TTC buddy?!

[Cabby]

Good Luck AMN21- we will be keeping everything crossed for u!! Keep us updated!

Smooch- I bet it was amazing telling ur mum

Just had to post as this woman at work is doing my head in!!! She is 5 months pregnant and moaning constantly about it!! She doesn't know I'm trying and I'm sure she wouldn't be so bad if she knew but I'm literally biting my tongue everytime I see her!! She says things like "it's like he is being a little shit and kicking me!" and "I want a kid free zone for a bit as I'm going to have one soon- god!" I'm just like u ungrateful cow!! She has no idea how lucky she is! I would take the pain and uncomfort anyday if it meant I could have my baby! RA!! Now I'm sure I will moan a little (!) when I eventually get pregnant but I will always be so grateful that I'm pregnant I can't EVER imagine being like her!!

We also had some child protection training today and u hear such horrific stories of child abuse that it makes me so angry- I nearly had to walk out!!! This world is so unjust- why do evil idiots like that get to have loads of children and good people like us don't even get one!! Makes no sense!!

Anyway sorry for the rant- just had to get that out!! Baby dust to u all

 

[Cabby]

Oh and is there anyone I could be a ttc buddy with? I'm on CD 4!
xx

 

[AMN21]

BFN for me ladies

Idk if we can get the money together in time for next cycle. I'm just sad and angry right now. I hate this...

 

[Cabby]

BFN for me ladies

Idk if we can get the money together in time for next cycle. I'm just sad and angry right now. I hate this...

Oh no I am SOOOOOOO sorry hun- I was really hoping you would get ur BFP this cycle! This absolutely sucks - the whole process is so blooming unfair! I'm sure u have said before but how long have u been ttc? I'll be keeping everything crossed u can get some money for next time. Not fair hun.

I'm slowly getting out of my slump and really positive about next month- but I guess it's harder for u if u need to find money for it. (Sorry I'm not quite sure of the process u r going through)

Baby dust to u hun- I know it's hard there but U WILL get there- we are all here for u xx

 

[TTCBean]

Cabby, I know what you mean about ungrateful mothers. It just makes me sick. I'd do anything in the world to experience having my own child. In the store the other day a boy, probably about 7 or so, was trying to show his mother a book. He looked so happy and just wanted his mom to look. She literally screamed at him saying " NO NO NO NO COME HERE RIGHT NOW I DONT WANT TO LOOK!" It's like, you fat cow, be appreciative of this boy that wants to show you something... and it's a book~ How amazing is that. He felt like he could come to you to share joy and you yelled at him. How humiliating. The poor boy looked so heart broken.

Oh and Cabby, we can be TTCbuddies. I am on CD15.

to AMN. I read in our local news, a place called "The Fertility Center" located in Kalamazoo, Grand Rapids and Lansing is offering a money back guarantee on in-vitro fertilization... here is the link in the news https://www.mlive.com/business/west-michigan/index.ssf/2012/05/fertility_clinic_offers_money-.html and their site: https://www.michiganivf.com/ just thought I'd mention it since it seems like a very helpful program.

I sure hope you get your BFP next month babydust to all of us!

 

[Cabby]

Cabby, I know what you mean about ungrateful mothers. It just makes me sick. I'd do anything in the world to experience having my own child. In the store the other day a boy, probably about 7 or so, was trying to show his mother a book. He looked so happy and just wanted his mom to look. She literally screamed at him saying " NO NO NO NO COME HERE RIGHT NOW I DONT WANT TO LOOK!" It's like, you fat cow, be appreciative of this boy that wants to show you something... and it's a book~ How amazing is that. He felt like he could come to you to share joy and you yelled at him. How humiliating. The poor boy looked so heart broken.

Oh and Cabby, we can be TTCbuddies. I am on CD15.

I sure hope you get your BFP next month babydust to all of us!

Oh that is just soooooo rude!!! It really annoys me- that poor little boy- I would so listen to him if he was my son! These mother's don't realise how lucky they are! We are going to be such fantastic mum's because we want this so badly and have waited so long!! Ra! Poor little boy

We will get there!! Yay to being ttc buddies! xx

 

[Catch30]

Hi ladies im really new to this TTC thing im currently on cd14 this is my second month actually trying after a year of NTNP and after two m/c in a year its kinda hard because i dnt have any friends who are actually trying cus they all have kids and find it easy to get pregnant but i guess i just need some people that are trying for baby one like me, i just recently started to look to my faith after getting upset after seeing girls having babys left and right and some that are already bad and/or ungreatfull mothers i realize when my time is right it will happen for me but its still lonely going through this alone with only my boyfriend to lean on

 

[Cabby]

Hi ladies im really new to this TTC thing im currently on cd14 this is my second month actually trying after a year of NTNP and after two m/c in a year its kinda hard because i dnt have any friends who are actually trying cus they all have kids and find it easy to get pregnant but i guess i just need some people that are trying for baby one like me, i just recently started to look to my faith after getting upset after seeing girls having babys left and right and some that are already bad and/or ungreatfull mothers i realize when my time is right it will happen for me but its still lonely going through this alone with only my boyfriend to lean on

Welcome Catch30- you have come to the right place! I'm so sorry to hear about your m/c's that sucks I can't imagine how hard they must have been for u. I know exactly how u feel about this ttc process- it can be really isolating- like u, all my friends just look at their partners and they r pregnant!! It's really hard that's why I'm so grateful for this website! The girls on here are fantastic and so supportive and they really cheer me up! So come join us

Did u read some of the comments on here about ungrateful/bad mothers? We were chatting about it today that is sooooooo frustrating to see when we are all so desperate for babies- we would never treat our children like that so why don't we get one?! I'm glad u have been able to draw on ur faith to help u through as this is an awful time! I must admit I've been really upset by the fact that I have struggled to conceive- it's made me question why God wouldn't let me be a mum But u r right- the time isn't right for us yet but it will be soon!!

Are u charting etc?

Baby dust to u hun we will all get there! xx

 

[Catch30]

Thanks and no I didn't read the ungrateful mom thing till after I posted I was just on my Facebook and I seen a girl I know is not a good mom and she always complains that she loves her son but she wished she never had him and she posted she was pregnant and that just got me upset and I started looking for some forums with the same thing I was going through and I found this one... And about the m\c its fine im dealing with it I'm getting better but i thing the recent one hurt a lot more because literally 2 weeks after it happened my sister found out she was pregnant and im so happy for her but i still can't help feel

 

[Catch30]

Sorry my phone is acting weird but like I was saying I can't help but feel jealous that she is having a baby and I couldn't our baby's would have been a month apart and she is do in July and I feel so bad about how I feel cus I want to be there for her but its hard.. And yes i started charting last month after just waiting to see if it happened and it didn't we decided to get a lil more precise and try when we are gunna have a better chance and i should be ovulating this week and im excited I've been doing the opks for a week already and nothing because i tried to do the body temp but mine is allover the place and i take it everyday at the same time so im relying on the opks for this month and thanks baby dust to you too

 

[Smooch]

BFN for me ladies

Idk if we can get the money together in time for next cycle. I'm just sad and angry right now. I hate this...

Aw so sorry
This sucks! I really hope u guys can be ready for the next cycle
We are here for any stress relief u need hun. Keep strong tht bfp is soon to come

 

[Smooch]

Welcome catch30....really awesome ladies here...very supportive and helpful.
Come here to chat..info...ranting anything

I hear ya on the preggo ladies who just dont care...at my work a chick complained thru her whole
Pregnancy..how she didnt want it..or she just made a huge deal out of small symptoms...drama queen lol

 

[Catch30]

Thanks for the welcome im actually glad i found this wedsite i was really starting to feel alone because i just moved to florida and dnt know anyone and the only people i have met are all mothers and one is a mother of 3 and younger than me so i was really starting to get discouraged here but im feeling a lot better after reading that im not alone and congrats on the baby i wish you the best

 

[AMN21]

Thanks for the support ladies. I'm just so sad right now. I don't think we will have the money for next cycle. I just went to the bathroom and when I wiped there was light pink on the toilet paper. Weird because I've been on progesterone, even took one this morning before I found out and my nurse told me AF probably would be here around the weekend

Anyways, welcome to the new ladies. Cabby DH and I have been TTC for a year. Going on our 13th month now. Wishing you all good luck.

TTCBean thanks for the link...I'll check it out!

 

[AMN21]

Btw small rant...a friend of mine on facebook is pregnant with her 2nd child. She tried for about 10 months so I was happy for her but now she's like 16 or so weeks and she bitches about how she hates going to her prenatal appts and they are a waste of time...seriously...I just wanna scream at her, "you have no idea how good you have it!" I would LOVE to be going to prenatal appts! UGHHHH!

 

[Catch30]

Wow same here well the girl thats on my facebook is not a good friend but i went to school with her all she does is bitch about being pregnant and talk about her cravings and she is only 9 weeks pregnant im like one more status about her bitching that her baby is going crazy in her stomach from telling her off and deleting her to be honest i dnt know why i havent

 

[Smooch]

Face book can be a very evil place...i have a couple on mine who do the same....i havent experienced a pregnancy beyond 10 weeks...but i plan to be thankful for all of it.
I mean i get there will be uncomfortable moments lol but these women just need a diff. Out look on it...quit bitching and be thankful for the life growing inside you! totally agree with u ladies.

 

[Catch30]

Yeah same here ive had 2 M/C but i think thats why i would be very thankfull and feel blessed to have a baby, my mom and MIL always tell me that the people who have to struggle to get the blessing of a child tend to be better parents because they truly see them as a gift/blessing that they got for all of their struggles. So thats why im still so hopefull, waiting for that day i can carry full term.

 

[Smooch]

Hope that day comes soon!

 

[AMN21]

Sooo ladies...we are going to be moving on to b2b IUI #2! I'm going to call my nurse tomorrow and ask what we will be doing different this time. DH has been on antibiotics and I don't know if that will affect his sperm count, which is already kind of low. So if she thinks it will make it worse then we will skip this next cycle and wait. But glad to say we do have the funds for it. I will let you know what she thinks when I speak with her!

I've emailed the financial lady at the clinic to get an estimate for IVF as well in case the IUI fails again.