. I swear it was worse than the tww waiting for ultrasounds and appointments lol.

I was 11dpo today and still bfn so i'm pretty sure i'm out. I'll test again tomorrow but if still negative I'll stop the progesterone and it will be on to next month. 100mg of clomid this time. Still haven't heard from the genetic specialist yet, I'm getting very annoyed that its going to take so long to get in.

It is so much worse lol i thought tww was bad tryimg to relax take it easy and jeep busy but its on my mind constantly. I pray everything is well. Id maybe give them another ring and explain so you get some more answers. Really hope you get your bfp swimmy are you having any symptoms

 

[willowtree24]

Willow, I'm glad you get to get in so early!! That'll help put your mind as ease. Is it a 6 week ultrasound? Do you have a lot of symptoms?

Swimmy, I'm sorry you guys are going through this! Sorry I didn't comment earlier, this last week has been crazy so it left me scatter brained and I just read all the comments! Maybe therapy will help. It's soooo hard when you can't conceive and it's your fault. I've went through it and have cried and cried to DH telling him how sorry I am we can't have a baby and he deserves someone that can. It really takes a toll on your self esteem. If it makes you fee any better, DH and I got in a fight on O day because he thought bd'ing was just a chore and yada yada. Needless to say I was PISSED and he maned up and got the job done lol! Omg I would have went off if I did allllll that stuff to just dtd when it was time after my ovidrel shot!! Hope things start getting better for you and DH. When are you going to test?

ABmommy, you are totally right on men not getting it a whole lot lol. We're the ones that have to go through it all so I think it's hrs for them to understand. Their lucky haha

Brandy ive got a list of them now i am very nauseous. My nipples are sore and swollen i have bloating going on need the toilet for a wee loads feel very hot atm. Im praying for you so much for your bfp

 

[Brandy_R]

Aww thanks Willow! I can use all the prayers I can get for sure! Sorry time is going to slow for you! Time is dragging over here also! 5dpo today. Woke up feeling hungover and over slept! I think it's from the progesterone I'm taking. HATE it! 9 more days until testing haha!!

Swimmy- sorry they are taking so long for the trying place! What the geckos the hold up? I get very frustrated waiting for stuff like that too! Sorry about the bfn! Keep your chin up! You still have some time! I'm always told to test until 14dpo and if bfn then stop the progesterone but everyone is different. Do you hate progesterone as much as me? Lol it's sooooo nasty!!! Your chart looks good though!!!

 

[willowtree24]

Aww thanks Willow! I can use all the prayers I can get for sure! Sorry time is going to slow for you! Time is dragging over here also! 5dpo today. Woke up feeling hungover and over slept! I think it's from the progesterone I'm taking. HATE it! 9 more days until testing haha!!

Swimmy- sorry they are taking so long for the trying place! What the geckos the hold up? I get very frustrated waiting for stuff like that too! Sorry about the bfn! Keep your chin up! You still have some time! I'm always told to test until 14dpo and if bfn then stop the progesterone but everyone is different. Do you hate progesterone as much as me? Lol it's sooooo nasty!!! Your chart looks good though!!!

You deserve all happiness ! US ladies go through so much to have a baby I feel like I've been on this journey forever lol. Any symptoms at 5dpo brandy ? I wish you luck. I've been waking up earlier than usual which is unlike me lol. 6 days to wait for me and counting. Will you not test until 14 dpo then ? Or do you think you'll be tempted

 

[Brandy_R]

Yeah it'll be 14 dpo (I believe). I'm not sure if I'll be temped yet haha. I just tested out my trigger shot so we will see how long I can go without poas lol! I wanted to wait because my nurse said to test then and we looked up the date and it was thanksgiving so I thought that was cool. Now I'm not so sure because I will be pretty shocked if it worked and I'm not sure if I want to be disappointed on the holiday or not. It might be good distraction though. Now I'm kind of debating to test the day before haha. Not too many symptoms really. I'm on progesterone so it's really hard to tell because it could just be that. The last two days I've woke up feeling nauseous until I'm awake for an hour or so. Omg waking up early was what I did when I was pregnant!!!! I always say that's how I'll know when I get pregnant again! It's weird huh? I woke up today before my alarm so I take that as a good sign

Did you test again Swimmy? Fingers crossed for you!! If not, maybe we will get our bfps for Christmas!!! I will be completely shocked if this is the month for me.

 

[smyleegrl324]

Hey ladies, not sure u remember me but I was on this thread a while ago, I had to take a time out and refocus on my husband, my marriage, new job, and family. . So sorry to read that y'all are still having such a difficult time, it's so hard! Some people make getting pregnant seem so easy. .praying for all of you and for Christmas miracles!

 

[Brandy_R]

Aww thanks smyleegrl! Are you back to ttc? Sometimes a much needed break is just the key to collecting your thoughts! We've been trying since Jan and this cycle is our 3rd cycle trying because of breaks! They are forced but still. Always feels like a breath of fresh air when you start again!

Ok ladies!! TMI alert!! Yesterday (6dpo) I went to wipe and noticed it was slippery! Of course I checked it out and I had ewcm!!! I have never in my life had it EVER! I didn't think my body produced it! Don't know if that's a good sign but that's awesome that I know what it is now haha! Made my day for sure! I am so 50/50 about feeling out this cycle and feeling really good about it! My temp is still climbing but idk much about temping so who knows. No sore bbs. Just the ewcm and some pressure down there is about it. Guess we will see! I am debating to test Monday and then on thanksgiving! I suck at waiting lol. Monday will be 11dpo? Any thoughts?

 

[ABmommy]

Welcome back smylee.

AFM, AF started yesterday. My opks should arrive tomorrow so I can't wait to start using them. Happy I got my period after just coming off bcp in October. FX that's a good sign my body is getting back to normal.

Brandy- FX for you! When is AF due? I'm too impatient so I'd test Monday if I were you, lol. I suck at waiting too.

 

[ABmommy]

Willow how are you doing and feeling?

 

[Brandy_R]

AF is due in a week. Thanksgiving haha! I decided I'm testing Monday and if it's bfn, I'll wait till thurs. today my stomach is sooooo bloated and pressure like crazy! If I'm not pregnant, I can't wait for af to release this pressure!

 

[willowtree24]

I hate waiting.. haha what yiu ladies doing to keep occupied. I'm 5 weeks today. I'm staying very positive and thankful of my pregnancy

 

[Brandy_R]

That's good Willow! No need to stress. It doesn't help anything. Man, I need to take my own advice lol. I'm going crazy playing this waiting game. I keep thinking my trigger is out but I tested today and it was a light light pos. Could be the trigger still though (I think). I'm 8dpo today

 

[willowtree24]

That's good Willow! No need to stress. It doesn't help anything. Man, I need to take my own advice lol. I'm going crazy playing this waiting game. I keep thinking my trigger is out but I tested today and it was a light light pos. Could be the trigger still though (I think). I'm 8dpo today

The waiting game that's all we do for everything isn't it tww waiting to ovulate waiting for appointments lol I might buy a book pass the time abit haha. Was it really brandy ?? I'm praying for you !!!

 

[Brandy_R]

Omg! Who knows! Still faint positive today. 12 days since trigger and 10dpo. Guess I'll just keep testing until it either eye darker or goes away. Last time the shot was out of my system in like 7days. Idk why to think right now. Pretty annoying to be honest. I'll let you guys know if I ever find out lol

 

[ABmommy]

Willow - your appt is soon! ahh yay!

Brandy keep us updated!!

AFM it's CD5 and I'm just hanging out waiting to start using my opks - dtd today and DH yet again made a comment afterwards about not being ready for a baby. Swear, I don't know why he goes back and forth but it drives me nuts! I know he wants one, so what the heck?

 

[willowtree24]

Aww ABmommy could he be nervous do you think as it's becoming more real ? Here for you ! Yes tomorrow exciting !!

 

[ABmommy]

I think he is nervous, mostly about being financially ready. We are, but I think he has moments where he just has a freak out. Because now today he's talking about me being pregnant. Gosh doesn't he know my emotions are crazy lol especially with all the little details in trying to get pregnant.

 

[swimmyj1]

So glad you are doing well willow I'm so happy for you.

My fingers are crossed Brandy, anymore testing???

Finally got an appointment with a fertility specialist. unfortunately the clinic is 3 hours from my house. But I would rather drive than have to wait 4 months for an appointment at the one by my house. Fingers crossed for this cycle I would love good news for Christmas.