TTC after miscarriage before AF

[happynewmom1]

Good morning all! Been keeping myself (generally not by choice) really busy with work, but enjoyed having a moment to catch up on what is going on with everyone. As much as I hope this month is the month, I agree with you all that AF would be nice to at least know that things are getting back to normal. At least that is what I am going to keep chanting the next 2 weeks.

At the risk of sounding crazy, I am trying to do my best to mimic everything I did last month when I got pregnant before the MC. My cats thought I was crazy doing headstands in the bathroom (after bd-ing last night.) But, got a positive OPK this morning (which I expected from my test last night) so here we go. Follow-up bloodwork at the doctor's today too to make sure my numbers are back down, but given that my OPKs have been negative for a few days, I would think I am okay.

Feeling good except for the 4 new babies seen on Facebook in the last 3 days. I am sure ours are right around the corner.

I don't blame you for trying to mimic!! I hope it works for you!

I hope everyone is doing well today and enjoying the weekend!

 

[mimdan]

Hi All well Cd 58 annnnddddd AF yay !! Well it had better be Lol just been to toilet and looks to be the start so thats really good onto another cycle, going to be bd'ng like crazy

Hows everything going with everyone else ?

Happy as i said before I hope she shows soon for you....have you done another hpt ? Any signs of AF at all? Any plans for next cycle if she does show ?

Sammybat...good luck hun ! Fx

Firsttimer...hope your well ?

 

[happynewmom1]

Hi All well Cd 58 annnnddddd AF yay !! Well it had better be Lol just been to toilet and looks to be the start so thats really good onto another cycle, going to be bd'ng like crazy

Hows everything going with everyone else ?

Happy as i said before I hope she shows soon for you....have you done another hpt ? Any signs of AF at all? Any plans for next cycle if she does show ?

Sammybat...good luck hun ! Fx

Firsttimer...hope your well ?

Yay!!!!!! I'm so excited for you!!! After such a long wait, I really really hope this cycle is super lucky for you!!!

Pretty much same as you.. Plan to be like crazy! Fx it comes soon. Af cramps on and off is the only sign. Almost wondering if I ovulated on the 10th which is late for me.. But my cervix was open some that day with stretchy cm and ever since then has been tightly closed. But I don't know.. Might be stretching it to assume that so just waiting. I've taken some cheapie tests but not seeing much. Ugh hate waiting but oh well. Very happy to see how it goes for you!

 

[oox_tasha_xoo]

Hi ladies, mimdan yay for af finally showing!
I'm 4dpo, my skin has totally broke out in spots, I'm bloated and irritable haha.
Going to be taking my one and only frer next Sunday/Monday.
My cheap ICs however I shall start from 8dpo lol x

 

[Babylove100]

So been testing bfn the last few days but as I'm 3 weeks post mc and was supposed to test anyway I did....I got this! Pic at 6 mins...what do you think?? I actually did 3 tests and they all had a line.

 

[oox_tasha_xoo]

I see it Hun fingers crossed for you xx

 

[Teeny Weeny]

I see a line, hope it's your new BFP. Xx

 

[Babylove100]

Just took a frer! I am praying so much that this is a new bfp!!!

 

[Teeny Weeny]

You are so lucky. It's nearly 3 weeks since surgery and I'm still bleeding and getting light positives so there is no chance I have even ovulated.
I really hope this is it for you. Xxx

 

[happynewmom1]

You are so lucky. It's nearly 3 weeks since surgery and I'm still bleeding and getting light positives so there is no chance I have even ovulated.
I really hope this is it for you. Xxx

Well she was still getting light positives a few days ago so I'm thinking if this is a new pregnancy she must have ovulated when still getting light positives. I'm so sorry to hear you are still bleeding, though. I hope you can get back TTC really soon!

Babylove- I do see lines and hope this is a new pregnancy! Can't wait to see tomorrow's tests!

 

[Teeny Weeny]

This bleeding/spotting is soooo frustrating. My HPTs are super light now so hoping for a BFN this week.
We are DTD just in case so whatever happens we should be covered! Xx

 

[Babylove100]

It's annoying as I never tested with a frer so I've no idea if this would have been bfn or bfp when the others were bfn but I definitely had bfns on my sd and ic tests the last few days so will just have to wait this out. This evening ic was a bit darker so I'm keeping my fx but I know there's still the very real possibility that it's leftover hormones still.

Teeny so sorry your still bleeding. I've read quite a few posts whilst googling that as long as hcg is in the low teens it's still possible to ovulate as its the progesterone that stops ovulation or something like that.

 

[Teeny Weeny]

Let's hope so Babylove! I know fertility treatments can use a hCG trigger so maybe there is hope yet. If your lines are getting darker I would say new BFP. I am so excited to hear the outcome. Xx

 

[Babylove100]

Thanks teeny, I have 3 frers left so will just use one each day and see what happens.x

 

[havefaith01]

Hi ladies. .can I please join you? I just lost my baby at 10 weeks...mmc at 9 weeks. We are devestated. We know we want to start trying again as soon as Possible. I had to have a d&c. We want to try before first af....any thoughts? is this possible??

 

[SammyBat]

havefaith - Welcome and sorry to hear of your loss. I did not have a d&c, but after chatting with some of the others in this thread, have felt comfortable in my decision to start TTC again prior to my first AF. I think one of the keys might be knowing that your levels are back down (at least for dating purposes…and ovulating purposes), but I don’t see why it should be any different for you.How are you feeling today?

mimdan - Hope that means all is getting back on track for you! Fx this month!

Tasha - Wondering how long my stash of ICs will last! I am not too far behind you and already itching…

Babylove - Fx! Can’t wait to hear how it goes. Will your doc do a blood draw at all?

Teeny - Hang in there! I think one of the hardest things is just feeling back on track.

Just got a phone call from my doctor that my blood work from Friday came back negative. So now onto the ttw!

 

[Babylove100]

I doubt I'll get bloods, my doctors are pretty rubbish!! Still getting lines so I'm going to give it another week and see what happens. I'll happily take any outcome going now to get this cycle wrapped up!!!

 

[lilyban]

Any sign of AF for you yet? In the past I usually only had literally 30 mins notice with cramps that I was going to come on. But this time, the cramps lasted for about a week, fingers crossed it happens soon & you can get back to trying!

 

[lilyban]

I'm so grateful my AF came back so regularly. What methods do you use to check for OV firsttimer? I usually only know by EWCM but considering if I should do more to be certain this month?!? Fingers crossed for you

 

[Babylove100]

I've been having cramps since yesterday, and tmi just had another load (the most yet) of ewcm. Opks are getting a bit darker too so I'm really none the wiser what's going on!