Hi ladies! So me and my partner are at stage in our relationship where we aren't trying to conceive be we aren't preventing it either, if it happens then it will be lovely surprise!! I was hoping to find a buddy similar situation to myself. I also suffer with PCOS ad weight gain, so it would be nice also if I could make bubbies for emotional support also, I fine it incredibly difficult to stick to a diet and to lose weight! Will power is very low at the moment This will b my second child nut my OH first child, although he is a brilliant step-dad to my son.