TTC after miscarriage before AF

[happynewmom1]

How are you today, mimdan??

 

[mssk]

Hey Mimdan thank you!! He is doing better now, he is in a lot less pain. He is also thinking about switching jobs, which would lower both of our stress levels! I know the McDonalds thing is ridiculous...I could kick his butt for it I refuse to eat there. All I know is that I want this cycle to just be as normal as possible. Good news is I seen to be having some pre EWCM. So it looks like I should ovulate this week. Which is a blessing because it gets me closer to AF. But I just want this stinking 2 month wait to be over with . But, at least everything seems on track now just have to play the waiting game. Buying herbal supplements like a crazy person . But, we will get there. What stunk today was that I actually opened up to an old friend about our losses and she said "well you have two so if it is over and you can't have another baby what does it really matter...you have two just let the losses go and be happy!"Can you believe that? Like it shouldn't hurt? At least I have you ladies I don't know what I would do without this site!!!

 

[Powell510]

Hey Mimdan thank you!! He is doing better now, he is in a lot less pain. He is also thinking about switching jobs, which would lower both of our stress levels! I know the McDonalds thing is ridiculous...I could kick his butt for it I refuse to eat there. All I know is that I want this cycle to just be as normal as possible. Good news is I seen to be having some pre EWCM. So it looks like I should ovulate this week. Which is a blessing because it gets me closer to AF. But I just want this stinking 2 month wait to be over with . But, at least everything seems on track now just have to play the waiting game. Buying herbal supplements like a crazy person . But, we will get there. What stunk today was that I actually opened up to an old friend about our losses and she said "well you have two so if it is over and you can't have another baby what does it really matter...you have two just let the losses go and be happy!"Can you believe that? Like it shouldn't hurt? At least I have you ladies I don't know what I would do without this site!!!

Thats such a horrible thing to say! I'm so sorry you had to hear that

 

[mssk]

Thanks Powell510, on the one hand I am glad that she has never had to experience a loss. But, people can be so insensitive. Every loss hurts.

 

[Powell510]

Thanks Powell510, on the one hand I am glad that she has never had to experience a loss. But, people can be so insensitive. Every loss hurts.

Yes they can! Hell even people who have had losses can still be hurtful.

I had a miscarriage two months before my with our son and I was talking to a friend (who has suffered around 7 early losses) after my first US and he didnt have a heartbeat yet so they scheduled me for another the following week and I said to her "I hope and pray there is a heartbeat next week!" And she replies ... "you know God only hears the prayers of the saved."

Umm first of all RUDE, second of all who are you to say?!

 

[lilyban]

He is good! I think he wants to be excited but a little afraid to be yet. He just wanted avoid the pain of another loss by when he sees the pregnancy progress, he will relax some.

Ok so today's test is on the bottom. Woke up at 4:30 and couldn't sleep so naturally tested again. Went to bed and it looked exactly like yesterday's so I was feeling a tad discouraged but decided maybe the hcg just needs more time to rise and I'll test again in a couple days. Which I'll still do but was so happy to see it dry darker anyway!

Wowee!! Congrats! I haven't checked in for a while, trying to keep my mind occupied with other things....not very successfully.

So since joining this thread I have had 2 very regular AF's since MC, great! Or so I thought...now this cycle seems to be different, I don't test for ovulation but I swear I'm ovulating a week early?! Is this possible?

Good luck to you all

Hi! Thank you!!! Very excited and hopeful this will be our rainbow baby!

I think it's possible but I have had months where I could have sworn I was ovulating early but it seemed my body was trying to ovulate and still ended up ovulating on time. I don't test either.. Just watch for signs. Cm, cervix and such I'd bd now just in case of course but keep checking the signs later in the month too so you for sure don't miss it good luck!!!!

Looks like I must have ovulated early this month! I shouldn't be due AF till Thursday but I started getting faint BFP's last Thursday!!! :happy dance:
I've done 11 tests since then lol. Still can't quite believe it yet and don't want to get excited after the last 2 MC's
How are you finding it all this time round? How far are you now? How are you coping with the worry?

 

[Powell510]

Another flashing smiley this morning and pink tinted creamy CM. Guess im spotting again!

 

[Powell510]

He is good! I think he wants to be excited but a little afraid to be yet. He just wanted avoid the pain of another loss by when he sees the pregnancy progress, he will relax some.

Ok so today's test is on the bottom. Woke up at 4:30 and couldn't sleep so naturally tested again. Went to bed and it looked exactly like yesterday's so I was feeling a tad discouraged but decided maybe the hcg just needs more time to rise and I'll test again in a couple days. Which I'll still do but was so happy to see it dry darker anyway!

Wowee!! Congrats! I haven't checked in for a while, trying to keep my mind occupied with other things....not very successfully.

So since joining this thread I have had 2 very regular AF's since MC, great! Or so I thought...now this cycle seems to be different, I don't test for ovulation but I swear I'm ovulating a week early?! Is this possible?

Good luck to you all

Hi! Thank you!!! Very excited and hopeful this will be our rainbow baby!

I think it's possible but I have had months where I could have sworn I was ovulating early but it seemed my body was trying to ovulate and still ended up ovulating on time. I don't test either.. Just watch for signs. Cm, cervix and such I'd bd now just in case of course but keep checking the signs later in the month too so you for sure don't miss it good luck!!!!

Looks like I must have ovulated early this month! I shouldn't be due AF till Thursday but I started getting faint BFP's last Thursday!!! :happy dance:
I've done 11 tests since then lol. Still can't quite believe it yet and don't want to get excited after the last 2 MC's
How are you finding it all this time round? How far are you now? How are you coping with the worry?

congrats hun!

 

[happynewmom1]

He is good! I think he wants to be excited but a little afraid to be yet. He just wanted avoid the pain of another loss by when he sees the pregnancy progress, he will relax some.

Ok so today's test is on the bottom. Woke up at 4:30 and couldn't sleep so naturally tested again. Went to bed and it looked exactly like yesterday's so I was feeling a tad discouraged but decided maybe the hcg just needs more time to rise and I'll test again in a couple days. Which I'll still do but was so happy to see it dry darker anyway!

Wowee!! Congrats! I haven't checked in for a while, trying to keep my mind occupied with other things....not very successfully.

So since joining this thread I have had 2 very regular AF's since MC, great! Or so I thought...now this cycle seems to be different, I don't test for ovulation but I swear I'm ovulating a week early?! Is this possible?

Good luck to you all

Hi! Thank you!!! Very excited and hopeful this will be our rainbow baby!

I think it's possible but I have had months where I could have sworn I was ovulating early but it seemed my body was trying to ovulate and still ended up ovulating on time. I don't test either.. Just watch for signs. Cm, cervix and such I'd bd now just in case of course but keep checking the signs later in the month too so you for sure don't miss it good luck!!!!

Looks like I must have ovulated early this month! I shouldn't be due AF till Thursday but I started getting faint BFP's last Thursday!!! :happy dance:
I've done 11 tests since then lol. Still can't quite believe it yet and don't want to get excited after the last 2 MC's
How are you finding it all this time round? How far are you now? How are you coping with the worry?

Firstly - CONGRATS!!!

I admit some days are hard keeping positive but this video TinyLynne shared has been inspiring and motivating to be grateful and try to enjoy every day I'm still pregnant. https://youtu.be/I2XGKVgoLvs

I was still a little paranoid until I got past 6 week mark. I know it's silly but I relaxed a little after that. I've been so super nauseated and tired that I'm confident that every is OK right now. I know it's hard but try not to worry. I think about every cramp and twinge now but just keep telling myself it's baby growing

Message me if you ever need or want to! Maybe we can be bump buddies?

 

[TinyLynne]

I'm so glad things are working out and that you are relaxing some Happy!

As for me, hcg went up to 23 after 3 days, so not nearly enough, so I will stop progesterone and let it go I guess.

I can't try again until something changes, I can't do this again.

 

[happynewmom1]

I'm so glad things are working out and that you are relaxing some Happy!

As for me, hcg went up to 23 after 3 days, so not nearly enough, so I will stop progesterone and let it go I guess.

I can't try again until something changes, I can't do this again.

I am so so sorry

 

[mimdan]

How are you today, mimdan??

Hi Happy !

I'm ok thanx hun...nothing much to report CD23 still feel my hormones are out of balance this month as been in a crappy/snappy mood especially with OH but managing to keep it to myself most of the time. Shouted at my next door neighbour yesterday because his dog nearly knocked my 82 year old nan over Boobs still a little tender, nipples a little sore on occasion, possibly felt some cramping last night but very light if not imagined Lol dont seem to be getting any more ov type paims now so thats good...hoping I did O...I did test yesterday with frer "just incase" BFN.

How is everything with you ? Anything to report ? How many weeks/days are you now ? And hows you OH ?

Speak to you soon hun

 

[mimdan]

Hey Mimdan thank you!! He is doing better now, he is in a lot less pain. He is also thinking about switching jobs, which would lower both of our stress levels! I know the McDonalds thing is ridiculous...I could kick his butt for it I refuse to eat there. All I know is that I want this cycle to just be as normal as possible. Good news is I seen to be having some pre EWCM. So it looks like I should ovulate this week. Which is a blessing because it gets me closer to AF. But I just want this stinking 2 month wait to be over with . But, at least everything seems on track now just have to play the waiting game. Buying herbal supplements like a crazy person . But, we will get there. What stunk today was that I actually opened up to an old friend about our losses and she said "well you have two so if it is over and you can't have another baby what does it really matter...you have two just let the losses go and be happy!"Can you believe that? Like it shouldn't hurt? At least I have you ladies I don't know what I would do without this site!!!

Hi mssk

How are you today ?

I'm glad to hear your hubby is intending to look after himself better. Is he on any meds for his heart condition ? Must be very scary for you both ! Again I'm sorry you had to go through that, talk about stress !! But fingers crossed his health will be ok now

Wishing away the next 2 cycles for you I hope at the end of it you get your BFP ! Would be sooo nice if all us ladies could be bumb buddies

what supplements are you taking/buying? I've ordered more inositol for next cycle and I need to get a decent b complex to take and I still need to research soy iso as I'm considering that for next cycle.

Sorry to hear of your friends insensitivity ! Lets hope it doesnt happen again...tut tut x

 

[mimdan]

He is good! I think he wants to be excited but a little afraid to be yet. He just wanted avoid the pain of another loss by when he sees the pregnancy progress, he will relax some.

Ok so today's test is on the bottom. Woke up at 4:30 and couldn't sleep so naturally tested again. Went to bed and it looked exactly like yesterday's so I was feeling a tad discouraged but decided maybe the hcg just needs more time to rise and I'll test again in a couple days. Which I'll still do but was so happy to see it dry darker anyway!

Wowee!! Congrats! I haven't checked in for a while, trying to keep my mind occupied with other things....not very successfully.

So since joining this thread I have had 2 very regular AF's since MC, great! Or so I thought...now this cycle seems to be different, I don't test for ovulation but I swear I'm ovulating a week early?! Is this possible?

Good luck to you all

Hi! Thank you!!! Very excited and hopeful this will be our rainbow baby!

I think it's possible but I have had months where I could have sworn I was ovulating early but it seemed my body was trying to ovulate and still ended up ovulating on time. I don't test either.. Just watch for signs. Cm, cervix and such I'd bd now just in case of course but keep checking the signs later in the month too so you for sure don't miss it good luck!!!!

Looks like I must have ovulated early this month! I shouldn't be due AF till Thursday but I started getting faint BFP's last Thursday!!! :happy dance:
I've done 11 tests since then lol. Still can't quite believe it yet and don't want to get excited after the last 2 MC's
How are you finding it all this time round? How far are you now? How are you coping with the worry?

Hey Lilyban ! CONGRATULATIONS !! How wonderful I dont blame you for all those tests it has to be done, right ? truly awesome news. H&H 9 months to you ! Yay

 

[mimdan]

Another flashing smiley this morning and pink tinted creamy CM. Guess im spotting again!

WooHoo !! Go Powell go Powell go ! Hahaha Thats great hun ! Do you normally spot ? My fingers are crossed for you Lets hope that BD'ing every other day pays off hun ! Sooo TWW for you ? Best of luck...come on BFP !!

 

[mimdan]

I'm so glad things are working out and that you are relaxing some Happy!

As for me, hcg went up to 23 after 3 days, so not nearly enough, so I will stop progesterone and let it go I guess.

I can't try again until something changes, I can't do this again.

Hi Tiny Hun I'm sooooo sorry things haven't worked out I hate hearing this. I really wish things could be easier for us ladies. I truley hope you find the strength to carry on tcc because I know we will all get our sticky BFP, you know why ?? Because WE BLOODY WELL DESERVE THEM !! hope you find your answers and I'll be holding a positive vibe for you...be kind to yourself and take care xx

 

[Powell510]

Another flashing smiley this morning and pink tinted creamy CM. Guess im spotting again!

WooHoo !! Go Powell go Powell go ! Hahaha Thats great hun ! Do you normally spot ? My fingers are crossed for you Lets hope that BD'ing every other day pays off hun ! Sooo TWW for you ? Best of luck...come on BFP !!

Another flashing smiley today. I think I'm gonna hate the CB advanced digi! I keep reading about ladies who get over a week of flashing smileys before their solid smiley (flashing smiley indicates estrogen surge and solid smiley indicates lh surge) I also read that once the test picks up the estrogen surge, even if it goes away, the test will still read a flashing smiley until the solid smiley so I've been using a regular digi in the afternoon. I usually us ICs and no complaints with them. I just ran out this cycle and didn't have time to wait for more to be shipped so I got those thinking they'd be less stressful than comparing lines but I was wrong! The digis are driving me nuts lol
I don't usually spot but this is the after MC cycle so idk if it's 'normal'
Got some really good in last night so maybe I'll get my solid smiley soon!
If I dont get a this cycle I'm going to start temping again, it was really helpful last time TTC

 

[Powell510]

Another flashing smiley this morning and pink tinted creamy CM. Guess im spotting again!

WooHoo !! Go Powell go Powell go ! Hahaha Thats great hun ! Do you normally spot ? My fingers are crossed for you Lets hope that BD'ing every other day pays off hun ! Sooo TWW for you ? Best of luck...come on BFP !!

Another flashing smiley today. I think I'm gonna hate the CB advanced digi! I keep reading about ladies who get over a week of flashing smileys before their solid smiley (flashing smiley indicates estrogen surge and solid smiley indicates lh surge) I also read that once the test picks up the estrogen surge, even if it goes away, the test will still read a flashing smiley until the solid smiley so I've been using a regular digi in the afternoon. I usually us ICs and no complaints with them. I just ran out this cycle and didn't have time to wait for more to be shipped so I got those thinking they'd be less stressful than comparing lines but I was wrong! The digis are driving me nuts lol
I don't usually spot but this is the after MC cycle so idk if it's 'normal'
Got some really good in last night so maybe I'll get my solid smiley soon!
If I dont get a this cycle I'm going to start temping again, it was really helpful last time TTC

 

[happynewmom1]

How are you today, mimdan??

Hi Happy !

I'm ok thanx hun...nothing much to report CD23 still feel my hormones are out of balance this month as been in a crappy/snappy mood especially with OH but managing to keep it to myself most of the time. Shouted at my next door neighbour yesterday because his dog nearly knocked my 82 year old nan over Boobs still a little tender, nipples a little sore on occasion, possibly felt some cramping last night but very light if not imagined Lol dont seem to be getting any more ov type paims now so thats good...hoping I did O...I did test yesterday with frer "just incase" BFN.

How is everything with you ? Anything to report ? How many weeks/days are you now ? And hows you OH ?

Speak to you soon hun

Hi! I'm doing well! Nausea has kicked in full force. A pain especially when trying to hide this pregnancy for awhile but a good sign everything is likely ok I guess DH is doing well! He seems to be be relaxing more lately too I'll be 7 weeks on Friday!

Oh dear. That sounds incredibly frustrating for you! I can see why you are looking for something to help regulate your cycles. I keep getting snappy too.. I know how that feels. That sounds like a good reason to shout to me I really hope to see some good news for you soon!

 

[Powell510]

Hey Mimdan thank you!! He is doing better now, he is in a lot less pain. He is also thinking about switching jobs, which would lower both of our stress levels! I know the McDonalds thing is ridiculous...I could kick his butt for it I refuse to eat there. All I know is that I want this cycle to just be as normal as possible. Good news is I seen to be having some pre EWCM. So it looks like I should ovulate this week. Which is a blessing because it gets me closer to AF. But I just want this stinking 2 month wait to be over with . But, at least everything seems on track now just have to play the waiting game. Buying herbal supplements like a crazy person . But, we will get there. What stunk today was that I actually opened up to an old friend about our losses and she said "well you have two so if it is over and you can't have another baby what does it really matter...you have two just let the losses go and be happy!"Can you believe that? Like it shouldn't hurt? At least I have you ladies I don't know what I would do without this site!!!

Hi mssk

How are you today ?

I'm glad to hear your hubby is intending to look after himself better. Is he on any meds for his heart condition ? Must be very scary for you both ! Again I'm sorry you had to go through that, talk about stress !! But fingers crossed his health will be ok now

Wishing away the next 2 cycles for you I hope at the end of it you get your BFP ! Would be sooo nice if all us ladies could be bumb buddies

what supplements are you taking/buying? I've ordered more inositol for next cycle and I need to get a decent b complex to take and I still need to research soy iso as I'm considering that for next cycle.

Sorry to hear of your friends insensitivity ! Lets hope it doesnt happen again...tut tut x

I highly recommend Soy if you need assistance ovulating! First cycle using it got my with our son! I got a bottle right after the MC in preparation I just hope I dont need it lol its great stuff! Also a multi vitamin called Geritol (old wives tale is that theres a baby in every bottle, there was in mine!)