TTC#2 and SO EXCITED! join me

I think they'll try for number 3 too! My MIL just had a word with SIL and she tried to act like she was fine, an hour later she text me saying congratulations - it took her 7 hours today to text me after I text her, but she actually found out yesterday so should have text me then! Just so rude! I called her a b**ch to my MIL - couldn't help myself!!
 
Sorry about your DS Issacralp - hopefully you'll both be right as rain soon. As for me being so good and not testing, I stupidly caved in and tested this evening only about 9dpo so of course BFN, I'm ragin with myself for doing it swore I wouldn't until AF was late. Just felt so crappy felt like throwing up, ditzy brain, heartburn, couldn't eat my dinner at all even the thought of it now makes me wanna hurl and totally exhausted - thought feck it. So dunno if I just coming down with something or if its ttc related oh and I've a sore throat and stuffy nose, can't bear smells and just out of the shower now noticed lots of white bumps on my nipples and lots of blue veins. So I have pretty much every symptom over the sun and still feel 95% out this month ... Frustration is an understatement :(

Elt - this is just mad but has Jessica said she was 21dpo and I was about the same last time - really have all my fingers and toes crossed for you x

Hann - that is awful about your Brother and SIL - one of my best friends has the exact same set up with her BIL and his wife and her SIL and her husband she tries to say out if it as much as possible but the other 2 couples all they do is compete one gets engaged the other gets engaged, married, pregnant just copy eachother straight away. My friend who never involves herself when she got pregnant last year her BILs wife (who already had 3 kids) stopped talking to her cause she said it wasn't fair that she went and got pregnant that they (unknown to my friend) had been trying for about 2 months... 1 year on they still don't talk - think my friend is better of out of it anyway!! - Some people just seem to be odd like that - try not to let them get to you to much !! :D

So where are we now in summary??

Me & ELT in the tww (more what seems to be the 3ww for ELT!!)
Issac & Mama - waiting to Ov
Hann, Jessica & MarieB - BFPs!!!!!!
Happycpl - on a break :)
Runnergirl - Doing well I hope - waiting to see what happens and hoping for a rainbow baby x

Seems to be a nice even split to keep us busy!!! :D
Is that everyone... Sorry if I missed anyone!!! :D
 
Baby bean great! Had ultrasound today doc said got some really Long legs had them crossed at ankle till doc went to c what he/she was, bean very quickly crossed legs tightly and sat on knees to hide! Will find out for sure the 20th at 16+2 wks! No cluenhownto upload pic from iPhone?!?
 
Jessica that's great news!! Is baby now measuring bigger? Sounds like its doing great!

Banana - I love your summary! Don't get sad that you got a bfn at 9 dpo, that's soooo early still!! I have big hopes for you this month! It's all sounding great - in fact you seem to have more varied pregnancy symptoms than me lol!! FX for that BFP!

My FIL ended up getting involved in the family dispute which is very unlike him, he was very angry that I had got so upset. Of course BIL feigned ignorance but we all know the truth. Hopefully that's it now anyway. I expect them to announce baby no. 3 in the next 9 months! Even though they don't have the money for a third or the space!
 
Jessica - glad the baby is doing so well! :)

Hann - oh dear, the lengths people will go to jut to prove a point (or steal the spotlight!) but I wouldn't be surprised if they announced a bfp soon...and I don't even know them! Haha You'll have to keep us posted on that one ;)

Elt- any testing today???

Banana - how are those symptoms coming along??

Afm - temp up some again today...clearly back to the pcos temps! Lol good news is the soy last night didn't drop my temp so must have been something else. Very odd but glad it wasn't the soy :)
 
So glad that you can continue to take the soy mama! I really want you to get your bfp using it!

Issacralph - any positive opks?

Any positive preg tests banana or elt??
 
Brilliant news about the baby Jessica, what a relief!

Mama- really glad your ok taking the soy & yes it looks like those whacky temps are back! You still opking?

Banana & elt I alike han are dying to know if you've got your bfp's, hope so! What's the latest?

Afm- no not got a +ve opk yet, did a random saliva test & it was partial to full ferning, I always get this few days before I ovulate. Hoping it comes over the weekend as me & dh are off work, if not it would be near to see follie on scan! Weird thing being that I got both my bfps after seeing the follies on ultrasound, ohh I bloody hope so. Ds has picked up a bit but is adamant he won't take his meds, when I try he just cries so much he pukes up! So hopefully he'll be ok if not back to Dr's to get the nice banana flavour amoxicillin. Got a bit of a cold too but not feeling too bad as yet.

Runnergrl- when's the earliest you can test?
 
Han- that sucks about your inlaws! It sounds all very competitive on their behalf, can't abide people like that! Actually I know a few people like that & I think they do it just to steal your thunder! Usually without trying too hard either it's always the way. X
 
Hann- that is really sad that some people live their lives constantly trying to keep up with everyone else. How exhausting!!

Banana- let the symptom spotting begin!! lol Atleast you have some...I have absolutely none!

Jessica- So great to hear the baby is doing well! How about you? You feeling any better?

Mama- how irritating about the crazy temps...but you have such a positive outlook on everything. I don't know how you do it! You are a pretty amazing person and seem like you will be an amazing mother when the time comes. Hopefully more sooner than later!

Isaac- sorry your ds is sick, poor thing! Looks like you better get to :sex: pretty soon! Have fun!!

Anyone heard from Happy? She must have decided to take that break after all. Hope she is ok and will come back to us soon!

AFM- 17dpo and BFN again! Temp still above coverline.
I was at work yesterday and a friend coworker and I were talking about how we were late for AF and she decided to go out and get a preg test and take it at work. So she came out of the bathroom after and it was a BFP that showed up right away! The problem is that it was unplanned and with someone she was seeing for a short time and is no longer seeing. She is now so upset and hysterical about it. I know we are not supposed to talk about certain things in certain threads on BnB, so I will just say that she thinking of doing something to solve the "problem" quickly (this would be her 3rd fix). This a very controversal topic, and I didn't bring it up for a debate or anything, just something that made me a little sad. I am completely ok with people making there own choices about these types of things and doing what is best for them in their own lives, but it just makes it hard to hear things like this when we are trying so hard to get pregnant and some people get so upset when they so easily get what we are trying to so desperately get or keep! I just told her that it is completely her own choice but I always thought I would never have trouble getting pregnant, especially since I already have a child, but you never know when you may not be able to have another. It doesn't always come so easily!!
Also, found out that DHs niece is preg with her 2nd and is not at all in a good situation to be having another, so I am feeling a little down right now. It sucks when everyone around you seems to be getting pregnant when they don't really need to be but I can't! Sorry about the rant...just things that are on my mind and I needed to get out.
 
Aww try & cheer up hun! Your friend sounds delightful, not against abortions early if desperately needed but I do not agree with her having 3 fixes as it's like some form of contraception! I think it is selfish & just wrong. I had friend who is not now had 3 also in the space of 3 years with all loving boyfriends. Then bizarrly she apparently got raped abroad & guess what got pregnant & decided to keep it?? All too weird for me. Anyways sorry about the bfn, can you go & get your blood tested?? It's certainly not like you to have such a long LP! I'm always surrounded by pregnant friends, relatives, colleagues, & most recently patients, they're all bloody pregnant, ahhhh! Anyways I try not to Feel jealous as I always just think this is their time with their baby & soon one day i'll have that time again too & the best thing is god loves a tryer so we will all be blessed with our bfps soon!
 
Wrote a load and lost it grrrrr....

Jess - glad to hear all is going good with baby now :)

Mamamac - sorry about the crazy temps - glad you seem to be able to take the soy tho - may as well get bding soon to be safe!!!

Issacralph - hope you get to see the lovely smiley face on the OPKs - get some Bd in the weekend anyway!! :D

Afm, had read somewhere ages ago that a headcold/flu is very common before a bfp and guess what I got yesterday - I am dosed to the high heavens!!! so found this https://www.countdowntopregnancy.com/early-pregnancy-symptoms/symptom-chart.php?symptomid=72

I dunno it all seems a bit extreme for 9/10dpo. Still have the creamy cm but not as much as before but I never had any at all before. Cramps have pretty much gone. I am getting more and more tired went to bed at 9pm last night an slept in until 8am (meant to leave the house with DS for school at 8.15am oops!), and the nausea is also getting worse but no where near actually vomiting just an almost constant sick feeling....

I am possibly just experiencing a general headcold which would explain the tiredness and sickness - I'm sure its just a coincidence...

Elt - well I just don't know what to say to you 17dpo i pretty long esp if you usually have short enough lp - if nothing shows up by Monday I would go and get a blood test done :D
 
Hey ladies. Sorry I've been away for a few days. Had lots to catch up on here!

Elt & Banana - Excited to see what the weekend brings you ladies. FX'd for a BFP! Elt, that is so frustrating about your coworker.

Isaac & Mama - Hoping to see some + OPK's for y'all soon!

Jessica - Glad you and the baby are doing well.

Runner - I'm praying for you. How are you doing?

Hann - gotta love those in laws. I have great ones, I can't complain there. I had a coworker who had been trying to get pregnant for months. Then I found out I was preggo with DD I didn't tell her. Then 2 months after me she finds out she is preggo and so I told her my news. Needless to say she was not happy b/c it came out at the same time we were both preggo. I thought by not telling her I was being thoughtful to her situation, but she didn't see it that way.

AFM AF has left. This was the weirdest AF yet. Not too heavy, just steady. I passed a clot though about the size of a lemon. Flo became very light after that and then just stopped. No end spotting wih dark blood. Nothing. No exit warnings at all. I never had any dark "old" blood. It was strange. I am now on CD 8. Haven't bought any OPK's. No urge either. Feels good not to worry about it. I just feel like its never going to happen so I'm just focusing on other things. I'll let y'all know in about 3 weeks if I'm going crazy with wonder though. But for now, I'm just so "blah".

We need some more good news in here ladies.
 
I guess I won't give my news than because its not good:(. Praying for all of you girls. I read every day but rarely have time to write lengthy responses. Please know that I am thinking of you all though.
 
Seems like we need some :hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs: & lots of:dust: around here! what's the matter runnergrl, you can tell us anything bad or good news! that's what we're here for. ttc can be a rough ride I for one know that but please remember we're here for you!
Happycpl- your AF sounds weird & that clot sounds horrible wonder what's going on there then? do you normally get clots? I Feel a bit blah too, got a cold & ds unwell & i'm just waiting for opk to turn +ve but will probably get some bding this weekend anyways. hope your ok.

banana- I Feel crap too but my those symptoms sound so good, you must test today 11dpo right?? good luck x

elt- any news/AF/bfp?

han- are your feeling ok now you've got your meds?
 
Morning ladies

Runner girl you know you can tell us anything here good or bad and anytime!!

Happycpl - great to hear from you - probably a good idea to take it easy for a while, even it can be hard after listening and researching for so long you cannot ignore when you think/know your prob ov etc...

Issac - yeap cold are not fun - was in bed by 9.30am last night and didn't wake up until 10.30am - just had a really dizzy spell there when I got up to bring the breakfast dishes to the sink :(.

Afm, 11dpo fmu and BFN this morning - stark white not even a gilmmer. I really really think this is just a headcold now nothing ttc related explain most of the other symptoms I am having. All my cramps are gone - still a good bit of Creamy CM - Boob sore but not agony like before. I just kinda feel like AF is on her way. I think she is due Monday (for same 12day lp like last month) but really she could arrive anytime from now (10day lp month before) so could be more less or same lp as last month. Oh dunno I just feel depressed already and AF hasn't even arrived - how will I cope when she does!!!

Come on ELT dying to hear your update!!!! :D
 
No AF yet ladies, but I think I am going to try to wait a couple days to test again. If nothing in a week or so, I will have to go get a blood test. The longest cycle I have ever had in my life was 33 days and I am now on CD44 and 18dpo?
 
We need some bfps in here bad! I got a call from my doctors office yesterday after doing a blood draw on thursday. My hcg levels aren't dropping like they should be and after all of this, a month later-I'm still going to have to have a D&C. I'm very upset about it and am so angry they didn't just do one in the first place. Now I have to wait to recover from my surgery to even think about TTC again:(

I hope you all have lovely weekends!
 
:hugs:Oh no ladies this isn't too good is it?

Sorry about the bfn banana, & hope AF doesn't come! I do remember han thinking her AF was about to come last month but she still for her bfp. Fx'd for you

Runnergrl- that really does suck, so sorry your having to still go through all this misery! Losing a baby is bad enough but for it to drag on is just unfair! I remember my levels didn't go back to normal for about 3-4 weeks, I also had retained products but they eventually absorbed over that time span! The d&c doesn't sound good, can you not insist in having another blood test before its scheduled, I was scanned about 3 times in all! I know its not the outcome any of us wanted for you but always remember time is is on your side & one day soon you'll get the baby you so long for!

Elt- wow what is up with your cycle? I remember thinking to myself what nice short cycles yiu had & now bam your having a long one! what with the bleeding before you ovulated too? really can't wait to find out if your just having a very shy bfp, hope so as this will cheer us all up

Afm- still bfn on opk today, cold in full swing! having a nice take out with dh tonight & maybe a bit of x factor & bding.
 
Runner girl I'm so sorry - I really hope everything gets sorted for you asap. Just think about how worth it it will all be in the end x

Issacralph - I'm sorry for laughing but when you said cold in full swing bding - couldn't help but think of this!!! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0RNrvtqTaE4 :haha::rofl:
 

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