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[krissie328]

Sunshine- I'd say the one is positive. I have not tried forming but I've thought about it for awhile.

You're son's performance sounds adorable. I'd be super excited too.

 

[ms sunshine]

Well no mistaking todays opk syper dark within a minute. Rearranged my appointment until afer my window.

So glad o is here. I have taking the max dose of rd clover i sortof wimp out on herbs amd meds so i only took half but thought o got.to just go for it. So feeling positive. And even if im not its christmas

 

[krissie328]

Good luck sunshine!

 

[ms sunshine]

Thanks krissie. Had a drastic temp increase hopefully my son hasnt made me ill and its because of o lol. My opks are still pos though. My sons picked up another cold. Hubbys got man flu too. Need a hazmat suit in this house.

 

[ms sunshine]

Ugh so much for o bring here no trmp rise and today neg opk hoping tomorrow will be a rise. Not even had any o pain now.

How is everyone?

 

[BelleNuit]

Oh no sunshine! Same happened to me this cycle and I ended up getting my temp rise a few days later, I'm definitely in the TWW now. I hope that the same happens for you!!

I'm mostly just trying not to think about it this cycle. I do think AF will show (due the 26th at the latest, 24th at the earliest), but I'd rather not spend the whole TWW depressed and thinking about it. So I'm not hoping for it, but I'm not moping either.

Once I have my one baby (if I ever get so lucky) I'm never TTC again. This is such garbage. I'll just NTNP and not think about it ever again. I would so love to be able to have one

 

[krissie328]

Last cycle I didn't get my temp shift until 2 dpo. Fx you see it tomorrow.

Belle- this really is a long, exhausting journey. This will be our last and I so look forward to not worrying about it anymore.

 

[ms sunshine]

Belle ttc sucks.i was told by everybody ttc 2 is soooooo easy. It took a yr and 3 months roughly for my son nearly 2 for this one. Hubby will be happy trying for.anoher yr if im lucky after that thats it and i have my heart set on 2. Hes 42 now and doesnt.want a newborn at 45 as he will struggle. But its christmas so not worrying this cycle.

And you wont believe it hubby changed the bedding and lost my thermometre. So i guess i will never know lol will.leave it a few days and order a new one if it doesnt show. Im.just going to.enjoy not having to do it lol. I still havnt arranged my last blood test so f it doesnt work im going to do all that stuff in jan and see my doc. As you say not going to worry so much.

Well hope af doesnt show for you belle u never know

 

[Cppeace]

Hi all I'd like to join- I've been trying on and off for 18 months. Had one miscarriage Earlier this year but otherwise no luck at all. My guy has low sex drive and I believe that is our biggest issue for lack of conception for so long. We will be doing home insemination for this and the next few cycles at atleast to see if that helps. I should be ovulating in the next 3-7 days. Hope the baby dust is plentiful here

 

[ms sunshine]

Cppeace good luck. My hubby is the same sometimes its not too bad but it does make me panic in case we miss the egg (though i tend to panic a lot) no idea what dpo i am im guessing at 4dpo i lost my thermometre so didnt confirm o so over christmas just being relaxed about it.

Sorry to hear about ur loss hopefully a christmas o will work its maguc for u

 

[BelleNuit]

Started spotting I think I'm 10 dpo. DH says if I start femara now that I'm admitting that weed doesn't have an effect on sperm. He's such an idiot.

I'm just tired of all of this and want to do whatever I possibly can to make it end. I don't even believe femara will help. It just feels so futile to do nothing.

I think we are going to take a cycle off this next cycle. I need to get my MMR vaccine updated anyway and since its a live vaccine you can't be pregnant when you get it.

I'm like ugly crying I knew I was out this cycle from the beginning anyway, but it still sucks. I wasn't even checking for spotting and wasn't prepared for it.

 

[ms sunshine]

Yeah i had to have my mmr done took 3 months before i could ttc as not even had initial shot and had to have booster as well.

Sounds frustrating with ur dh how long has he smoked weed? I smoked it in my early 20s quitting was so difficult to quit i was like a crazy person. Might be tmi but has he had his swimmers checked? Might make him think twice if he has to be tested.

Aw hugs it will happen it just really suck ttc is the hardest thing i think women can through every month is a broken heart. Think ur right Id take ur meds when ur able to ttc ur right u might as well give you the best chance u just need a lucky cycle. Have you tried doing fertility yoga? My doc suggested my struggles mught be stress related and i got some.dvds my maya firenes i think its spelt and the reviews are pretty good. Its not yoga as such its more relxation and a lot of meditating but some ppl who have struggled have conceived. I only done it a few times moved house and lost my dvd lol so cant say it worked but i felt so destressed aferwards and good. At this moment im trying anything

 

[BelleNuit]

DHs SA came back fantastic, it was kind of annoying actually. Concentration was 166mil, total count was 580 mil, motility and progressive motility were both 70%, 10% morphology. And that was while smoking weed about once a week. Ugh. He has quit again, but it's been hard on him. I was smoking weed probably just as much as he was (almost daily), but quit back in June, so I guess that's why I'm so frustrated that he has had a hard time quitting. He's content letting me quit but didn't want to do the same himself.

My stress has been way less since starting acupuncture, but I think I'll give fertility yoga a try too. Thanks for the idea!

 

[ms sunshine]

Ahh no problem. I found the maya dvds a bit weird shes in ur face happy lol but i felt so chilled afterwards.

Anyway i hope everyone has a fab christmas will be back in a few days. Think im due soon not really gone on to ff so no idea. Decided i would have a bit to drink the chance that im actually pg is not great would be a big suprise if i was. So have fun everyone and fingers xd we have some new year bfps in jan x

 

[BelleNuit]

Woke up to AF and cramps today, so much for my Christmas miracle lol. My spotting was way less than normal this cycle, it never progressed past tan cm. So I'll count that as a good thing.

I'm hoping 2017 will bring us our BFPs!

 

[krissie328]

So sorry Belle.

 

[BelleNuit]

Thanks Krissie

 

[ms sunshine]

Aw hugs belle. Im out too. Im gutted as im 8dpo going off last opk but i had 4 positives so maybe i od earlier but lost my bbt. Hope my lp is screwed up. Will be a little nervous next tww