TTC on Clomid but DH doesn't want to BD - HELP

Discussion in 'Trying To Conceive' started by ksp, Nov 13, 2011.

  1. ksp

    ksp Tested Positive

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    Hiya,
    this is embarrassing but I am just going to say it. I am currently on Clomid as I have PCOS. Obviously due to this we have to have timed BD, but DH doesn't want to play ball. Apparently he feels pressured and doesn't want to BD! Am I the only one having this problem? We keep missing the ovulation dates because he can't get his act together! I need some advise..
     
  2. CanadianMaple

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    It sounds like you need to sit down and talk to him about it. Does he understand that you can only take clomid for a set amount of cycles and they will continue to bump it up and make you have even more symptoms?

    I would find out what his true feelings are. Is he scared about having a baby deep down?

    I feel for you, how frustrating!
     
  3. ksp

    ksp Tested Positive

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    I have tried talking to him but I don't think he knows what the problem is. I am going to see how things go this cycle. If there is no change then I will go off clomid. I have explained to him that I can only be on clomid for a set time and he finds that pressurising. I wish I knew how to solve this :-(
     
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    I'm so sorry. That has to be so frustrating, especially since you're stuck taking clomid and dealing with those side effects.

    Can you try to change the setting? Get away for a night or something around O time, but not tell him how close you are to ovulation?

    I would tell him you're going off clomid after this and see what he says.
     

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