TTC #1 Hopeful and Obsessed! lol

[BelleNuit]

I really think one of us will get a bfp soon. Let's support each other until we all get BFPs!

AF is officially finished today, so now it's just the wait to O! Will probably start BDing at CD 8, as CD12 is the earliest that I O.

 

[BabyC4Me]

Good luck belle ! Fresh start to a new cycle always feels empowering !

Any new things you are going to try this month ?

 

[BelleNuit]

Changing my diet, exercising, cutting back on coffee and alcohol and thinking about trying soft cups

 

[BabyC4Me]

Wow. That's a lot !!!!!

I'm here for it

Hopefully it at least puts you in a better mind set during the TWW knowing you changed some things about the process.

 

[BelleNuit]

I'm already feeling better actually! I've basically done everything wrong for ttc up until now. Guess I kinda deserve for it to take longer as a result!

 

[BabyC4Me]

NO ONE deserves this torture !!!

im literally watching back to back " live pregnancy test " videos on youtube...not helping at all!!!!

going to a wine festival tomorrow with friends...tempted to test before hand just incase baby is growing ....i will be 10-11dpo tomorrow...

what do you think ??

 

[GoldenRatio]

Babyc you should test before u go if u gonna drink, it's not fair to drink and hurt ur baby, just because u promised not to test or bfns are heartbreaking

 

[BabyC4Me]

Okay golden !!!! I agree. Just peed in a cup and will test as soon as Hubbie leaves to take out the trash lol

 

[BabyC4Me]

And according to FRER( my least favorite brand after my false positive last month ) I am not preggo as of 645 am Saturday morning.

Off to the wine festival I guess !

 

[GoldenRatio]

Well at least you can drink in peace! Go and enjoy ur day hun

 

[BelleNuit]

Sorry babyc! I really struggle with that too when it's coming to the end of the tww. It's one of the only reasons why I will test early

 

[GoldenRatio]

DH sold his car yesterday and I had to take my car to service this morning. They said service will take four hours!! Then we starting walking around like hobos, got cramps from walking and sun made me feel sick. Thankfully my friend picked us up after hour of walk

 

[BelleNuit]

I hope it's a good sign Golden! Your chart showed a nice temp jump!

 

[GoldenRatio]

I had some sangria last night so maybe that's why my temp went up a bit more than it should hav

 

[BelleNuit]

Lol, mine does that too!

 

[TJ Islander]

And according to FRER( my least favorite brand after my false positive last month ) I am not preggo as of 645 am Saturday morning.

Off to the wine festival I guess !

Hey BaybyC u might still be preggo. its still early. go in moderation

 

[puma1986]

Well, AF arrived. Onto cycle 4 dangit.

 

[BelleNuit]

Oh no puma! So sorry! I'm hoping cycle 4 will be the one for you!! Really and truly it's about time one of us gets a BFP!

I was at a bridal shower yesterday and my friend who is pregnant (who started trying AFTER me) obnoxiously told me I should start using OPKs because the first time she BD on the day of a positive opk they got their BFP. She then went on to say I probably just wasn't timing things right and the egg only lasts a day. Blah blah blah. I'm just like, been there, done that, I know when I O and I temp to be sure. Unsolicited ttc help is uncalled for. The fact that you are VISIBLY pregnant while giving it is just further insult to injury. I'm sorry my body won't cooperate when yours obviously did!

 

[GoldenRatio]

Puma I'm sorry hun, take couple days off forum n enjoy some desserts.

Belle, my sil said the same thing to me! She was like we used opk n it happened. I was like yea I'm so dumb, trying for months and didn't think to look online to find tools to pin point ovulation.

Some ppl are just annoying, that's why I wish I never told anybody( if I get pregnant, I'm only gonna tell my personal trainer so she doesn't kill the baby with her core workouts. I'm not gonna tell anyone in my family

 

[BelleNuit]

I know Golden! I wish I hadn't either!

I now have people who are shocked and comment on why I'm not pregnant yet. It's hurtful. I hope one day they realize how ignorant they sound.

The one saving grace is that we haven't told our families (just a few close friends). DH's parents in particular have put a lot of pressure on us to give them grandchildren..... as if it's their god-given right to have grandchildren.