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[greenarcher]

Thank you for the information, that def does shed light on it for me we have been tic for two months. I have a 32 day cycle, used to be 28 until I stopped birth control in August of 2015. I am not temping or charting just yet... My boyfriend was in an accident and was told it would be at least six years till he could have kids due to have 3 plus X-rays a day, every day for 41 days. We are at the 6 year make and are waiting for an appointment to check to see if he can have kids. Being in Canada we have to wait for a specialist. So we just decided to try and see what happens. I have been going off of cm for now until we get a def answer, or I do end up pregnant.

That being said, I tested today and had a squinter, but s pretty decent one. I'm not getting too excited because I know it may mean nothing. I'll test again in the morning and schedule a Drs appointment for next week just in case

Following! Post the squinter

 

[GoldenRatio]

Thank you for the information, that def does shed light on it for me we have been tic for two months. I have a 32 day cycle, used to be 28 until I stopped birth control in August of 2015. I am not temping or charting just yet... My boyfriend was in an accident and was told it would be at least six years till he could have kids due to have 3 plus X-rays a day, every day for 41 days. We are at the 6 year make and are waiting for an appointment to check to see if he can have kids. Being in Canada we have to wait for a specialist. So we just decided to try and see what happens. I have been going off of cm for now until we get a def answer, or I do end up pregnant.

That being said, I tested today and had a squinter, but s pretty decent one. I'm not getting too excited because I know it may mean nothing. I'll test again in the morning and schedule a Drs appointment for next week just in case

ahhh im in Canada too and i know exactly what u mean about waiting for specialists! I swear one dermatologist appointment, i had to wait for a year and then she cancelled on me ://

Anyways im glad u got ur line today! im pretty sure it will get darker by tomorrow. Also i must add, late bfps usually turn out to be a boy! Got my fx for u

 

[Bella12]

BabyC4me sorry to hear about your AF. Your future baby didn't want to have an early winter Birthday. I know how it is. It's hard when you want something so bad. Hang in there. That baby will come when the time is right.

 

[BabyC4Me]

BabyC4me sorry to hear about your AF. Your future baby didn't want to have an early winter Birthday. I know how it is. It's hard when you want something so bad. Hang in there. That baby will come when the time is right.

Aww! Thanks Bella !

You guys are great and very supportive !

SO SWEET !

I'm staying positive and working on NOT caring this cycle. Since that seems to be the key.


****my birthday is Jan 9. Maybe the baby wants to give me a birthday present lol

 

[GoldenRatio]

8dpo today and did a test this morning with a cheap test and got a clear bfn so sick of seeing negative tests so i promised myself that i will never test unless af is 7days late!

DH was like "do you really believe that" hahaha probably not

 

[puma1986]

BabyC4me sorry to hear about your AF. Your future baby didn't want to have an early winter Birthday. I know how it is. It's hard when you want something so bad. Hang in there. That baby will come when the time is right.

Aww! Thanks Bella !

You guys are great and very supportive !

SO SWEET !

I'm staying positive and working on NOT caring this cycle. Since that seems to be the key.


****my birthday is Jan 9. Maybe the baby wants to give me a birthday present lol

Awe! *HUGS!!*

I'm sorry! But your baby is going to be perfect which means it's waiting for the absolutely most perfect egg and little swimmer

You are not alone! I remember being soooooooo sad when I found out we weren't. I was so surprised by how sad my hubby was, too.

Remember, every month our odds of conceiving go up..UP...UUUUP!!!!

 

[TJ Islander]

Sorry about that Golden.


the same day i got a BFN, this came out in the papers hers. take a read. definitely motivated me

https://www.jamaicaobserver.com/magazines/allwoman/A-life-of-bounty-after-8-miscarriages_57026

 

[TJ Islander]

hello ladies!
How is everybody doing today????

 

[GoldenRatio]

Sorry about that Golden.


the same day i got a BFN, this came out in the papers hers. take a read. definitely motivated me

https://www.jamaicaobserver.com/magazines/allwoman/A-life-of-bounty-after-8-miscarriages_57026

ahhh thanks for sharing! i should read more of these kinda aticles, other than peoples mc and still born baby journals. I read on here, this lady lost her daughter 5 days after birth i literally started crying at work while i was reading it. so sad.

I hav been super emo, probably af is on its way

How are u doing today?

 

[Bella12]

Thanks for the positive read!

My AF isn't due for 11 or 12 days. So I'm just waiting and waiting. Lol

 

[TJ Islander]

AF due yesterday. still no sign of her. i had cramps yesterday. none now. also i have white pasty discharge...hmmm AF is never late tho. its usually on time or a day early so....

 

[Bella12]

AF due yesterday. still no sign of her. i had cramps yesterday. none now. also i have white pasty discharge...hmmm AF is never late tho. its usually on time or a day early so....

That's very exciting! Possible baby on board!! Keep me posted.

 

[puma1986]

AF due yesterday. still no sign of her. i had cramps yesterday. none now. also i have white pasty discharge...hmmm AF is never late tho. its usually on time or a day early so....

Oh man! You very well could be the first of us to get a BFP!!!!

 

[GoldenRatio]

AF due yesterday. still no sign of her. i had cramps yesterday. none now. also i have white pasty discharge...hmmm AF is never late tho. its usually on time or a day early so....

I hope af stays away from u hun!! Keep us posted

10dpo today, no symptoms but I was vomitting all night yesterday so DH thinks I'm pregnant lol

 

[TJ Islander]

AF due yesterday. still no sign of her. i had cramps yesterday. none now. also i have white pasty discharge...hmmm AF is never late tho. its usually on time or a day early so....

I hope af stays away from u hun!! Keep us posted

10dpo today, no symptoms but I was vomitting all night yesterday so DH thinks I'm pregnant lol

Thanks guys. im soooo stoked. my DH says stop thinking about it. ive been in bed all day daydreaming. every 5 mins i check my discharge. im so nervous and excited. but i really want to keep a level head to avoid any great disappointment. i will keep you updated!

 

[TJ Islander]

so bad news. i spotted today.it was in that same white discharge. it kinda stopped. of course i bawled again and i went to buy chicken sandwich and ice cream. DH really tried to comfort me so i dont feel so bad now. but somehow i still...i dunno...im just holding on to the 1% hope that its not AF. until i see real AF then i will give up.

 

[puma1986]

so bad news. i spotted today.it was in that same white discharge. it kinda stopped. of course i bawled again and i went to buy chicken sandwich and ice cream. DH really tried to comfort me so i dont feel so bad now. but somehow i still...i dunno...im just holding on to the 1% hope that its not AF. until i see real AF then i will give up.

Aweeee. I hope it's not AF. I know exactly how you feel. I had every single stinking symptom. I mean, it was absolutely undeniable that I was pregnant.

Aaaaand. No. I was so heartbroken when AF showed. It's funny. My 1st child (and only so far!) was an absolute oops 8 years ago. Who knew that actually TRYING to have a child would be so difficult.

Keep your chin up! As I told BabyC, your body knows how to make a perfect baby - so if it didn't happen this month, it just means that it's waiting for the right little nugget to come along

 

[BabyC4Me]

Thanks Puma !!!! Def great words to share with us in this crazy time of trying so hard !!!!

I have been so chilled this month so far. CD5. Period is over. And I feel so relaxed and "Watever " about it.

Good luck Tj. I'm sure like Puma said. Whatever happens. Happens. And you move forward with positivity.

 

[GoldenRatio]

Sorry to hear that af got u TJ, keep us posted of it was spotting or af.

I had pink spotting yesterday too but I got uti symptoms since 2dpo so not sure what's up. 11dpo today and I will text tom morning if that pink spotting was ib then I should get positive by tom.

 

[WannabeaMama1]

I've been following you ladies for about a week now! So, I thought maybe I should chime in! I've been TTC since January so I'm on cycle #4! My SO and I decided back in Oct of last year to start trying, I was on the Implanon implant and had it removed in December 2015. I'm so very excited for this journey of conceiving my first bundle of joy! It not happening as fast as I'd hoped, but that's all part of it, right? I'm completely obsessed with Google and reading forums and looking at baby stuff! I haven't used OPKs, but you ladies have Mr convinced that I need to get some because I religiously take HPTs! I should be testing on May 7th! My birthday is May 5th so it would be a great late birthday present to get a BFP!

GL and baby dust to all you awesome mommy's to be!