TTC after miscarriage before AF

[happynewmom1]

How is everything going Happy? Your scan is today right? Did you ever get progesterone???

Scan is on the 23rd so a week and a half about! We didn't because dh did research too and decided we have probably just had bad luck and didn't think we should spend money for it I dunno. Even if it hadn't helped, I think it would have made me feel better! I no longer have my own personal bank account either so he has to be the one to order it.

 

[TinyLynne]

You haven't had any spotting though, right?

 

[happynewmom1]

You haven't had any spotting though, right?

Right. So far so good.

 

[TinyLynne]

Do you think it might have just been bad luck? Like your DH does?

 

[happynewmom1]

Do you think it might have just been bad luck? Like your DH does?

I'm not sure at all.In a way maybe since we do have healthy kids so maybe the first loss was a chromosome abnormality issue or something and the chemical after that was my body not ready yet. I guess there isn't a way of knowing for sure without testing done. I know it's silly but I'll be a little more relaxed tomorrow. I still watch the video you shared every so often.. Trying to keep that attitude.

I don't wanna come here and moan because I'm very grateful and I know how it feels to lose a baby and others get a bfp. So I want to say I'm sorry. I'm truly rooting for you all

 

[Powell510]

I feel like I'm never going to ovulate! Lol

 

[TinyLynne]

HPTs are positive again... After being negative on Wednesday (were positive 3 days before) they are still light, but obvious, maybe slightly darker that the one a few days ago. And.... Now my digital is positive??? But only 1-2 weeks, and I'm 15 DPO.

 

[Powell510]

HPTs are positive again... After being negative on Wednesday (were positive 3 days before) they are still light, but obvious, maybe slightly darker that the one a few days ago. And.... Now my digital is positive??? But only 1-2 weeks, and I'm 15 DPO.

Keep an eye on them for progression! 1-2 weeks sounds right for 15DPO

fingers crossed and hun!

 

[happynewmom1]

HPTs are positive again... After being negative on Wednesday (were positive 3 days before) they are still light, but obvious, maybe slightly darker that the one a few days ago. And.... Now my digital is positive??? But only 1-2 weeks, and I'm 15 DPO.

Wow. Definitely keep an eye on those. Are you going to call the doctor or anything or just keep testing? Fx for you!

 

[TinyLynne]

I texted him. The office is closed today. It should really say 2-3 by now... But it is definitely higher than a few days ago if the digital is positive now....

 

[mimdan]

Hi girls Hope you are all having a nice weekend. I haven't got out of bed yet even though its 2:30 pm haha I have a cold, crappy stuffed nose and my chest hurts a bit so yea just chilling (and googling bfp stories) ...I'll have a bath soon though and take the dog out for a walk later.

Thank you very much for all your replys and suggestions. I appreciate it. I will have a look into them although it can get very confusing with whats best to take especially when I'm not entirely sure what the problem is as of yet. As mentioned I am taking inositol this cycle, omega 3, pregnacare conception and I'm just going to start a vit b complex too...I have taken vitex before but that ended up being a long cycle so I stopped it as I wasnt sure if that might of been the cause ?? I do think about starting it again but not sure if it will mix well with inositol ? Or I am interestd in fertilaid/ovulaid...do you ladies have any experience with the latter.

Well yet again I am getting frustrated with my body as I'm experiencing the same symptoms I did after my loss which turned out to be a looong cycle, its gutting to know I'm more than likely out so early on (cd 19) grrrr and whats more I havent received my ic tests yet so I cant poas Lol I WANT TO PEE ON STICKS !!!!!

Ladies, if this does turn out to be a cycle thats going past cd38 would the doc give me something to bring af on without the blood tests result ?

Thanx for reading

 

[mimdan]

Spotting over here this morning. CD26 after MC. With CD1 being the first day of bleeding and the actual MC was 2 days later. Not sure what's going on as I never got a positive OPK. I did get a -peak- on my CB advanced digi OPK but dipsticks and a FR only had very light lines so I think it was a fluke. So confused!

I hate confusing cycles ! I hope you find out the cause of the spotting soon ! Are you normally 28 day cycle, could it be AF ?

Nowhere near lol usually around 35-40 days but since getting my cycle back when our son was 16 months old and having 5 cycles since then they've been nowhere regular or predictable lol now we're TTC it should be easier to predict since I track CM and CP. And I'm going to start temping again when I can remember lol I haven't seen anything since the spotting this morning so I'm at a loss!

Awww hun I'm sorry to learn you also have crappy irregular cycles, not fair huh ?! Its nice we can relate to each other though.

Your not alone in thinking you wont/haven't ovulated...I'm cd 19 and already thinking this cycle is bust, stupid hormones Hope its different for you though hun ! Fx

I had spotting my cycle after loss mixed with ewcm...confusing as to what it was

 

[mimdan]

On a note of what is going on here with me it is cycle day 13. I am hoping that this cycle doesn't take for ever. The Dr. called yesterday and said my HCG from Tuesday is down to 81 from 9723 two weeks earlier so that is good. I feel emotionally ready to try again but Dr. said we absolutely can not try for 2 months this time so I guess the wait is on It feels like constant bad news. This last loss made my anemia "flare" up. And the worst is DH had a heart attack last night I am 25 and he is 27. He is in great physical shape but has a pre-existing heart condition his job is also very hard physically for someone with his condition. It makes ttc less fun. But Dr. thinks if he goes back on his heart meds and stops sneaking to McDonald's breakfast before work and quits smoking he should be fine. Still scarey and discouraging. We just want one more healthy baby. And I want my Husband to be safe .

Hi mssk

I'm very sorry to hear of what has happened with your husband ! How is he doing ? What a stressful time for you both ! So young too I hope he recovers quickly and yes defo no more cheeky McDonald's ! I hope your ok ? My fingers are crossed for quick recovery !

I'm am also sorry to hear of all you have been through with ttc too, seems to be a few of us with whacky cycles in this thread, and having two wait 2 months to continue ttc is bummer, I'd be pissed and no doubt you are too I hope it goes quick for you !

I sooo appreciate you taking the time to share your ttc journey with us especially with whats happening with your husband at this time...I will defo ask about progesterone when i make appointment with GP.

Thanx again mssk...so nice to know we have a nice bunch of ladies on here

 

[mimdan]

Hi Happy How are you feeling today ? I hope your feeling less stressed/anxious today I'm so glad to hear things are going well regarding your pregnancy looking forward to your update with your scan !

Thank you for your well wishes for the rest of us and for suggesting vitex to me...I'm doing quite a bit of research regarding what I could take to give me a better chance at ttc which is confusing as lots of women have success with different supplements Lol so I dont know, maybe I should take them all

 

[mimdan]

Hi TinyLynne

Sorry things seem to be a bit confusing for you at the moment. But as always wishing you the very best outcome ! How very strange your hpts went neg and now back to pos but hopefully this is it for you hun

 

[TinyLynne]

My first beta was around a 6 at 12dpo, my dr said it was an 18 yesterday at 14dpo... More than doubled, but still VERY low

 

[Powell510]

I texted him. The office is closed today. It should really say 2-3 by now... But it is definitely higher than a few days ago if the digital is positive now....

Why should it show 2-3 if you're 14 DPO and it takes a few days to implant? It would be in the 1-2 week range going by that...

 

[Powell510]

Spotting over here this morning. CD26 after MC. With CD1 being the first day of bleeding and the actual MC was 2 days later. Not sure what's going on as I never got a positive OPK. I did get a -peak- on my CB advanced digi OPK but dipsticks and a FR only had very light lines so I think it was a fluke. So confused!

I hate confusing cycles ! I hope you find out the cause of the spotting soon ! Are you normally 28 day cycle, could it be AF ?

Nowhere near lol usually around 35-40 days but since getting my cycle back when our son was 16 months old and having 5 cycles since then they've been nowhere regular or predictable lol now we're TTC it should be easier to predict since I track CM and CP. And I'm going to start temping again when I can remember lol I haven't seen anything since the spotting this morning so I'm at a loss!

Awww hun I'm sorry to learn you also have crappy irregular cycles, not fair huh ?! Its nice we can relate to each other though.

Your not alone in thinking you wont/haven't ovulated...I'm cd 19 and already thinking this cycle is bust, stupid hormones Hope its different for you though hun ! Fx

I had spotting my cycle after loss mixed with ewcm...confusing as to what it was

Still a circle on the digi opk I only have one dipstick left!

 

[TinyLynne]

I texted him. The office is closed today. It should really say 2-3 by now... But it is definitely higher than a few days ago if the digital is positive now....

Why should it show 2-3 if you're 14 DPO and it takes a few days to implant? It would be in the 1-2 week range going by that...

It's a weeks since ovulation predictor. But, it is just a predictor that can't take into account the wide range of acceptable hcg values.

 

[Powell510]

I texted him. The office is closed today. It should really say 2-3 by now... But it is definitely higher than a few days ago if the digital is positive now....

Why should it show 2-3 if you're 14 DPO and it takes a few days to implant? It would be in the 1-2 week range going by that...

It's a weeks since ovulation predictor. But, it is just a predictor that can't take into account the wide range of acceptable hcg values.

I'm still confused why you think it should say 2-3 weeks? Lol