ttc since January 2014, anyone to chat with me?

[Kaeli]

Hi, how are you?

 

[Mommabrown]

So today is CD 29 even with AF being late I am not even sure if or when she is going to come. I am afraid my worst fear has came true after our MC.

Lola you should be getting ready for all the DTD action! Lol

 

[duckie4]

i'm out again. AF showed up this morning, another short, 25 day cycle

on to cycle #10 i guess... on the other hand, i'm kind of ready to give up

 

[Mississippi03]

i'm out again. AF showed up this morning, another short, 25 day cycle

on to cycle #10 i guess... on the other hand, i'm kind of ready to give up

Sorry duckie! Im with you though.. I gave up last cycle. The only thing that has kept me is that ive been referred to a specialist.
Not even quite sure where i am in my cycle somewhere 6-8 dpo... Ff changed it on me lol but i guess i should get used to not knowing because im quitting temping lol that might drive me batty

 

[Mrs W 11]

I've given up too ladies! Maybe we should turn this into a knitting thread or something haha! We might have a higher bfp success rate!!

 

[duckie4]

i'm with you, mrs w! though i can't knit... perhaps cooking?? *sigh*

 

[Mississippi03]

Agreed lol

 

[Mommabrown]

Lol only if it's healthy so we don't get fat! lol

My cycle was 29 days this month. Close enough for normal right. We are jumping back on but not forcing sex this time. Just going to go with the flow and if it happens it happens and if not then we are ok with that too.

 

[Mrs W 11]

That's great momma brown! Healthy attitude.

I can knit but am rubbish at it! I can cook, maybe that's the way forward! Actually the week before my holiday I did juicing for breakfast and lunch every day with a healthy dinner. I did it for health reasons as I've been getting recurrent colds, coughs and throat infections, but I also lost 7lbs!!! X

 

[Mississippi03]

I dont know about everyone else but im getting tired of ttc and being disappointed every month.
Both yesterday and today ive checked cm and had either dark brown or bright red mixed in. But only when I check internally for it, never been on the tissue or anything. So confused!

 

[Mommabrown]

OH Miss I am too. I am so sick of the stress and tears and confusion. Dh is now on this Not wanting to try anymore and whatever happens happens but I am not getting any younger. I don't know if your blood tinged CM is AF or old blood from implantation as it could be either. Maybe since it is still internally it is good. Fx for you.

 

[lola33]

hi ladies ! sorry I didn't talk much this week ! crazy week at work..
Duckie, I'm sorry you're out.. but you girls shouldn't give up ! maybe we should just try to think a little less about it.. Of course, we'll see our CM, or feel our O, but no more temping for example..
Stay around, we can talk cooking, jobs, life anything else than TCC or at least not all the time
I know how much disappointing it can be.. I was 2 days late last month, and of course I thought it was my bfp.. but nope.. C6 now
Btw, I saw my doctor, he wasn't worried at all, said it takes up to a year.. told me to go do an ultrasound, on the 5th day of my next cycle,to see how my O was getting ready, and to check my ovaries since I said sometimes I get pain on the left side and I had a cyst there when I was younger.
Hopefully I won't see next cycle coming !

 

[Mommabrown]

Lola that is great that he sees every thing being good!!!! Fx for an amazing US!!

I love to cook and knit although I am shit at it. I agree anything to help keep our minds off of TTC. My boys are in LL baseball and of course Emmaleigh is a handful at times. She is picking up on new words everyday and just growing and changing everyday. So i can stay fairly busy with the rest of them.

 

[lola33]

Hi ladies!
I was thinking, FF doesn't help me at all..Not sure I'm going to continue temping.. My BBT stays low, even if I felt my O, and it's always ME guessing my O date, and FF telling me something different. It adds stress and doesn't help...So I should just trust myself.. FF is good to know if you O, but once you know you do, I guess you don't need to temp anymore..

 

[Mrs W 11]

Lola I don't temp anymore either, it just made me feel stressed and I don't see the point when I already know I ovulate x

Miss - has the bleeding gone? If so, maybe it was an implantation bleed? Your lp seems great this cycle! Fx

 

[Mississippi03]

Lola I don't temp anymore either, it just made me feel stressed and I don't see the point when I already know I ovulate x

Miss - has the bleeding gone? If so, maybe it was an implantation bleed? Your lp seems great this cycle! Fx

No it hasnt, still dark brown but has only been internal if I check. Im at the in laws but will poas when I get home just incase.

I cant really blieve my body this cycle because I tried using emerita, stopped it yesterdy as I was spotting. But im at least 12dpo now which is what I was last cycle without it.

Im not temping anymore either. Ive had four cyles in a row where ff confirmed O. I might poas to confirm O for a few because ive seemed to switched from cd 17 to around cd13

 

[Mississippi03]

Nevermind, no need! Af joined me today just as expected. Blah

 

[Mrs W 11]

Sorry miss - great lp though!! Perfectly possible to get a bfp with that lp xx

 

[lola33]

sorry AF got you, but yay for a longer LP !

 

[Mommabrown]

Ah shucks Miss. But like the others said with a LP like that you'll be getting knocked up in no time.

Lola I don't temp either. Way to much hassle and FF always was messing with me if I wasn't doing OPKs. Even then it wanted to tell me I wasn't Oing right. I quit with all of that nonsense and free ranging that shit! Ha.

Afm, well I am on Cd 7 not amping up to DTD with OH as he says he is to tired lately and ends up hurting my feelings when I am raring to go and he is just not into it. To much baby making on his end I guess. Even a man can get burnt out...is that crazy or what!