TTC on Clomid but DH doesn't want to BD - HELP

[ksp]

Hiya,
this is embarrassing but I am just going to say it. I am currently on Clomid as I have PCOS. Obviously due to this we have to have timed BD, but DH doesn't want to play ball. Apparently he feels pressured and doesn't want to BD! Am I the only one having this problem? We keep missing the ovulation dates because he can't get his act together! I need some advise..

 

[CanadianMaple]

It sounds like you need to sit down and talk to him about it. Does he understand that you can only take clomid for a set amount of cycles and they will continue to bump it up and make you have even more symptoms?

I would find out what his true feelings are. Is he scared about having a baby deep down?

I feel for you, how frustrating!

 

[ksp]

It sounds like you need to sit down and talk to him about it. Does he understand that you can only take clomid for a set amount of cycles and they will continue to bump it up and make you have even more symptoms?

I would find out what his true feelings are. Is he scared about having a baby deep down?

I feel for you, how frustrating!

I have tried talking to him but I don't think he knows what the problem is. I am going to see how things go this cycle. If there is no change then I will go off clomid. I have explained to him that I can only be on clomid for a set time and he finds that pressurising. I wish I knew how to solve this

 

[CanadianMaple]

I'm so sorry. That has to be so frustrating, especially since you're stuck taking clomid and dealing with those side effects.

Can you try to change the setting? Get away for a night or something around O time, but not tell him how close you are to ovulation?

I would tell him you're going off clomid after this and see what he says.