Thanks so much everyone… you are all very kind and supportive.
Duckie, that's me! I avoid all pregnant people like the plague, and if I think someone is going to say they're pregnant, announce it, or mention TTC, I avoid that too. I am sick of being the "informed" friend without being the mother… does that make sense? I know too much about TTC, pregnancy, babies, children, without ever having done it myself. And I'm well over it. I just want it to be my turn. A BFP would be the best thing, ever, in the world.
I know it's early on, but every week, every month it doesn't work just gets me down some more.
I haven't spoken to someone who was my best friend for over 8 weeks… she got pregnant without trying, first cycle. That might make me a bad person, but I just can't do it. BUT I think about where she is at in her pregnancy every damn day and I hate it. I just so badly want it to be me and us.
Sorry for the downer.