TTC after miscarriage before AF

[Mlynn3D]

If my O was right, AF would be due Sat or Sun. So far, all .88 tests are BFN. Boobs have been sore all week, but I can chalk that up to taking Maca and also being post-m/c.
Cd29 today.
I don't even know what I want to do, if I want to keep NTNP or what.

 

[Trr]

Im jumping in here ladies. Cd2, just started bleeding yesterday at 4+5 after beta draws were mon-67 and wed-47.

Hoping to get pregnant again right away. Hubby is taking it harder then me, poor guy.

Mentally and emotionally, I'm in a good place and just ready to be preggers again.

Good luck to all you ladies in the thread. It takes a strong woman to overcome this. FX for all.

 

[babyjourney89]

Babylove100 Congrats! Wishing you healthy and safe pregnancy. I hope this is your take home baby.
So, i finally got a positive OPK, and its gona get dark in couple of hours . Now that i know iam ovulating, iam kinda scared to try.

 

[mssk]

Hi Babyjourney, first off I am so very sorry for your loss. How long before ttc is really up to you. I know for me my Dr. said to wait 2-3 cycles for physical and emotional recovery. We wanted to ttc right away and conceived before AF after a loss at 6 weeks unfortunately we lost the second baby at 8 weeks. The doctor said my lining hadn't been given a chance to recover. But, I know so many ladies on here have successful pregnancies right after their loss. After our second loss I didn't O and I had to medically induce AF 2 months later. I didn't have confirmed O until this cycle. But, I think that was due to a piece of tissue remaining. It seems like forever but things will get back on track for you. YOu came to the right place for support

 

[mssk]

Mlynn- I'll keep everything crossed for you that AF stays away!

Trr- I am so sorry for your loss, My DH took it to heart as well he is still scared of another loss.


AFM- Well I managed not to POAS like a crazy person today. I am waiting 3 more days before testing again. For some reason I have been testing and getting discouraged and I am only just 7dpo today. But, I have some good symptoms-which could also be pre-AF symptoms. I am thirsty, tired, and crampy. I laid down next to DD to take a nap today and fell asleep for 3 hours, which is not like me. Last night out of no where DS came up to me kissed my belly and said aww mom you have a little baby in your belly, I love you little baby! It took me off guard, I told him I hope you are right buddy!

 

[Trr]

Mssk- your DS sounds adorable. Fx crossed that he is right.

I would like to believe that I would hold off telling my DH next time I get pregnant at least til I get a scan but I doubt that is possible for me. I suck at keeping secrets from him. I just think he's taking it a little harder then me.

 

[Mlynn3D]

Hi guys!!! I miscarried at 11 weeks and 1 day. Currently trying to recover emotionally and waiting for my body to start functioning again. Can you guys tell me how long should i wait to ttc again.

with my 10.5 week loss, we ttc as soon as i stopped bleeding , but it took 13mo to get pregnant again, which was lost at 5.5 weeks, then we quit TTC and got pregnant not trying the first cycle after! I don't think there is a right time, but some research shows before 6months is best

 

[xanzaba]

Mssk- from his lips to god's ears! Keeping everything crossed for you

 

[xanzaba]

Mssk- are you going to test today?!?!?

 

[mssk]

Xan- I am starting to get discouraged I am 10 dpo...yesterday I caved and tested and I swear there was the faintest of lines, but the dye was also bleeding off of the test. Then today I tested first thing...although I peed twice in the middle of the night so it wasn't very concentrated and BFN...starting to lose hope even though I know it is still early

 

[mssk]

So I took another one today and BFN..But I checked the second test I took yesterday that was a BFN and there is a visibly pink line, DH sees it too. I don't want to get my hopes up..I think I will retest in 2 days FX'D

 

[xanzaba]

Mssk- hang in there. I've never had a BFP before 13 dpo, so...

 

[mssk]

I think I am going to have DH check them for me....I need new contacts so I can't see them very well. Thanks Xan...I know it is early I think I am just so afraid of BFNs...now I am wishing I didn't buy a ton of ics so I would have waited longer to test!

 

[TinyLynne]

Pictures!!!! 2 days? That is so long from now! Lol (I know, I'm bad) an FRER would show something if the ICs are. I've never had an evap on an FRER until DAYS later!

 

[mssk]

Tiny!!!!

Someone actually stole my camera out of my car at the park! The line isn't visible on my cell's crappy camera but I will try to get a pic. Two days feels like an eternity and if I get a positive or anything even resembling one I am going straight out to pick up some FRERs.

 

[xanzaba]

8dpo here and it's starting to get long! Funny how some cycles drag and others fly by. FF says my testing day should be the day before Thanksgiving, but I doubt if I can hold out that long. Maybe Tuesday if witchy witch stays away.

 

[mssk]

Xan- I was just about to ask you what dpo you are. How are you feeling any symptoms?

 

[mssk]

Well after convincing myself I was finally pregnant again after some faint lines and a super soft cervix...my cervix goes med. low and firm and I start spotting.... oh well at least it looks like I am finally back to a 30 day cycle. So that is a plus...whats another 2 weeks of TTC in the grand scheme of things. I've got my finger crossed for you ladies. But as for this cycle I am out.

 

[Babylove100]

Ah sorry mssk, got everything crossed for you for next cycle, what a great attitude you have tho

Good luck to those still in the tww!x

 

[xanzaba]

So sorry, mssk. But, yes, you have a great attitude. And yay for being back to 30 day cycles. I'm convinced when your body is ready, it will happen!