TTC #1 with no luck so far

[Hope29]

I really hate this part of waiting to see if you are or if AF is coming. the worst thing is I keep hoping that I am and I have had really sore breast but now i am feeling crampy and feel like AF is coming. You make the decsion to start and try for a baby then it month after month of waiting and more waiting then you get your hope up to think this might be the month and then you get hit with AF and it sucks I am sure there are others out there that feel like this it would be good to here from you just to have some one to talk bout the highs and lows with

 

[tryingsohard1]

I'm right there with you. DH and I have been trying for over a year now.. So frustrating. Then months like this, where I am 11 FREAKING DAYS LATE AND BFNNNNNNNN. And all my friends just get pregnant by breathing in air. It is so hard. You are deff not alone.

 

[Bee Bee]

Yep, you are definitely not alone. I have been trying for 19 cycles now with little to no luck. I found out early on that I have PCOS so it's made TTC harder.

Back in December, I FINALLY got a but it ended up being an ectopic pregnancy and I had to abort. Really, that was much harder than getting bfn after bfn.

How long have you been trying? If it's been over a year then you should see about going to a RE (reproductive endocrinologist) they specialize in fertility and will help you get pregnant. They got me pregnant (even though it didnt work out. But atleast I know I can get pregnant now).

Also, I dont know if you chart, but you should if you don't! It's extremely helpful to TTC.