TTC for 6+ months? *20 bfp's and counting!*

Hi there, it appears I might be a little late on this chat, but count me in. Im in my 8th month of TTC.

It seems that every month is harder and harder on the nerves as all I seem to get is :bfn:

Hello amd welcome.

Yes, it does get harder and harder every month we see the BFN, but we have to stay optimistic and positive!
 
Hi there, it appears I might be a little late on this chat, but count me in. Im in my 8th month of TTC.

It seems that every month is harder and harder on the nerves as all I seem to get is :bfn:

Hello amd welcome.

Yes, it does get harder and harder every month we see the BFN, but we have to stay optimistic and positive!

Welcome, AllaBerry! I agree that is does get harder every month. The longer I keep seeing bfns, I begin to feel like I am "defective" or something. But like Lulu said, we just have to keep going, keep our chins up, and stay focused on the end result that we are all hoping for.

Hope everyone's good today. AFM, nothing much to report, still basically no symptoms at the moment.

Oh, btw, Lulu my temp was exactly the same as yesterday and the Countdown chart moved my "possible O" to Jan 28th which if very unlikely and I highly doubt!!! And if that is the case, then I am out because we didn't BD at all around then. Have you had any symptoms today?
 
Wow, I can't believe your chart just moved possible O like that! Also, you never know, the swimmers might stay in there for a long time!
My chart is still the same. This morning, my temp only went up from 97.24 yesterday to 97.27. Ugh. Looks like I am on track for another W lol.

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No symptoms of anything either! I hate this!!!
 
Hi All,

I'd love to join you, i have been trying a little longer than the majority of you, this is cycle 10 for me, and i am right at the end of it, so i could soon be onto cycle 11 - boo!!!

I also just wanted to add that cycle 6/7 are particularly hard, i think its something to do with reaching the half year mark!! I know month 12 for me is going to be incredibly tough if i dont get a BFP by then!

Good luck everyone!
 
Hi All,

I'd love to join you, i have been trying a little longer than the majority of you, this is cycle 10 for me, and i am right at the end of it, so i could soon be onto cycle 11 - boo!!!

I also just wanted to add that cycle 6/7 are particularly hard, i think its something to do with reaching the half year mark!! I know month 12 for me is going to be incredibly tough if i dont get a BFP by then!

Good luck everyone!

Hi and welcome!

I am sorry that you have been TTC for almost 11 cycles! At least you are almost at the one year mark so you can go to a fertility specialist!

Yes, the 6th/7th mark is hard! It's like, I should have already gotten a BFP, and now I am probably going to have to wait another 6 cycles to see a specialist!

Anyways, good luck. I hope you get your BFP so you don't have to start the 11th cycle!
 
I would like to join you ladies too! This is cycle 8 for me of TTC and yes, my impatience is growing exponentially. Oh why we can not be those girls that snap their fingers and the BFP appears...:wacko:

I am currently 3DPO and feel like the TWW is never going to be over. Maybe that's just because I feel we did an extra good job this month. DTD day before, day of, and day after LH surge according to OPK. Please please let the wait be over!
 
I would like to join you ladies too! This is cycle 8 for me of TTC and yes, my impatience is growing exponentially. Oh why we can not be those girls that snap their fingers and the BFP appears...:wacko:

I am currently 3DPO and feel like the TWW is never going to be over. Maybe that's just because I feel we did an extra good job this month. DTD day before, day of, and day after LH surge according to OPK. Please please let the wait be over!

Hi! My cycle is almost the same as yours...I am 4DPO (according to OPK's), but now that I just switched my FF chart to "advanced" ovulation detector, it shows I haven't O'd yet :nope:

Good luck to you!
 
Hi i would love to join you guys if you dont mind. I should ovulate within the next week on cycle 10 month 9, and it seems like we're never gonna get a BFP.
 
Hi there Mattsgirl - I know it is frustrating but try to stay optimistic! That is what I am trying this cycle!
 
Im thinking of trying preseed this cycle, any of you ladies tried it before or heard good things about it?? :-k
 
Just wanted to say hi to all the girls who have joined the thread! Please, everyone share all your tips and of course your frustrations of ttc! x
 
I have been wanting to try preseed. Will try it next cycle if I don't get my BFP this cycle.
 
Hi girls I've been ttc for a while nod but only joined here last month to give my friends and husbands ears a break from listening to me moan about it just not happening, I'm should be ovulating any day now got a bd in yest but hubbies working nights this wk so hopefully yesterday did the trick, fingers crossed
 
Im thinking of trying preseed this cycle, any of you ladies tried it before or heard good things about it?? :-k

There is a pre-seed club if you check out some of the other threads. Lots of people who don't usually gets lot of cm swear by it! Worth a try, right? $20 is a small price to pay for a leg up!
 
I have a 5 year old son and I am trying to conceive again. I have been off birth control for over 2 years and am not taking any medications for AF. AF last started on Dec. 28 and ended on the 1st. (regular) About 6 months ago, I did not receive my period for 2 months. I figured it had something to do with my being overweight. I have since lost 30 lbs. and AF has seemed to become fairly normal again. I just started tracking my cycle in December, so I'm not sure if I have a regular 28 day cycle, but it's fairly close to that, give or take a few days. AF was due(going on a 28 day cycle) on the 25th of this month. I took an ovulation test on the 24th and it was positive. So my bf and I bd'd the 24 and 25th. (last time we bd'd was on the 20th). AF has not arrived yet, so based on a 28 day cycle, I would be 7 days late. My breasts have been tender and I have been using the restroom like crazy. I also never go the bathroom at night and have every night this week. (not drinking any more than normal) Is it possible that I am pregnant or may be going through implantation tomorrow through Friday?!?!? I just don't want to get my hopes up again, after SEVERAL BFN's. I have tested 2 times and they were both BFN's. I took an ovulation test today 1.31.12, and there was a line but it was not darker than the reference line. I'm so confused... Any advise or words of encouragement would help!! Thanks ladies
 

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