TTC after miscarriage before AF

[babyjourney89]

I guess iam out this cycle tested on FRER got BFN. Waiting for af to arrive.

 

[Trr]

Journey, what dpo are you?

My OPKs finally turned dark last night. Only took an extra 5 days. Got a fair amount of bd in. Enough to cover my bases so I am probably o'ing now so I will wait for my temp increase tomorrow. So happy I actually did o because I really thought I wasn't going to. My body could still change its mind tho.

 

[babyjourney89]

@Trr Well, AF arrived yesterday (I was 14dpo), and the period flow is really light, In my case first three days of cycle have always been so heavy. I guess my endometrium isn't thick enough this time around.
Aw! Good luck dear. I hope this is your cycle.

 

[xanzaba]

Well, AF arrived just in time for Thanksgiving, just after I received my betas (<1). I guess those were all evaps.

Good luck trr. I guess it's our chance to live vicariously through you!

 

[Trr]

Sorry about your negatives ladies. Hoping for Christmas BFPs.

Well no action yet.

No temp rise but my sleep was very broken because I have a sick puppy dog at home that likes to co-sleep.

Got blazing positives Saturday night and two on Sunday. Will check again around noon and see what this body of mine is doing. I just want to be out of this wait and into the next wait. Ugh.

 

[babyjourney89]

Ugh! last night i had terrible AF cramps. I felt like i was in labor. This is possibly the effect of cytotec ( Misoprostol- I had to take) when i was admitted in hospital for 3 days to go through abortion. I had missed miscarriage and my body wasn't very well aware of the loss.

 

[xanzaba]

So sorry, baby journey Why won't our bodies just behave and give our minds and spirits a break?

 

[Trr]

Sorry to the ladies that af got. It's always rough when she shows up.

Got a small temp spike today so I'm thinking I'm 1dpo, maybe 2. We will see if I get crosshairs tomorrow. Bd was timed pretty good so I am optimistic this cycle.

On a sad note, I had to put my dog down last night. He was in end stage liver failure. So unfortunately I'm not bringing much more cheer to this thread but I'm optimistic that with death comes life.

Hoping I can just rest and focus on my 2ww. With my mc and the loss of my dog, November was the worst month of my life.

My fingers are crossed for good things in the future. I need some good news.

 

[TinyLynne]

Oh Trr I'm so sorry you lost your pup. I can't imagine going through that on top of all of this mc crap. I really hope December is a much better month for you.

 

[xanzaba]

Oh, tr. I'm so sorry

 

[TinyLynne]

Sorry about your bfn baby journey.

Xan, it looks like we need to find a new trusty test. I'm so disappointed in FRER. I never bought another test because they were always so good and accurate, but now I'll never buy one again.

Any suggestions on brands to try anyone?

 

[xanzaba]

Yeah, FRERs are just the worst now! I guess testing and then retesting 2 days later is one option, digis are another. CVS blue dye tests are pretty good, as long as you don't read them after the fact.

Otherwise, DH seems to be pretty good at trying to keeping me honest, if only I'd listen...

 

[Trr]

I feel like I have seen a target brand that looks like a frer. I'm in Canada so they just got rid of all our targets so I can't say for sure.

 

[mssk]

Can it really be cycle day 14 already?!

Last week was horrible but I am feeling a little better now.
I woke up the 24th crying...not knowing why, I couldn't even get out of bed...then I realized that it was my first due date. I swear I cried for 4 days straight. Not to mention that DH and I who rarely argue had a huge fight that day and so I didn't have him to lean on. I cried so much I felt crazy. I keep reminding myself that it will happen when it happens. Now if only my body would take the hint and get to it. All that being said I haven't had a positive OPK yet. But, DH is determined to make this the cycle...so far we bd day 9,10,11,12, and have a date for tomorrow morning when he gets home from work. Here's to getting that positive OPK tomorrow.

 

[babyjourney89]

mssk Aww! I'am so sorry that you are feeling this way. I can totally relate and understand.

 

[xanzaba]

Mssk I get it. I had a similar breakdown in April, but fortunately found out 3 days later I was pregnant.

This time I'm having a really hard time remembering what my due date was. It's a bit numbing and I guess I should be okay with it, but it's bothering me. It would be great if I found out I was pregnant this month, but I'm not holding my breath. AF is due just on or around Christmas day.

 

[mssk]

Thank you ladies...TTC after experiencing a loss really sucks lol
Oh xan I hope that you get your BFP this cycle

AFM- I did get a positive OPK last night and I was up late and felt O actually happen. I had sore breasts late at night and then a high temp from 12 AM-4 AM
We bd first thing this AM with preseed. So I guess tomorrow begins another TWW.

Here is to us all getting what we really want this Holiday season

 

[xanzaba]

Here's to holiday bumps and sticky beans for all of us!

 

[mssk]

6 dpo and so far I am doing good. I promised myself this cycle I would relax and not check CP,CM, or test early. And I feel good about that. Although I can honestly say, and this might only because I am exhausted from finals, that I do not feel like I will get a BFP this cycle. It is just a feeling and I hope that I am wrong. But, I can finally say that I am okay with that. If it doesn't happen this cycle I believe it will happen soon. Either way I am proud of myself for being more relaxed and letting what will be---just be. I have three ics left and I don't plan on using them unless I miss AF. Thinking of all you ladies

 

[xanzaba]

Mssk- glad that you are feeling good this cycle.

AFM- got a smiley this morning. I usually O the day of or the day after a +OPK, and I feel bloated and like I'm about to O. So here goes another tww!