stiletto_mom
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Hi everyone, not sure how to say this or even if this is the right place. Hoping that someone maybe in a similar situation as me.
DH and I are TTC #1. I'm not charting or temping, so I guess technically trying not preventing (TNP). We are dtd almost every other day (and I know it doesn't really matter until O-days), but I'm just enjoying the intimacy and fun with my hubby atm.
Situationally, I've been pregnant before. About 10 years ago (when DH and I were just kids) we got pregnant. We were so young, still in school etc. We chose to terminate. The second time it happened, our contraception failed us. Terminated again. So, I've carried two pregnancies (only about 5 - 6 weeks each). Both of them were very different. First one, I was super nauseous at 4 weeks and craved raw salmon. Second one, nothing... maybe moody but that's it.
I'm anxious and nervous about TTCing as it naturally brings back memories. Also, we started NTNP in August, and TTCing in October and were kind of disappointed when AF came in November.
I know it's WAAAAAAYYY too soon to be disappointed, but as I got knocked up when I was young so easily, I suppose I thought it would be just as easy. I wonder if it's age or just luck?
Anyway, I'm just wondering if anyone out there is TTCing their #1 and have maybe have been pregnant before (whether you terminated or loss doesn't matter). Just wanted to connect or hear about your experience(s). Thanks!!
DH and I are TTC #1. I'm not charting or temping, so I guess technically trying not preventing (TNP). We are dtd almost every other day (and I know it doesn't really matter until O-days), but I'm just enjoying the intimacy and fun with my hubby atm.
Situationally, I've been pregnant before. About 10 years ago (when DH and I were just kids) we got pregnant. We were so young, still in school etc. We chose to terminate. The second time it happened, our contraception failed us. Terminated again. So, I've carried two pregnancies (only about 5 - 6 weeks each). Both of them were very different. First one, I was super nauseous at 4 weeks and craved raw salmon. Second one, nothing... maybe moody but that's it.
I'm anxious and nervous about TTCing as it naturally brings back memories. Also, we started NTNP in August, and TTCing in October and were kind of disappointed when AF came in November.
I know it's WAAAAAAYYY too soon to be disappointed, but as I got knocked up when I was young so easily, I suppose I thought it would be just as easy. I wonder if it's age or just luck?
Anyway, I'm just wondering if anyone out there is TTCing their #1 and have maybe have been pregnant before (whether you terminated or loss doesn't matter). Just wanted to connect or hear about your experience(s). Thanks!!