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TTC after multiple losses

I totally understand how you feel. I feel like throwing in the towel and talked to Dh about it. He says he's good any way but I feel like there is pressure on me still. I want a different focus.
When I got of with dd I had a very 'strong' ov where I felt it and was crampy. Fx'd this is your month.

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My DH is the same. He is feeling very relaxed about the whole thing now. So I am trying to be the same.
I didn't have sex yesterday on my ovulation day as we were both not in the mood. We have decided only to DTD when we feel like it as we no longer want to have sex because an ovulation test says so.
We had sex 3 days before ovulation and the day before ovulation. If that's not enough then so be it. We are done with this whole BD on schedule. Most of the time it doesn't work anyway so I don't see why we have been knackering ourselves it. Seems silly. Every other day or at least two days in my window will be fine I'm sure :thumbup:

Have you got any holidays booked? I have found that trips away have kept me focused and also having little things to look forward to like days out etc.

Me and DH are now just going to see what happens over the next couple of years. We said that in two years time (after 4 years of trying) then we will look into other options if we can't get pregnant again or if we continue to miscarry
 
We have a trailer which we will open in 2 weeks so I'm looking forward to that. I'm trying to make plans with family and friends so I have things to look forward to and focus on. My naturopath wants me to temp but I just can't. I spent a whole ur doing it and it did nothing but stress me out. I feel the same as you that I just want to chill and see what happens.
 

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