TTC after miscarriage before AF

[happynewmom1]

Ok ladies.. I really have no idea where I am in this cycle. Been awaiting af for awhile... Cramps for 11 days and a soft, closed cervix since then as well. So until af gets here I'm randomly taking a couple tests to make sure. I feel like I see lines but feel free to tell me I'm crazy. I rather have a line eye lol

https://i79.photobucket.com/albums/j158/sweetlife89/A Bit Of Everything/0421150747-1_zpstzsb5ydv.jpg

https://i79.photobucket.com/albums/j158/sweetlife89/A Bit Of Everything/0421150748-1_zpsoziod15k.jpg

 

[happynewmom1]

Hi ladies. .can I please join you? I just lost my baby at 10 weeks...mmc at 9 weeks. We are devestated. We know we want to start trying again as soon as Possible. I had to have a d&c. We want to try before first af....any thoughts? is this possible??

I'm so sorry for your loss! there are some people who have gotten pregnant again before getting their first period after a mc so fx you do! I'd advise to write down things like whenever you have any signs of ovulation and things so that when you get a positive pregnancy test again you can look back to see the time most likely you did ovulate. If that makes sense.. Should help for dating purposes

 

[Babylove100]

Happynewmon - I can clearly see lines on all three test!!! Fx!!!

AFM - I think I've FINALLY cracked it and got my bfn!!! My opks are getting darker now too so am praying so hard that I might, just might, ovulate in the next day or two!! Gonna get busy bd'ing the next few days just in case!!

 

[happynewmom1]

Happynewmon - I can clearly see lines on all three test!!! Fx!!!

AFM - I think I've FINALLY cracked it and got my bfn!!! My opks are getting darker now too so am praying so hard that I might, just might, ovulate in the next day or two!! Gonna get busy bd'ing the next few days just in case!!

Yay!! Thank you. I feel like I might not be going crazy after all now! It surprised me to see anything at all!! Really hope they get darker!!

Ohhh definitely get busy!! I saw the pictures of your opks and they are looking good!! I've got my fx for you!!

 

[Babylove100]

Me too! When will you test again?? I'm so over my own hpts now so will gladly squint at yours instead!!

 

[happynewmom1]

Me too! When will you test again?? I'm so over my own hpts now so will gladly squint at yours instead!!

Awwww I'm sorry yours have been so back and forth!!! I may take a cheapie this afternoon but saving the frer for morning as I only have 2 more! Seems like torture to wait!!

 

[Babylove100]

Sounds like a good plan!! Will be checking back in to see to them!!!

 

[havefaith01]

Hi Ladies! Thanks for letting me join! I need help! We have decided to ttc right away, all the research I have done leads me to believe it is ok. I have some questions hopefully you guys can answer. When did you start dtd after d&c? When did you start using opk's? Do you ovulate after a miscarriage? How many days are you guys past m/c? Do you use day 1 as day of D& C? Sorry for all the questions!
My doctor recommend we wait one cycle to try, just to make sure everything went back to normal. I have a follow up with her on Friday, hoping to convenience her otherwise. We are so heartbroken, and don't want to wait. We need our rainbow!!!! Thanks ladies for listening!!!

 

[happynewmom1]

It's gotten quiet here. I hope everyone is well!!

I guess I won't be testing again until morning. Trying not to get my hopes up. It would be amazing but scary to be pregnant again already but will see how it goes!

 

[Babylove100]

In here waiting for any new tests to look at!!

 

[happynewmom1]

Haha sorry!!! Took them as soon as I got up. I'm thinking I must see an indent line or something on the frer as I'm not seeing anything darker at all on it today. I still see something light on the ic though but it must be a bad batch lol who knows Haha if I'm not pregnant, come on af..

 

[happynewmom1]

What do you think? Top is yesterday and bottom this morning. It wouldn't upload as an attachment so here's the link.
https://i79.photobucket.com/albums/j158/sweetlife89/A Bit Of Everything/0422150759_zpstg42mteo.jpg

https://i79.photobucket.com/albums/j158/sweetlife89/A Bit Of Everything/0422150810_zpsjbjw4etb.jpg

 

[happynewmom1]

One more and I'll stop Haha may as well obsess about the tests for awhile. This one does make the bottom one look darker and pink. Might be me though.

 

[Teeny Weeny]

HaveFaith, I DTD about 3 days after surgery! Protected until I finished my AB and unprotected since. I don't use OPKs at the moment, but I would say start using about 10 days post surgery maybe? It's all a guessing game as to when AF will arrive but if you are DTD regularly you should be covered for catching that eggy if you do ovulate.

Happynewmum, I am on my phone so the images are not very clear. If they are there in real life I'm sure it's a new BFP. FX'd.

AFM, I think/hope/ pray that I may be ovulating. I am going to DTD anyways and see what happens! If AF arrives in a couple of weeks I will know that I did! I am exactly 3 weeks post surgery so maybe I am. Xx

 

[happynewmom1]

Welll I do see something but I am thinking it's an indent or something on the frer. I'm ok with it..just ready to start a fresh cycle now I think. My body is just tired now :/

Fx you are ovulating!!!! Hope you get your little sticky bean soon!

 

[Babylove100]

Happy I still see something!! Keeping all things crossed for you!!

 

[happynewmom1]

Happy I still see something!! Keeping all things crossed for you!!

Thank you!!! I think I'll wait until Friday to us my last tests to see if anything is on them. If there is something there it should for sure be darker then, right?

 

[Babylove100]

Most definitely! Oh man Friday is ages away!!!

 

[happynewmom1]

Most definitely! Oh man Friday is ages away!!!

Haha I know.. I wonder if I'll make it until then. May give in tomorrow morning we will see. I saw your test pictures in the tww thread! (I like to read there but not really sure what wait I'm in at the moment haha) are you going to get a blood test or test again in the morning!?!

 

[Babylove100]

I have 2 more asda tests so will prob do one tomorrow. This is so frustrating, I've def had bfns but then to get bfps again is doing my head in! I may just pluck up the courage and call the epu tomorrow, I'm just conscious of all the time I've had off work and having to maybe go back in again. My doctors is literally useless! I'm not sure why I'm still there to be honest, perhaps I should look into changing doctors! I'll add it to the ever growing list of things to do!!